Hi Ronnie, Im a nurse and I have only ever heard of this, never met anyone with it even in hospital; and I never had any experiences of it, heres some link I have found to try and help you though.
Here is a forum link of other sufferers, this may help you hun, its always good to know your not alone in this
http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=346707
This one seems to explain it really well.
http://www.althysterectomy.org/adenomyosis.htm
Here is one with a Dr explaining it.
http://www.alternativesurgery.com/education/adenomyosis/
Understanding the basics.
http://www.endometriosistreatment.org/html/adenomyosis.html
Another mentions a few treatments.
http://www.2womenshealth.com/Adenomyosis-Diagnosis-Treatment.htm
I also found a single thread on another forum of another sufferer, maybe you could add your story too.
You can contact any of the above sites for help and advice too and Im sure they would put you intouch with more women who have it, as that really helps to hear other point of views.
I really hope you get the help and advice you need, NHS direct are amazing people, you can call them 24 hours a day for advice 0845 4647
http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/
Good luck huny I hope you find the answers you need hugs*