Why?

Noon wrote:

IMHO Lovehoney is an excellent community site, the emphasis is on mutual support and tollerance and in my experience the LH team take this very seriously.

If reports of posts have been made and ignored I would be very surprised and hope that Ork can tell us how many times he has used the report option.

Like I mentioned I rarely use it so not much if your after an exact number I have none.

100 at the age of 19 I would say shows a commitment issue. My Brother in law got divorced in his twenties, he could pull easily so it was a different girl every night he went out, maybe 3 a week. After six months he had to go to the doctor with mental and physical exhaustion, he was literally shagging himself to death, be careful what you dream about it may come true lol

I am sure (certain) there are outlandish claims made here but equally I think that just because I think it maynot be possible doesnt mean that it actually is impossible. A friend of mine met and had sex with three girls at one party, something I couldnt do.

 You can actually fuck your self to death you say? 

gunther wrote:

goodgirl93 wrote:

 Although i dont know what LH used to be like i totally agree that some improvements could be made, atm i dont want to post on my own thread because the last person to post on it was an arse to me. Shouldn't be that i or others should have to keep from posting. x

Goodgirl, the forum doesnt have an ignore button, but you can just ignore a post yourself, carry on as if it never happened.

 Its a good idea but i'd feel so petty like i was now being the bully to them, i dont want to bring myself down to their level. 
Maybe it'd be the simplest soloution though really id want to see them deleted from this and every other forum site in the world. 
 But as thats not going to happen :) x

i remember that guy, you could see straight through that he was a troll, also there is another 1 on here but doesnt come on here often, but apart from that i find us all a friendly bunch, and if i had a problem i would tell them on the thread

rach74 wrote:

and if i had a problem i would tell them on the thread

I would say that is key and something I have been trying to do more recently, though obviously without being upsetting - just forthright.

Ork wrote:

 You can actually fuck your self to death you say? 

Well I dont think he would actually have died (if only because he got erection issues lol) but his mental and physical health suffered.

I have been avoiding the forums lately for a couple of reasons, but one of them is because of a couple of members who have been very strongly opinionated to the point where it has seemed to come across as pure ignorance.

Once upon a time, I would have engaged these people, give them the benefit of the doubt until there is some solid ground in the conversation that they are just doing it for the sake of winding people up, upsetting people, and not for the purity of debate, and I would have e-mailed Lovehoney and done something about it to put a stop to it.

But I'm not feeling at all mentally/emotionally strong just now. Thats why I have taken a step back.

Unfortunately, I think some of the other members are in a similar boat as me and have taken a step back from the forums to avoid discord, rather than confronting these people and getting emotionally battered from it when it simply could be avoided to save ourselves. Thats how I'm feeling anyway. There is only so many times you can repeat yourself and stand up to the trolls and the people who are so strongly opinionated.

However, I cannot stress enough to other members that if you do see this going on and there is an offensive post then USE THE REPORT BUTTON. It may not stop it straight away, it may take some time, but if we all use the report a post button on the flaming or offensive or rule-breaking posts or even on the posts that don't 'nessicarily' break the rules but are clearly of aggrivating or offending nature then there is a much higher chance that something will be done about it. If Lh just get one or two reported posts to them, they may not take the same course of action as they would if 10 or more reported the same posts to them.

If you are having problems using the Chat function then click REMOVE AS FRIEND to prevent the person from contacting you. If they are breaking rules or attempting cyber with you then SEND AN EMAIL to Alice or Customer Services to notify them. Quite often the people who use the chat function for cyber are members who do not use the forums or very rarely use the forums. Lh will not be able to pick up on these rule-breakers unless you notify them. Then they can do something about it and will prevent them from doing the same thing to another fellow member.

If you are unsure about a particular member or post or feel that something should be said but no rule-breaking has really taken place then please do contact Lovehoney via e-mail.

We do normally self-moderate the forums, but sometimes Lh does intervine when needed. But far more often than not they need to be notified of something going wrong before they can intervine as the forums are rather vast and the staff are very busy, they simply don't have the time to go through the threads every morning to check for abuse etc.

Here here :)

Long time no see Avrialle, hope you're back for good?

x

Aniko. difficult issue on a forum where happily married women and cam girls post and are welcome on the same forum.

ive never had a problem on here and find most people helpful and friendly

As for the thread about the cat in someones garden, I did read that properly. And I'm sure many others did aswell. The original poster did talk about kicking the cat and considering poisoning it to make it ill. I have left my thoughts on that thread and I shall leave it at that.

I'm not up for any debates or flames at the moment. As I said before, I am avoiding posting in these forums at the moment. (I am aware I'm posting right now though.) I have bigger problems to deal with in my life at the moment and I really can't be bothered to put my energy in to fighting with the problems on here just now when I should be saving it for my own troubles just now.

yes AA that was one post i didnt agree with but didnt want to bring that one up again, but yes thats the only prob i had and i put some posts on it and then decided not to read anymore

hope your ok AA you sound down

i dont think a problem having cam girls on here gunther mixing with married women, there are single men on here and married men and dont see that as a problem

Highly_Insatiable wrote:

Here here :)

Long time no see Avrialle, hope you're back for good?

x

No, not back for good just lurking....

lol, we love a lurker :p

rach74 wrote:

i dont think a problem having cam girls on here gunther mixing with married women, there are single men on here and married men and dont see that as a problem

Not a problem as such rach but its easy to see why some new people get the wrong end of the stick.

Highly_Insatiable wrote:

lol, we love a lurker :p

I fantasise about being lurked over

lmao Gunther x

Highly_Insatiable wrote:

lmao Gunther x

Endless possibilities there H.I.

 Hey Rach. Sorry, missed your post earlier. I am a bit down, found out I have some form of arthritis in my knees and hips. In pain constantly and I'm struggling to come to terms with it. Not posting as my sex drive has reduced to zilch and seems I have little to contribute to a sex and sex toy forum just now.

Thankyou for asking though, means the world to me. ((hugs))

I may be back in the future and posting properly again, but while I'm feeling like this there is little point getting too involved with anything really. I'm seeking help and gaining advice and knowledge, but I do feel pretty crap. 

Anyway. Love to all. xx