Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening Part 7

Thanks everyone.

@Ad it does make a huge difference to get a Doctor who understands. You will probably find this shocking but I have never seen a Rheumatologist! The hospital Doc (neurologist) thinks I should and then will possibly be able to get referred to the HMS clinic, can only get referred to there by a rhematologist. I got diagnosed by a surgeon that I seen when I kept dislocating my shoulder, the physio he sent me too agreed, I was given physio, pain meds and basically told to get on with it, shocking I know. Never got the operation on my shoulder, as you probably know operations tend not to be the best road to go down when you have HMS. My GP is terrible, he seems to know very little about it.

Ad good to hear you are feeling better mentally, it helps loads!

Was feeling really positive earlier with how well the hospital went but now feel like I'm on a right downer. It's probably just because I'm in need of my my b12 injection, get it tomorrow so hopefully that will perk me up, mood and energy wise.

Just off to nip the dog out then bed for me I think. x

Well I hope you get the support you now need and if you can get referred on then you can get better access to what you need :)

Maybe you could send your GP some info too to help him understand! My GP has a daughter with HMS and another patient in the practise too so I'm pretty lucky!

Hope you feel a bit more positive and less fatigued tomorrow lovely!

Adx

Thanks Ad and thanks for the other night too, really helped a lot! x

sexy little minx wrote:

Thanks Ad and thanks for the other night too, really helped a lot! x

I'm glad :) you've helped me out a lot lately when I've been struggling with these flare ups so if I can help a little in return I'm glad :)

Adx

I had all good intentions of going to bed early, but I couldn't get to sleep . Now I am laying here bored and frustrated at myself because I know I could do with catching up on sleep :(

L-Y try not to worry about sleeping too much because you'll make it impossible.

If you're trying to sleep for more than 20 minutes, get out of bed, get a class of water and read for 20 minutes then try again. Try some breathing exercises to relax and clear your mind - breath in deeply through your nose and exhale through your mouth making each breath last 3 seconds in and 3 seconds out to begin with and increasing that time a little so each breath gets deeper and slower. Count breaths too to distract your brain.

If you're still struggling try going through each body part tensing then relaxing and finally tense your whole body then relax and do the breathing exercises again.

And a few drops of lavander on the pillow case helps too!

Adx

Morning ,

Thanks AD , I did eventually get to sleep but now I am feeling very tired . I will remember your ideas incase I struggle to sleep again , which I am sure I will , it's something that happens most nights .

How is everyone today ?

xL-Yx

Morning everyone

really tired today **yawn**

cup of tea anyone?

Ooh yes please Boobaloo , milk and no sugar please :)

How are you ?

xL-Yx

Morning.

Tired here too this morning. Having a quick cuppa before nipping the dog out the off for my b12 jag.

I'm going to need a boost of energy, busy day ahead. Need to get my boys hair cut and make sure he has got everything ready for going back to school tomorrow amongst other things.

Better get a move on! x

Lookin - Yummy wrote:

Ooh yes please Boobaloo , milk and no sugar please :)

How are you ?

xL-Yx

Other than been tired I am good, we are taking the kids away to my Mums caravan next week so looking fwd to the break and have all my school stuff done for my eldest for next year. Could do with something to do with them today though. How are you? Did you get much sleep in the end?

**passes tea**

** accepts tea ** Thanks hun .

Yes I did get to sleep ..... eventually . Just feeling tired now . Have pain in my knee too . Got quite a bit to do today but no energy to do it with , haha .

The sun is shining ! That's a bonus :)

I have my daughters uniform sorted , just need to get the shoes.

xL-Yx

Morning everyone :) hope everyones ok?

good morning all! Today has the potential to be a fun filled fantastic day, a LH should be arriving on my doorstep. I cant wait!!
How are you all doing?

Morning everyone.

Had a bit of a late night as I was composing and sent a very lengthy email to my mrs outlining that I want her to try and be more sexually open and to tell me anything at all she wants to try no matter if she thinks I would look at her like she was filthy etc which I wouldn't.

I opened the batting with a few things I'd like us to try that I'm too embarrassed to try and put in some links to sex toys on this site she might like. I also included a link to the blog post on Bdsm for vanilla lovers as I wonder if this is an area she might enjoy.

I put no pressure on her but asked to have a good think about it and write back. I hope it goes well!

Cup of tea would work wonders here as well. Tummy is a bit off this morning. Not sure if it's lack of sleep or the glass of wine last night. Maybe nerves actually come to think of it what reaction I'll get to the email.

Jimeee- hope you enjoy your delivery! Mind sharing what your expecting??

 Morning all! PMSing like crazy today, but all is well. I've had a school girl costume + wig to surprise the other half with since last month and think I'll do that today, we had some fantastic sex last night after a bit of a drought so I'm hoping things are on a up. EDIT: Phone call from the other half, no surprise tonight he has to go and find out where he's working for a new job. Grah.

Ad, great to see you're feeling positive despite the pain. 

Boobaloo, when I babysit I often make jumping origami frogs with the kids. If you've got some old paper and some floor space it can be quite good fun. Both the creative side of making them and decorating them, the fact they've learnt something they can show off at school and then just the playing with them - races, how high they can jump, getting them to jump into things etc. I hope you have a fab day x

Jimeee, I hope your parcel arrives soon! I've got one due too, but it's only stockings and massage oil. 

BP, that sounds like a good thing to have done. Sometimes it's much easier to express things via the written word, plus it'll give her more space to feel able to react to it hopefully. I hope your wife does now confide with you.

Quick tea break time . Having a busy morning doing the housework and waiting for the postman to bring me a parcel .

xL-Yx

Chimera - interesting that your horny when you have PMS. My oh is far from it. Would you abandon your plans if your period started or do you just have messy sex?

LY - expecting to have a tea break soon too. Pass the biscuits! Are you expecting something naughty or nice today from postie? Last think I got parcel wise was two books which I'm steaming through as such a great read!

I'd have messy sex, my other half says it feels 'tingly'! It's not something that puts either of us off, not squeamish and I don't find it uncomfortable. I'm always horny around my period, it makes me very sensitive as well as very turned on, so I find sex really good around it. The only problem is is that it tends to make heighten my general health problems so I have a lot of joint paint etc, which obvously doesn't work so well for sex!