What to do?

Out of a long relationship that ended disastrously, not interested in commitment at all. Started a new job 2 months ago and met this this girl, I am 48, she is no more than 30. She gave me the most knee quivering smile when we first met and has melted every other joint in my body with her smile ever since. She is in chargeof the Christmas party and came round the workshop to take meal requests, she asked if I had a wife or girlfriend whom I would take as a guest, which I noted was not a question on her check list. It is notimportant tome, but she is beautiful, do I go to the party armed and ready or play it cool? A few of the lads I've talked to, (casually), have said that they thought she was a cold fish. 

Oh, Lawman, go, GO!

Maybe she's just being friendly, maybe she fancies the pants off you, but you'll never know if you sit at home wondering.

Life's too short. Go out, have fun, eat turkey til you faint...see what happens.

What's the worst that could happen?

Good luck,

MrMr

Give it a try.I am many years my partner junior, yet, it is so far working. some girls prefer older men.

Good luck, I can agree with Mr Monster, life is too short. And even if she is not interested in you that way, you can still get a good friend, you never know!

Don't sh*t where you eat.

Office sex is a big no in my book. Not to mention the implications of advancing on someone you work with if you've read the signals wrong, especially in a senior position. You could wind up with a sexual harrassment complaint against you.

Be careful that you're not misinterpreting things. I think it's quite common for people to ask if you're bringing a partner to the office Christmas party.

Be friends...if anything happens in time it will be abonus but if not at least you have a friend.

I agree about work and relationships not beign the best idea but then when loves comes it can work.