• best way to hide the tummy with sexy underwear/costumes and still have mind blowing sex?

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    LilAmyBear [sign in to see picture]
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    My OH loves my body, but my tummy isn't what it used to be. Being a size 14/16 I find it hard to pick the right things. I think it would really boost my confidence if I didn't have to worry about my tummy and get better in bed and keep my OH very happy ;) xx

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    muttsnutts [sign in to see picture]
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    A difficult one. Personally if I was your OH I wouldn't be fussed about it.

    Not much help I know.

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    pinkanimal [sign in to see picture]
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    go for floaty things that cover you but are comfy.

    somthing like this but the 14-16 is currently sold out http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17454

    its a shame two of my favourite outfits for covering my belly have both sadly been discontinued

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    The best way to have mind blowing sex is to leave your inhibitions behind, enjoy each others company/body and just let go!!

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    Quiet ones are worse! [sign in to see picture]
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    How about this

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21921

    you can leave it on whilst having sex, and may help boost your confidence as less is on show?

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    wildflower [sign in to see picture]
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    I know that feeling, I've had 3 kids ! There are quite a lot of outfits you can wear to diguise the tummy and still look sexy. Have a look at babydolls or chemises as they tend to float over the problem area or maybe a deep lace suspender belt that covers most of the tummy area .

    Bodystockings are actually quite flattering especially if you pick a patterned one. They smooth you out and give a streamlined appearance also there's no need to remove it for sex if you pick a crotchless one :)

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    MissNoir [sign in to see picture]
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    It's a jightmare, thinking about your tummy & how it looks but as your OH says loves every inch of you then it isn't a second thought to them. I'd suggest babydolls, they can boost your boobs & the floaty material under canbe very pretty and hide your tummy. And the length of them fall just above thighs so it's short enough that tyou don't have to take it off. Some can be left open and be floaty, wavey and others can be closed if you want, I'd highly recommend them! ^_^ x

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    BDSM-curious [sign in to see picture]
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    This http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16658 is excellent. I've bought it recently and it's really helped with my confidence. I wear it on it's own or under other outfits.

    kitty x

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    LilAmyBear [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you all for your fab answers :) I love the babydolls abd chemise on LH so I will be adding plenty to my wishlist for xmas ;) xx

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    Stephanie [sign in to see picture]
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    I hate my tummy! Crotchless lingerie is the way forward, you can keep it on while you have sex, cover up your belly and feel super hot all at the same time.

    These two are a couple of my favourites:

    Lovehoney All-In-One Sheer Dress and Stockings Set - £16.99
    Seven Til Midnight Midnight Affair Lace Cami Handcuffs and Thong Set - £26.99

    As others have said, it's a lot about letting go of your body issues and being confident, but I find it's much easier to feel confident and forget about my tummy if I can't see it ;)

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    Stephanie [sign in to see picture]
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    Also, if you're looking to have sex in the outfit, I'd recommend avoiding corsets and things with too much of a 'bone-structure'. I feel sexy in a corset but it doesn't leave much room for moving when you're having sex, and removing it mid-sex is not only a hassle but also leaves lines on your skin from the boning*, not great if you're trying to avoid feeling self-conscious!

    *Lol, boning.

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    LilAmyBear [sign in to see picture]
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    Great advice stephanie :) Those where gorgous, def have to see if the OH agrees... maybe just the thought of me in one might make him want to give me a good 'boning' lol!
    Xx

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    MrPink [sign in to see picture]
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    Mrs P. feels the same way and likes to wear a baby-doll/chemise tyoe thing with padded and wired bra-sized cups. I found one and gave it to her - first reaction not amazing, but once she realised it hid a multitude of sins and still let her flaunt her great boobs, I was sent to look for another one. Unfortunatley, they seem to be few and far between, but you may be lucky and find one in a dress size that works for you - we couldn't get them to fit right for the mrs.

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    MrsMcX [sign in to see picture]
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    I really really wish I could buy this - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32077

    I think it will give a really flattering shape, it clinches in at the waist and looks like those illusion dresses you can get.

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    Stephanie [sign in to see picture]
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    MrsMcX wrote:

    I really really wish I could buy this - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32077

    I think it will give a really flattering shape, it clinches in at the waist and looks like those illusion dresses you can get.

    I haven't noticed this before. I WANT IT.

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    MrsMcX [sign in to see picture]
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    @Stephanie, I've tried to order it twice, but Lovehoney still don't want me spending money :P

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    Cupcakes4 [sign in to see picture]
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    I worry about my tummy too, I bought this:
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27695
    (But the plus size version) and it skimmed over my tummy and looked amazing, it hid every bump. I feel so confident in it x

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    LilAmyBear [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm not wearing body stockings, but maybe just havn't found the right one yet.
    OMG cupcake that is stunning! I completely missed that some how... defo going on my wish list for santa ;) thank you! Xx

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    Cupcakes4 [sign in to see picture]
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    It really is isn't it! And the material is so soft so it's comfy too :) It's honestly my favourite underwear purchase to date :) x

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    jeffngloria [sign in to see picture]
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    I'd say don't worry about how your tummy looks it isn't a big deal,concentrate more on how you want to enjoy the experience.my OH after 2 c-sections was self conscious about the tum and her on top was a no-no until it dawned on me she was actually avoiding this position because of my view of her body. I wish women wouldn't worry about these things and just engage fully.Those back of the mind "Omg I must look hideous" thoughts must really impair the whole sexual mood for you,if you have a sexual partner and he is having sex with you then he damn well finds you sexy just think about that x sorry if it sounds ranty but the sooner you love the skin your in and worry more about what your doing as apposed to how your looking,the happier you will be..Bass V Treble no contest :)

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