Intoducing new toys and techniques

My OH is conservative and unadventurous in our sex sessions.It took me along time to encourage her to participate in oral sex but she is very adept now at sucking my cock and she loves it when I lick her pussy. I have recently trimmed my pubes and shaved my balls and, having bought a cock ring set, I wear these regularly and she is quite happy with this. I would like to expand the boudaries and introduce new techniques and toys but I am unsure where to start.Any suggestions?

Hiya and welcome to Lovehoney!

I think it's great when new couples decide to take the "plunge" so to speak and explore and experiment together, sexually. Even though, one of them can be a little cautious at first. =]

I'd suggest making use of this amazing offer- Buy 6 toys for £20! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/special-offers/903/  You can get to pick and choose any 6 in this list for the bargain price of £20. I really recommend some lube and the wickedly powerful love egg! It's still my favourite toy. I'm sure your partner will appreciate the effects of that one. I find it works well as a clitoral toy as well as a fun teasing little vibe for anywhere. It can be used between you whilst going at it.

Have fun and enjoy looking around. Let us know what you decide on and how it goes. =]

 Hi Scaffolder - welcome!

I'd recommend a game to start with - Monogamy is hubby & my personal fave http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=662

It offers a gentle intro to all sorts of sexual practices that you guys may or may not enjoy.

Hubby & I always give each other the right to veto anything that we find really off-putting (although I can't recall either of us vetoing much).

A great intro to a more varied sex-life in my opinion

If Monogamy doesn't excite you maybe something like this which seems to be well rated by people: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15417 

Good luck with it

CCW x

Hi and welcome p

hi and welocme to the forum!

Hello and welcome Scaffolder  I may take up some of these suggestions, as i find it hard to talk about sex and what I'd like to try with my OH even after 7 years yet I can discuss stuff with complete strangers!

Hello,

as much as I love the 6 for 20pound offer, I would avoid the lubes there unless you know your partner is ok with those. I recently found out, that glycerine is something which sends me to the edge of developing bad trush within a day or two. And Durex generally contains glycerine.

Having said that I would recommend a small bullet vibe, they are small, non threatining.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14042

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=10157

for multi speed one of the 3 in series

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17715

or

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18534
I would introduce bullet vibe during foreplay and see how it goes.

i would recommend trying this cheap disposable vibrating cock ring to start with- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14798

especially as you say you use cock rings with her already

laveila i have also been wondering about glycerine in lubes recently- but the durex play feel in the 6 for £20 offer doesn't have it listed on the ingredients. i ordered some- will let you know what it's like!

the aloe vera durex is also glycerine free but tingle and heat have it on the top of the list

Hi Scaffolder , Looks like there is lots of good advise here,  I would just say try and add new things and maybe look through the lovehoney site together, good luck

I am not sure about it either, but Durex was frankly still one of the brands my body did not agree with. Pasante was another and I cannot stand Tracey Cox Love Lube either... All of them started to give me itchy feeling inside my vagina, and Durex/Pasante combination was the thing which I am sure now started my trush/bacterial infection which lasted for 6 months and ended up with me on rather strong antibiotics until I suddenly released what was likely wrong when I got cured and tried lube with glycerine in, the Tracey Cox one and within 2 days I was spiralling into another trust. I dont have a problem for month and half since I started to use Lelo lube together with Sliquid.

oh and I dont trust a lube to be glycerine free unless it states it in the description or on the bottle. I dont have the bottles for Durex anymore to check though.