shellyboo wrote:
diamonds wrote:
lol his got more kinky the longer weve been togther, apperantly im the most kinkyist GF his ever had lol. dunno if i should be proud of that or not ! (i am though lol) and his getting more and more willing to try new stuff apart from this tieing up and talking dirty bussiness, he dont mind me tieing him up though!
the good thing about my OH is that we talk about sex and what we'd like to try and stuff (more so the last few months, since his got his own place) and if i seem really into an idea and really really want to try it he say ok were do it. so maybe i should bring this up a bit more.
Dxx
Well then, you're onto a good thing! One link I found really helpful when I was trying to explain to my ex what I wanted him to do and why was this: http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdniceguy.html
It's a BDSM guide for nice guys! Obviously you're not talking about full D/s and bondage, but the basic mental principles are the same. Have a read, see if something clicks for you... it definitely helped me!
ooh the bdsm bit of that site is really good.. not that my OH needs much coaxing in that direction to be fair, but it makes for a good read... except my mind has gone a bit one-tracked now...