Undressing the man

Hi all,

I have this fantasy in my head and it starts off with slowly undressing my OH.

In my fantasy he's wearing a shirt, tie and trousers - basically a suit.

I've read a couple of articles on the tinterweb including this one - 

http://www.howtodothings.com/how-to-undress-a-man

And one from cosmo which I like, but don't entirely understand how to go about it - 

Put his wardrobe to work: Spike up the action by turning his clothing into passion props. Take his shirt, for example. As you tantalizingly pull it off his shoulders, don't toss it. Instead, keep hold of it as it drapes down his back, barely touching his skin. Then grab his wrists and tie him up with the shirtsleeves. Be creative -- he won't complain. 

I did read another tip I liked: undo his belt, unbutton his button and slide his zip down with your teeth whilst glancing up at his face. In my mind this would be HOT! You'd have the opportunity to breathe on and tease his cock whilst not actually touching him.

So, my question is:

Ladies, do you have any hints or tips for things that you enjoy doing when undressing your man.

Men, is there something you'd love your OH to do OR something you would love them to do?

Any tips people? 

Angel x

Ooo! Good question.

For me, when undressing a man, it's all about eye contact and the glances down at the flesh you expose  - and the expression on your face. Using your nails to slighly drag across the skin as you remove the top is hot. A shirt pulled down from the shoulders so that it traps the arms is great.

Undoing the belt and then the button - pause to tease with your fingertip dipping into the trousers before unfastening them properly.

The bit I have never mastered yet - is a sexy way to get the trousers all the way off past the feet - and never managed sexy sock removal either - lol

To be honest, my OH is quite simple minded when it comes to clothes with the fact that he prefers me naked.

I like the idea of undressing him too. I think those shirts that easily rip will make for a nice hot session. I like the idea of just being the dominant one and taking him. I think he may like doing that to me too lol. You could also use the spare fabric to tie his wrists etc.

I don't really fuss all that much with foreplay- like teasingly taking his clothes off or him me because we just literally jump on eachother. Although, I like playing with him when he's clothed and teasing him like that.

As for tips from magazine- I find them quite mechanical. I say go with the flow and yes, the eyes play a big part in seducing a guy so as long as you look up at him, tantalisingly, I doubt he'd be that interested in how you undress him. =]

Oohhh I like the nails idea, lightly dragging across skin. Yummy!

I don't get the trapping hands bit. Do you not unbutton all the way down and then push it back off of his shoulders. I really like the idea of trapping his hands but I don't get it!!

far too luxurious for me ....

always been in far too much of a hurry - he (ex) usually always just stripped down himself ...

although I do like the idea of stripping whoever comes into my life next .......

Has anyone else got any ideas?

I want to be able to trap his hands with his shirt without him realising that's what I'm doing but I just don't get how I'm easily going to be able to do this.

Or, do you all rip your OH's clothes off, sod the foreplay undressing LOL x

Dirty Red Angel wrote:

I want to be able to trap his hands with his shirt without him realising that's what I'm doing but I just don't get how I'm easily going to be able to do this.

It's a bit hard to explain. It more traps his arms than his hands. If you unbutton the shirt and then pull it down from his shoulders stopping when the shoulders of the get just past the elbow - it makes it hard for him to bring his arms around the front. If you leave the cuffs buttoned it means it's hard for him to just wiggle it off. If the cuffs of the shirt are tight enough, you can also peel the shirt off so the sleeves turn inside out and hang off the end of his arms - then quickly wrap it into a knot that holds his hands together.

I hope that kind of makes sense.

Xx

 I have been known to approach from behind, start as a cuddle and then get the hands deep in those trouser pockets, that usually gets their attention! Then you can pull the shirt up with your teeth and kiss their back as well. Undo the belt and trouser button and really tease with your hands before you move to the front, the trouser zip with the teeth is really hot! Undressing from behind is quite a turn on especially if when you do move round the front you've got something uber sexy that they wouldnt be expecting you to wear on ;O)

Honeytongue wrote:

Dirty Red Angel wrote:

I want to be able to trap his hands with his shirt without him realising that's what I'm doing but I just don't get how I'm easily going to be able to do this.

It's a bit hard to explain. It more traps his arms than his hands. If you unbutton the shirt and then pull it down from his shoulders stopping when the shoulders of the get just past the elbow - it makes it hard for him to bring his arms around the front. If you leave the cuffs buttoned it means it's hard for him to just wiggle it off. If the cuffs of the shirt are tight enough, you can also peel the shirt off so the sleeves turn inside out and hang off the end of his arms - then quickly wrap it into a knot that holds his hands together.

I hope that kind of makes sense.

Xx

Ohh yes, this gives a better idea. Thank you! x