What undies are you wearing today?

JayGee wrote:

I'm not even dressed yet - I'm sitting here in blue Lidl long johns and a Robbie Williams t-shirt

Corrrr JG! Now yer talking girl

SG69 x

im in my pjs again :P lol

Dxx

none i win!!!! <3

Now why did l know you were going to say that !!!! l just did you know ha ha.

TB

long johns and a vest  had to keep warm early morning dog walking

None today!

SG69

Plain black boxers. My drawer is full of them so most days are the same. There isn't a great deal of choice for blokes really.

None as of yet, still in my pjs lol..

xx

mybadx wrote:

None as of yet, still in my pjs lol..

xx

snap, still in mine aswell! lol

Dxx

None! It's the summer

My Mr Bump ones. =P

They're a light turquoise colour with white stars and of course Mr Bump on the front and his name on the back. =P

white lace boy shorts today, last night was a very dirty crutchless and open cupped number in black lace it went down very well indeed with the OH :P

Dxx

currently being quite childish is a pair of hello kitty girl boxers lol... speaking of crotchless though diamonds, i must stop chickening out of wearing the pair i bought sometime.. the OH has expressed his approval at the idea lol

LivingFire wrote:

currently being quite childish is a pair of hello kitty girl boxers lol... speaking of crotchless though diamonds, i must stop chickening out of wearing the pair i bought sometime.. the OH has expressed his approval at the idea lol

ive got 2 things that are crotchless and both was bought for me by the OH, last night was only the scond time ive actually worn crotchless undies and it went down better this time as i wasnt drunk like the last :P lol

i kinda feel weird bout wearing them, like im really dirty sort of thing but then that soon starts becoming part of the fun, i think its all to do with the old stigma about them. but hey its onlt me and the OH (and the OA now) who knows about them lol.

Dxx

im really drawn to the 'dirty'/'slutty' thing, i think they'd make it all feel naughtier and im totally up for that... ;)

I've got cotton gingham ones on today... toying with wearing none for my date though :P

LivingFire wrote:

im really drawn to the 'dirty'/'slutty' thing, i think they'd make it all feel naughtier and im totally up for that... ;)

i wish i could get my OH to call me the above names when were have naughtyness, but he just cant he says its just not him. then again at the start he couldnt spank me and he always does now, i dont even have to say anything he just does it :P.

just been looking at some bondge stuff, i really want me and him to try that a bit more just dunno how i can. maybe just buy the under the bed kit and then see what happens? lol

Dxx

diamonds wrote:

LivingFire wrote:

im really drawn to the 'dirty'/'slutty' thing, i think they'd make it all feel naughtier and im totally up for that... ;)

i wish i could get my OH to call me the above names when were have naughtyness, but he just cant he says its just not him. then again at the start he couldnt spank me and he always does now, i dont even have to say anything he just does it :P.

just been looking at some bondge stuff, i really want me and him to try that a bit more just dunno how i can. maybe just buy the under the bed kit and then see what happens? lol

Dxx

That's always disappointing... I had a bf like that before, he really wasn't into even mild d/s, couldn't bring himself to disrespect me or hurt me... even though I wanted him too!

In the end, he did venture a little way into it, talking dirty, which was great fun :) I just sort of left him to it, kept being as whorish as I could be (lol) and leading him into it in the heat of the moment... asking him "am I your good little slut?" and the like.

Hope he comes round, diamonds! (pun not intended :P)

shellyboo wrote:

diamonds wrote:

LivingFire wrote:

im really drawn to the 'dirty'/'slutty' thing, i think they'd make it all feel naughtier and im totally up for that... ;)

i wish i could get my OH to call me the above names when were have naughtyness, but he just cant he says its just not him. then again at the start he couldnt spank me and he always does now, i dont even have to say anything he just does it :P.

just been looking at some bondge stuff, i really want me and him to try that a bit more just dunno how i can. maybe just buy the under the bed kit and then see what happens? lol

Dxx

That's always disappointing... I had a bf like that before, he really wasn't into even mild d/s, couldn't bring himself to disrespect me or hurt me... even though I wanted him too!

In the end, he did venture a little way into it, talking dirty, which was great fun :) I just sort of left him to it, kept being as whorish as I could be (lol) and leading him into it in the heat of the moment... asking him "am I your good little slut?" and the like.

Hope he comes round, diamonds! (pun not intended :P)

lol his got more kinky the longer weve been togther, apperantly im the most kinkyist GF his ever had lol. dunno if i should be proud of that or not ! (i am though lol) and his getting more and more willing to try new stuff apart from this tieing up and talking dirty bussiness, he dont mind me tieing him up though!

the good thing about my OH is that we talk about sex and what we'd like to try and stuff (more so the last few months, since his got his own place) and if i seem really into an idea and really really want to try it he say ok were do it. so maybe i should bring this up a bit more.

Dxx

diamonds wrote:

lol his got more kinky the longer weve been togther, apperantly im the most kinkyist GF his ever had lol. dunno if i should be proud of that or not ! (i am though lol) and his getting more and more willing to try new stuff apart from this tieing up and talking dirty bussiness, he dont mind me tieing him up though!

the good thing about my OH is that we talk about sex and what we'd like to try and stuff (more so the last few months, since his got his own place) and if i seem really into an idea and really really want to try it he say ok were do it. so maybe i should bring this up a bit more.

Dxx

Well then, you're onto a good thing! One link I found really helpful when I was trying to explain to my ex what I wanted him to do and why was this: http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdniceguy.html

It's a BDSM guide for nice guys! Obviously you're not talking about full D/s and bondage, but the basic mental principles are the same. Have a read, see if something clicks for you... it definitely helped me!