Hi, locallad, welcome to the forums 
There is a chat function, and although I'm sure there are some exceptions, lots of users seem to use it for just that: chatting. As a rule, arranging to swap photos, videos etc. isn't really the done thing here. It just keeps the forum clean, friendly, and open 
All the forum rules are here: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/help/forum-rules/