• Lingerie and Sex

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    So your partner or if you are the lady in the relationship has spent well earned money and thought into buying lingerie and spent ages in getting everything right for your partner.

    Does you partner allow you to keep your posh undies on during sex or just undresses you straight away as if they weren't anything special.

    Me personally , I like my partner to keep her lingerie on whilst making love but I am just wondering if I am being normal here. On the other hand if my partner was wearing her boring cotton undies she uses for work I would remove them before making love.

    I suppose what I am asking here does wearing lingerie make a real difference ?

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    cral [sign in to see picture]
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    panties, mmmmm

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    Depends on the lingerie but my partner usually works around it! Lingerie gives me a confidence boost so I'd rather wear it for activities rather than just the initial impact of wearing it!

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    j&lxxxx [sign in to see picture]
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    It depends on the situation, sometimes I like her to wear her sexy undies throughout, sometimes I like to slowly undress her, or have her do a sexy striptease for me, however if she's in mistress mode, its up to her who wears what and when, if anything.

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    bex1213 [sign in to see picture]
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    My partner almost always takes off my lingerie unless it's a body stocking. I think he just likes all the skin and the jiggle. To be honest, I think I'd rather leave it on sometimes with my body issues but I haven't quite gotten up the courage to say it yet.x

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    bex1213 wrote:

    My partner almost always takes off my lingerie unless it's a body stocking. I think he just likes all the skin and the jiggle. To be honest, I think I'd rather leave it on sometimes with my body issues but I haven't quite gotten up the courage to say it yet.x

    Get a basque with about 20 hooks .He might just give up !

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    mysteron wrote:

    So your partner or if you are the lady in the relationship has spent well earned money and thought into buying lingerie and spent ages in getting everything right for your partner.

    Does you partner allow you to keep your posh undies on during sex or just undresses you straight away as if they weren't anything special.

    Me personally , I like my partner to keep her lingerie on whilst making love but I am just wondering if I am being normal here. On the other hand if my partner was wearing her boring cotton undies she uses for work I would remove them before making love.

    I suppose what I am asking here does wearing lingerie make a real difference ?

    always on and oh pulling them to one side

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    Lovebirds_x [sign in to see picture]
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    If I am wearing lingerie, it's not coming off. End of! :p

    Thankfully my partner likes it to stay on too. We share the mentality of why throw something so beautiful to the side after a glance, lingerie is there to be appreciated not discarded. Plus I generally wear lingerie to give myself enough confidence to take my clothes off at all, so he understands that I wouldn't be comfortable with it removed as well.

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    beautifulrainfall [sign in to see picture]
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    He normally gets me to strip for him first because we've ruined/ripped so many items of my nice lingerie that I started getting sulky and wearing rubbish pants just to annoy him back haha.

    We have sort of come to a silent agreement that if I'm wearing like normal cotton pants then he can rip them off or whatever but if I've made an effort then they better stay in tact, depending on how horny I am ;)

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    JJLWB [sign in to see picture]
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    My partner likes me to keep my lingerie on during sex as he just loves looking at me in it. This is fine for me unless I'm wearing something that's a little uncomfortable- last time I put on a corset for him I had to take it off halfway through as I was struggling to move haha.

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    Vanessa8 [sign in to see picture]
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    Feel like a repeat here but it depends on the lingerie and the situation:

    Sometimes I wear it for an entrance /. impact and strip tease

    othertimes part of it stays on as long as there is good access to the imporant spots

    It makes me feel sexy and offers variety and I lov et look in the mirror during sex and lingerie still on me creates a great visual.

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    I am relieved and glad that most of you are in agreement here and it's not me that's odd. I agree with you guys here that it's a waste of time going to all that expense and trouble to impress your partner for it ending up on the floor within minutes.

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    MissNoir [sign in to see picture]
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    I love having my lingerie taken off but it takes a while before it comes off. I normally use my lingerie to show him what mood I'm in & I love buying new pieces all the time to show them off ^_^ If I have anything kept on it's stockings & suspnders, both of us prefer to have nothing on.

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    Peaches_92 [sign in to see picture]
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    I like keeping body stockings on and often some aspect of lingerie or clothing because I get a thrill from it for some reason. My OH will always keep lingerie on me longer if he hasn't seen it before ;) often it depends on when and where sex is as well e.g. in bed completely naked but in the living room likely to keep some aspect of clothing/lingerie on

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    Personally I find women sexy with lingerie left on instead of being naked.

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    popk1n [sign in to see picture]
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    It gets ripped off. He doesn't quite appreciate it. Well, no, he does, but he appreciates my naked body more haha. Whenever I ask him his opinion on a piece of lingerie, if I think, for example, it is a 9/10, he'll go "yep 9 on, 10 off" haha, since for him, nothing seems to beat my naked body. Though I have kept stockings on before :)

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    popk1n wrote:

    It gets ripped off. He doesn't quite appreciate it. Well, no, he does, but he appreciates my naked body more haha. Whenever I ask him his opinion on a piece of lingerie, if I think, for example, it is a 9/10, he'll go "yep 9 on, 10 off" haha, since for him, nothing seems to beat my naked body. Though I have kept stockings on before :)

    Yep I can understand that and every guy is different . I suppose thats why I like the cup less and crotchless lingerie  as they have access points without having to remove the garments.

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    kungfupanda [sign in to see picture]
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    Always on

    differnt textures and the giggle gap . WOW

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    mrandmrsakn [sign in to see picture]
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    i like the sex with the stockings left on. dont mind if the wife takes hers off tho :)

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    MrPink [sign in to see picture]
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    Normally we both have lingerie on, though sometimes Mrs P. takes hers off, and sometimes she has me take mine off.

    I'd love us both to be wearing stockings, but that doesn't interest her at all, unfortunately.

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