• Dress me for a fetish event!

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    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
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    So me and the OH went to our first fetish event last night and totally loved it. We've both been invited back to their next event which is their biggest event of the year and we've been told to dress to impress.

    Now the bare minimum is to wear all black and last night I wore this dress this
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32835
    with some 60 denier hold ups and this bra
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24512

    But of course the next event is dress to impress. I could wear the same outfit again but where's the fun in that ;)

    So if anyone fancies themselves as a personal shopper or kinky fashionista here's my pointers:
    - I take about a size 16-18
    - I prefer not to wear rubber or latex as they're uncomfortable during play
    - I'm about 5"8 so don't want anything too short or exposed that I couldn't cover up as we usually have a drink in the venues bar first
    - Something fairly easy removed

    Thank you lovelys! :)

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    Is your avatar a rope harness?
    How about wearing some type of homemade rope garment, but cover it with something less conspicuous for the prekink drink?

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    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
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    Sum Sub wrote:

    Is your avatar a rope harness?
    How about wearing some type of homemade rope garment, but cover it with something less conspicuous for the prekink drink?

    It is a rope harness but we'd usually make one of those as part of a scene once we're in the dungeon. It's good to have others watch technique with us still being newbies as they can give pointers afterwards. I like the idea though :)

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    I have a few idea. Hopefully they'll help. I'm not very comfortable being naked in public so my ideas will reflect that since I was thinking about what kinds of things I would go for. By the end of the night, I don't really care about being covered up but I like being able to undress in small increments.

    I like this dress. It's short enough to be hiked up for spankings and nipples are easily accessible http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26778

    This one is cheaper and would be easy to remove http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33909 http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33911

    I've only just seen this but I love it: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31133 Stockings and a shirt over the top for pre-drinks (maybe with a wide belt as you won't be able to tuck the shirt in) and then just remove the shirt and you are ready to play.

    Underwear:

    Crotchless or spanking pants allow you to be that little bit more covered if you are shy about getting naked in public.

    I like the way these frame the bum http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26252

    Crotchless/thong tights are another option http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17202

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    linda2008 [sign in to see picture]
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    i do have this i wear when attending fetish events at local club

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24509

    also these http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24509

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    JM88 [sign in to see picture]
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    The first time I went to a fetish event I wore sexy undies, suspender belt and stockings. As I was nervous I also bought a black top from the high street that I guess you would wear with leggings as it has a huge slit in it but I wore it as a dress. It looked sexy but still covering.

    maybe you could look for a black wrap dress for the pre drinks, something that could easily be whipped off for play?

    I personally love a corset and I try and wear one of those, with a nice thong and stockings. I opt for a front fastening one or zip up so I can easily take it off.

    I was exactly the same as you but now I've been fully naked in front of a group of people and not batted an eyelid!

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    Hey! I just saw this and think it'll look really flattering

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35925

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    I have this and was told last weekend that it has a great fetish look, though I stayed out of the dungeon that night http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26778 it's comfortable too.

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    MondaySixteenth wrote:

    So me and the OH went to our first fetish event last night and totally loved it. We've both been invited back to their next event which is their biggest event of the year and we've been told to dress to impress.

    Now the bare minimum is to wear all black and last night I wore this dress this
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32835
    with some 60 denier hold ups and this bra
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24512

    But of course the next event is dress to impress. I could wear the same outfit again but where's the fun in that ;)

    So if anyone fancies themselves as a personal shopper or kinky fashionista here's my pointers:
    - I take about a size 16-18
    - I prefer not to wear rubber or latex as they're uncomfortable during play
    - I'm about 5"8 so don't want anything too short or exposed that I couldn't cover up as we usually have a drink in the venues bar first
    - Something fairly easy removed

    Thank you lovelys! :)

    I am sure you will look great in whatever you finally decide to wear.Have fun.

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    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
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    Onlyones wrote:

    MondaySixteenth wrote:

    So me and the OH went to our first fetish event last night and totally loved it. We've both been invited back to their next event which is their biggest event of the year and we've been told to dress to impress.

    Now the bare minimum is to wear all black and last night I wore this dress this
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32835
    with some 60 denier hold ups and this bra
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24512

    But of course the next event is dress to impress. I could wear the same outfit again but where's the fun in that ;)

    So if anyone fancies themselves as a personal shopper or kinky fashionista here's my pointers:
    - I take about a size 16-18
    - I prefer not to wear rubber or latex as they're uncomfortable during play
    - I'm about 5"8 so don't want anything too short or exposed that I couldn't cover up as we usually have a drink in the venues bar first
    - Something fairly easy removed

    Thank you lovelys! :)

    I am sure you will look great in whatever you finally decide to wear.Have fun.

    Aw you're too sweet :) I'll have plenty fun!

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    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
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    Friday13 wrote:

    I have a few idea. Hopefully they'll help. I'm not very comfortable being naked in public so my ideas will reflect that since I was thinking about what kinds of things I would go for. By the end of the night, I don't really care about being covered up but I like being able to undress in small increments.

    I like this dress. It's short enough to be hiked up for spankings and nipples are easily accessible http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26778

    This one is cheaper and would be easy to remove http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33909 http">http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33909 http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33911

    I've only just seen this but I love it:

    Fave is the first one like but it is pricey :/ Might keep an eye out for offers. Need one by May 1st so can always do a rush order if in doubt.

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    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33932

    I love this, and as someone else suggested perhaps a wrap around dress over the top first.

    Whatever you wear, you sound like you're gonna have fun xx

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    mamz [sign in to see picture]
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    I find this really pretty: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21770 You could wear it as underwear.

    I also really like this one dress that some people have suggested: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26778

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    MissNoir [sign in to see picture]
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    How about this, with the bra you mentioned wearing before or withot ^_^

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34886

    You could pair it with a spanking skirt or hold ups or thigh high boots

    I'm a huge fan of catsuits & this one is amazing, I do own it & it's very comfortable, roomy, sexy & easy to remove

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29982

    ^_^ x

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    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for all the ideas guys :) I'm going to run some of them past the OH and see what he likes the look of too x

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