• Help a frightened little rabbit

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    That would be me.

    I've just started seeing someone new after leaving a very dry vanilla long term relationship. If I had to liken our sex life to a food it would be a Farley's Rusk.

    I'm 28, I have a pretty good body (oh god I really hope I do) apart from the odd pinch of cellulite but otherwise I look younger than I am physically. I'm pretty lean as a came off the pill and lost a LOAD of weight but I still have some curves - little ribcage and waist: 30D to DD (cheap brands!) and 8-10 on the hips + abs... kinda.

    My new man and I have had lots and lots of foreplay but only had sex once which was awesome but we had to be quiet as his housemate was in. So we know each others bodies quite well to touch and taste. We're planning a big night in and some holidays so... I'm wondering what to wear. I have a whole heap of sexy nighties that I bought when with my ex which were ignored... I like stockings and flattering underwear. I just don't know how much is too much! I don't want to over do it. But I do want to make an effort. I'm a bit scared. It's been a really long time.

    He's a leg and bum man. Help me!!

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    im sure he will be just as nervous....why not ask him to buy you something?

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    how about something cutie sexy rather than full on peephole and crotchless. perhaps something like a cami and short set

    maybe this is the pink

    www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21052

    or

    www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24833

    maybe just stick to some really nice matching bra and knicker set for the first time and crank it up from there.

    i'm sure you'll be fine. x

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    Bit boring but I've gone for this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17014

    and this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26109

    And a new bra and knicker set from elsewhere. Fingers crossed!

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    I was going to say that it's better to find out what your man's taste is. What one man might think is sexy, another might think is OTT. That said, what you've chosen is sensible, so best of luck! Oh.... and if you re-read your opening to the thread, you might agree that you sound wracked by self-doubt about your body. OK, typical woman :) ..... but I'm sure you can relax about it. I reckon you've got him hook, line and sinker!

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    Nice bra and knicker set some stockings and you cant go wrong he will love your legs in stockings , maybe a thong to show off your peachy bum .

    Have fun enjoy just because your ex didnt like it dont go in with that mind set , he is different hes wants new things try new things together and dress up as he may find it a real turn on , it hard esp if your ex turned his nose up at if . Be confident, feel sexy as you will look dam hot and he will love whatever you wear as he knows it will be on the bedroom floor in know time . Have fun

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    Not boring at all Honeybadger. That looks gorgeous, elegant and sexy without being too over the top. Lovely. The most sexy thing you can show is confidence and I admit, in a newish relationship most of us have these same worries and thoughts but I bet you you could wear an old tee shirt and still be sexy if YOU feel sexy and more confident so definitely choose something not just for him but for you. I know myself that if the item has zero breast support or rides half way up my belly I feel ridiculous and not sexy. I think you chose very well x Good luck

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    Just thought I'd let you know that the lace kimono was a huge hit... with some lipstick red heels. It's been a long time since anyone reacted to me like that. Massive ego boost!! I felt fantastic.

    I changed my username BTW sorry for any confusion!

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    tigerfly wrote:

    Just thought I'd let you know that the lace kimono was a huge hit... with some lipstick red heels. It's been a long time since anyone reacted to me like that. Massive ego boost!! I felt fantastic.

    I changed my username BTW sorry for any confusion!

    Good one TF. Sounds sensational ! What a very lucky boy !

    Damn him

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    Aww thank you! I felt like myself again, I felt soooo sexy when his jaw hit the floor. Or rather the bottom of the bath, because that's where he was :)

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    tigerfly wrote:

    Just thought I'd let you know that the lace kimono was a huge hit... with some lipstick red heels. It's been a long time since anyone reacted to me like that. Massive ego boost!! I felt fantastic.

    I changed my username BTW sorry for any confusion!

    Thats fab job done enjoy it hunni and use the ego boost for you next thing xx

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    Thank you everyone! xxx

    Next on my wishlist is this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25397 I'm going to wear it under a demure little outfit and lure him into a quiet corner of the library.

    LH created a monster.

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    He will love it very sexy

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    I bet he had the quickest bath in the history of baths after you walked in lol

    Nice one Tigerfly x

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    tigerfly wrote:

    Thank you everyone! xxx

    Next on my wishlist is this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25397 I'm going to wear it under a demure little outfit and lure him into a quiet corner of the library.

    LH created a monster.

    What a beautiful product, you will look lovely in it, he certainly won't be reading any books.

    Have a great time tigerfly.

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