Thats why I'm not so bothered about Valentines, Rose hip. Why should there be only one day in a year where partners express their love for eachother when they should do it everyday, or at least some of the time - but more than one day a year!
I'd kinda like to put romance in to action, rose petals on the bed, an sensual massage, something romantic and sensual that we normally wouldn't do. But it never really works that way, and with one specified day it means that we both HAVE to be in the right mood, which is normally quite rare for us, especially when we both suffer chronic pain.
But a card is very important to me. As I said, I love to add it to my box of special things. I have a load of valentines cards in there, some letters, some bits and bobs, random little things that seem a bit daft to some people but mean lots to me.