RANT ALERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bollocks! That is all

 Sharry,  I wear a 38 g cup and I've found a site where I can buy them online, and matching panties as well

I've ordered quite a few from their without any problems 

I'd be happy to pass on the name to you,  don't think we're supposed to do it on here are we?

 Why do people turn up to lectures, only to talk the entire way through? Two hours after walking into the lecture theatre, I can tell you almost nothing about the development of the modern prison, but am an expert on red hair dye. 

The two girls in question shouldn't even have been thinking about dying their hair red, as it would clash abominably with their orange skin, but no, it had to be discussed. At length. Purely on the merits of L'Oreal versus Schwarzkopf. 

Seriously, what is there even to say about it? How do you even HAVE a two-hour long conversation about hair dye? Just ARGH.

I had the same cheer_up! A whole day workshop that was a complete waste of time attending as these two girls talked over the whole thing and the person giving the talk was too nervous to say anything. This is despite lots of glares hinting too shutup. Attendance wasn't marked, why could they not just fuck off and miss it rather than ruining it for all of us! I struggle with maths anyway, I was hoping the stats workshop would have been helpful but no, I'm non the wiser!

My rant is that my flare up was improving then hit me like a ton of bricks yesterday evening and got worse again making me miss my lecture this morning and making my day really difficult. Especially with the cutting cold, I'm in agony right now and not due any more pain killers just yet!

Adx

Dee_licious333 wrote:

Hi Sharry, well i suppose when you are that big, it can pull on your shoulders and chests and cause all sorts of issues. Glad it was a good outcome in that you didnt have any cancer there. Why dont they ever do beautiful underwear for large breasted and just large girls in general? Do they think we like big mamma panties and pointed `matron' bras? I dont think much is going to change soon. So Sharry, does that mean you have no choice but to wear bras now? And has wearing that awful looking bra helped you experience less pain?

Yep, I have to wear bras most of teh time now. I don't have to wear them in bed, thank goodness, but it has helped relieve some of the discoomfort. I'd kind of come to that conclusion before going for the mamogram anyway and had started wearing tehm already. Just wish they'd make some nice ones that aren't wired... the whole chest wall is more sensitive so wires press on my ribs and exacerbate the problem. Oh well, it was a much better outcome than it could have been, esp with the family history.   

The other thing is they have to be firm support, which doesn't help! 

Plain Jane wrote:

 Sharry,  I wear a 38 g cup and I've found a site where I can buy them online, and matching panties as well

I've ordered quite a few from their without any problems 

I'd be happy to pass on the name to you,  don't think we're supposed to do it on here are we?

 Is it Bravisimo? There's a few others I've tried as well and the same problem with them all.  I've got a larger back size than they tend to go up to (44) when I looked in the past. Thanks anyway. 

sharry wrote:

Plain Jane wrote:

 Sharry,  I wear a 38 g cup and I've found a site where I can buy them online, and matching panties as well

I've ordered quite a few from their without any problems 

I'd be happy to pass on the name to you,  don't think we're supposed to do it on here are we?

 Is it Bravisimo? There's a few others I've tried as well and the same problem with them all.  I've got a larger back size than they tend to go up to (44) when I looked in the past. Thanks anyway. 

I buy mine from Figleaves, from their just peachy range,  it might be worth just talking to them and seeing what they have got  and also  Curvisa go up to a 48E in some quite pretty ones   The customer support on both of these sites is pretty good 

My rant is .... people at the check out .. who decide to use their `out of bloody date' coupons .. and refuse to accept they are out of date and will continue for the next 5mins arguing with the cashier.. just because they are bloody tight fisted b**tards!! sorry but that really does piss me off! Not to mention slow drivers.. i mean .. should they be allowed on the road even??!!! Rant over ........... for now!!

Think its time to pop down to the lovehoney arms and get a `stiff' drink!!! Whos joining me??

cheer_up wrote:

 Why do people turn up to lectures, only to talk the entire way through? 

I have the same thing.  working in a dedicated classroom on one of the computers and three others turn up and have massive conversations about utter shite while im trying to work. just go to the pub down the street or the atrium!

Dee_licious333 wrote:

My rant is .... people at the check out .. who decide to use their `out of bloody date' coupons .. and refuse to accept they are out of date and will continue for the next 5mins arguing with the cashier.. just because they are bloody tight fisted b**tards!! sorry but that really does piss me off! Not to mention slow drivers.. i mean .. should they be allowed on the road even??!!! Rant over ........... for now!!

Think its time to pop down to the lovehoney arms and get a `stiff' drink!!! Whos joining me??

I'm paranoid about checking the expiry dates four hundred times precisely because I'm terrified of being in that kind of situation.  Although I did stand by to argue my case once: I get the Healthy Start vouchers - goverment vouchers that I get for having a kid under 5, redeemable against fresh fruit and veg and cow's milk, to encourage feeding them 'real' food - and once tried using them in a local shop, who did accept them, the day before the expiry.  I was then given a dress-down by the owner who was on till, because apparently the fund people won't accept them off the shopkeepers after that expiry date (a lie), so I'm actually not allowed to spend them more than a week before the date (another lie).  Total bullshit, and I refused to pay over £6 for veg that I was entitled to get, so he did take them in the end, but I was really upset and embarassed by it as people started backing up behind me.  </retrospective rant>

Plain Jane wrote:

sharry wrote:

Plain Jane wrote:

 Sharry,  I wear a 38 g cup and I've found a site where I can buy them online, and matching panties as well

I've ordered quite a few from their without any problems 

I'd be happy to pass on the name to you,  don't think we're supposed to do it on here are we?

 Is it Bravisimo? There's a few others I've tried as well and the same problem with them all.  I've got a larger back size than they tend to go up to (44) when I looked in the past. Thanks anyway. 

 

I buy mine from Figleaves, from their just peachy range,  it might be worth just talking to them and seeing what they have got  and also  Curvisa go up to a 48E in some quite pretty ones   The customer support on both of these sites is pretty good 

Had a look on there too thanks, problem I have is that if they have my back size they dont do my cup size or vice versa, or they only have underwired bras, which I can't wear as they rest on my chest wall/ribs and aggravate the nerves there... bloomin useless. No-one seems to make pretty soft cup bras. 

I'm going to have another look though as it's a while since I was on there. 

 http://www.curvissa.co.uk/Petite-Fleur-Pack-of-2-Support-Bras/productdisplay.stm?An=681&A=733666_48DD&N=678+4294963575+739+775+746&Au=P_MasterItem&Nu=P_M

I hope these might help  

Plain Jane wrote:

 http://www.curvissa.co.uk/Petite-Fleur-Pack-of-2-Support-Bras/productdisplay.stm?An=681&A=733666_48DD&N=678+4294963575+739+775+746&Au=P_MasterItem&Nu=P_M

I hope these might help  

Ah thanks, I've just bought a load but there's a couple of nice pairs on there that I'll keep in mind for the future. Thanks Plain Jane. 

Gah work is crap, men are crap, women are head cases, my date just bailed on me for a prettier version, my family forgot my birthday coming up and booked a holiday away,  and i'm not feeling today at all. At least The Walking Dead is back on tonight and i can window shop on here until my pay comes through :)

Meh... end rant lol :P

My date has cancelled too HGL, no idea if it's for a prettier version but most probably, I'm a total cynic with excuses... and I guess my rant is why do people think it's ok to let people down at short notice? I have no idea if the cancellation reason is genuine or not, but it still feels pretty god damn shitty... Can't decide if I'm being strung along or not, but then can't understand what the point in that would be, just feel well and truly f**ked off...

The last two weeks have just been so utterly, utterly crap, I was really looking forward to tonight, and now I'm once again alone, feeling so gutted in the let down....

Awww Miss T and Horny, its not nice when people let you down at all. Just think you escaped someone you cannot rely on! Many more dates to come i am sure!! Good luck girls xx

*Hugs* MTC, feeling it too. Thanks Dee-lic' xx

 Arrgh! Need to pay my credit card but the website is down!!!!

 Have i got a fucking tattoo on my forehead that states - 

IDIOT + BITCH???

WHY ARE THE COUNCIL SO SHIT?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

Last Monday, had a surprise visit from two workment apparently scheduled to do the annual gas safety check, just as I was going out the door, so they told me to ring up and make another appointment.  The letter informing me of their visit came the following Thursday (useful!), which is normal for the coucil here: if they send you a letter notifying you of the appointment, you're lucky if it's only a couple of days late, think I've had maybe one in four years that came before the workmen.  I tried ringing a few times, but no one answers the phone, so next i hear of it is when I arrive home today to a letter saying I've missed a second appointment and they'll turn off my ghas or force entry if I don't sort it out!  Best bit is that this letter states it's "as previously notified" that they'd come today (was it fuck!), and they'd written a time of 9.15 on it, when I'd only been out of the house between 11.30 and 3.15, so not only are the office-twats incapable of posting mail or answering phones, but the workmen are lying for some unfathomable reason!

That plus the draftproofing dudes arrived just as i was heading out, refused to even wait twenty minutes while I dropped off the wee one, and said I'd have to make another appointment.  guess what, same number.

So I called the number again, and waited and waited and after over an hour got cut off becuase the office had shut.  time i had to pay for, mind, because god forbid they have a freephone number.  I've spent a total of just udner three hours in their queues in the past week, and still not spoken to anyone.

And on top of all that, I was due to get extraction fans fitted in the kitchen and bathroom, as currently both have zero ventilation, which is constituted an urgent issue, especially as I have a toddler who has been having health issues due to the mold created by this lack of ventilation, and because it means the building isn't up to code without them, but I've been waiting since July and all I've heard is in November a dude did a core-test on the walls (?) which apparently passed, and he assured me I'd be hearing within a few weeks, and then more silence. 

They do not give a shit about anyone, or about doing their jobs.  It's disgusting.  Snarky e-mail is sent, and I've informed them that I'm not wasting any more money calling a number that clearly is not manned; they can contact me, give me an alternative number to call, or I'll be contacting the councillor next week and start spamming the emergency out of hours number until I get someone who'll deal with it.  I am sick of stressing myself out and letting my daughter's health suffer and wasting time and money on phone calls all because they're too shit to do basic admin work.