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    Looking around I see some very tidy bodies out there, I look at me and I see a mutitude of problems! Have been checking out the lingerie again and am finding it hard to find something a little flattering as well as the hot look!

    I'm not in the plus size! I road cycle a lot, my biggest ride, some 68 miles in a day, so have big thighs, I do the treadmill, yoga weights etc but still the dreaded cellulite and lumpy in places!! grrr

    Stretch marks from having my waistline expand to a massive 68 inches yrs ago with pregnancy. Dumping 3 stone last year has left my body less then pretty for sure but am trying hard to love the skin I'm in. Any tips?

    I always feel I look like shit with sexy gear on, so would like to turn that feeling around ( if possible)

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    Have you tried a chemise or a baby doll set? There is some lovely ones on here that are really flattering. They can look very sexy by showing off your assets but give you the reassurance of not being too naked because of the styles and materials used.

    We are always way too hard on ourselves and see " imperfections" that no-one else would notice. I'm sure you look great and your OH thinks so too:)

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    I'm looking but there's nothing grabbing me yet!

    I have many! trust me! :)

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    I might not have seen your body but you have a beautiful face, and as much as I have spoken to you in the last few days I've realised you're such a lovely down to earth woman and you should realise what things you have got going for yourself. I bet your other half is grateful you still want to dress sexy for him and happy you have a good sex drive and are rather sexual! I'm sure you'll find something that you'll feel nice in and I'm sure we could all improve our bodies, I'm away to start sorting my body out instead of being envy of others and thinking I'll never get a body like a lot of men on here but I'll attempt to do something. So don't feel like you're the only one who feels a bit crap about their body tho and remember there's lots of things that are hot about you and that's coming from a gay guy lol!! Xx

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    None if us are perfect. Don't be so hard on yourself my dear. I personally love baby dolls to hide tummy flaws.

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    P S someone on here recommended a bodystocking to me and I did buy one but have yet to work up the courage to try it on. Don't compare yourself to the models and such... instead think about features you do like and feature those because all the lumps and marks are part of your journey.

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    You are what you are, it's not only what's on the outside, its what's on the inside as well, none of us are perfect, we love and lust our partners for who they are. Remember to love yourself and then everyone will love you. xxx

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    You're beautiful on the inside and the outside from what I can see Corinne xx

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    Hi Corrine, you may have already seen this link, but if not then it may be useful to you. As others have said, you do come across as a really lovely person, and I know your OH is extremely lucky to have such a sexy lady in his life xx

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sexy-lingerie/buyers-guide/body-shape-lingerie-guide/

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    Hey hun I've been around the forum for years and am happy to see such an upbeat, cheeky woman on the forum who is happy to please her OH and dress up nicely for him, even after kids! You come across as such as happy nice woman and you shouldn't let lingerie get you down!

    In terms of babydolls I really recommend this one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32427 The open back is sexy, it skims over my tum and it's floaty and feminine.

    I finally bought a bodystocking, despite thinking I'd look like a fish stuck in a net, and it actually looked great! I have this one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32649 It's beautiful and covers all of the bits I don't like - and you don't have to take it off for sex! There IS a normal size equivalent too for you! And you would fit in it too, bodystockings have so much stretch to them :)

    Good luck in your search and let us know how you get on!

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    aaroncoughlin wrote:

    I might not have seen your body but you have a beautiful face, and as much as I have spoken to you in the last few days I've realised you're such a lovely down to earth woman and you should realise what things you have got going for yourself. I bet your other half is grateful you still want to dress sexy for him and happy you have a good sex drive and are rather sexual! I'm sure you'll find something that you'll feel nice in and I'm sure we could all improve our bodies, I'm away to start sorting my body out instead of being envy of others and thinking I'll never get a body like a lot of men on here but I'll attempt to do something. So don't feel like you're the only one who feels a bit crap about their body tho and remember there's lots of things that are hot about you and that's coming from a gay guy lol!! Xx

    What a lovely thoughtful person you are, thank you for your kind words. Yes it's true, down to earth and pure filth haha. Looking forward to seeing your picks you! I'm sure you look just fine too! Being called hot from a gay guy is a first for me and I'm taking it haha thanks!

    I will find something and thanks to everyone for their kind words too and links. Gonna buy me something today xx

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    I'm gonna go for this little baby! xx

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22473

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    I would highly recommend a bodystocking - this is my favourite: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30698

    Bodystockings seem to flatter most shapes and they're perfect for hiding things like scars and stretchmarks without completely covering you up. I'm sure you'd look great in this!

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    Vanessa8 wrote:

    P S someone on here recommended a bodystocking to me and I did buy one but have yet to work up the courage to try it on. Don't compare yourself to the models and such... instead think about features you do like and feature those because all the lumps and marks are part of your journey.

    **chants** Do it! Do it! Do it! You'll look amazing!

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    Ruby Red Slippers wrote:

    I would highly recommend a bodystocking - this is my favourite: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30698

    Bodystockings seem to flatter most shapes and they're perfect for hiding things like scars and stretchmarks without completely covering you up. I'm sure you'd look great in this!

    +1 - That is my favourite too - it is gorgeous xx

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    Ruby Red Slippers wrote:

    I would highly recommend a bodystocking - this is my favourite: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30698

    Bodystockings seem to flatter most shapes and they're perfect for hiding things like scars and stretchmarks without completely covering you up. I'm sure you'd look great in this!

    +2 I love this bodystocking so much!

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    i agree with the other comments,the person on the inside does shine through and makes any outside appearence much much more desirable,and plus you cant look worse in lingerie than me but it dont stop me putting it on. relax and be happy

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    Scorpius12 wrote:

    Ruby Red Slippers wrote:

    I would highly recommend a bodystocking - this is my favourite: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30698

    Bodystockings seem to flatter most shapes and they're perfect for hiding things like scars and stretchmarks without completely covering you up. I'm sure you'd look great in this!

    +1 - That is my favourite too - it is gorgeous xx

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    Vanessa8 wrote:

    P S someone on here recommended a bodystocking to me and I did buy one but have yet to work up the courage to try it on. Don't compare yourself to the models and such... instead think about features you do like and feature those because all the lumps and marks are part of your journey.

    **chants** Do it! Do it! Do it! You'll look amazing!

    You guys are so kind.. thank you xx

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    Ozz wrote:

    I'm gonna go for this little baby! xx

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22473

    Ohhhh that is lovely!

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