hello again!!!

Thought i'd pop back into the forum.

Vanished for a while after me and OH had to work on the relationship after I got a tweet(yes a tweet ) from some random human telling me she'd been dating the OH for a few months in 2010... funnily she didnt respond to any other questions ... 

Tears and much discussion it turned out to be a one off and he has no clue who it was that tweeted me... was more freaked she'd found me as I don't use that email for stuff OR how she knew his real name as we dont use it in play! 

Who knows eh!!!

all happy again and hope to be able to pop back onto the forum now study, life and work has calmed down :) 

Hello,

Welcome back. Nice to hear when people manage to sort out problems and get back to normality.

welcome back :)

I'm just back too after a similar absence so can empathise :)

 lol thanks.... to much to lose in my opinion. Shows that if you don't air your fears and worries it just gets to big to deal with.

We deleted everything from our blog to play emails and profiles.... 

Welcome back Occhi!

Glad to hear everything has worked out for you and that you're happy again

Hey Occhi!!

Welcome back x x 

Hi Welcome back, see you around

well glad you sorted it out.

My ex husband was unfaithful to me back in 2003, i chucked him out, he pleaded to come back, i let him back, he was still sleeping with her and got her pregnant in 2004.  She miscarried but all trust was gone from our marriage at that point, and for me, I had an overwhelming desire to become a mother.

He gave me 2 children, and after crossing the line one day in 2009, I left, with a single bag and 2 children in tow.

I'm glad you can see past it and work through it.  I couldn't, and it festered for 6 years until I finally left him.  I didn't feel anything for my ex husband for about 3 years before I left him.

It's history though - not going backwards.

Hello and glad to see you back again! I am glad its now sorted out.

hi and welcome back! its god to see you back and happier.

HellsBells72 wrote:

well glad you sorted it out.

My ex husband was unfaithful to me back in 2003, i chucked him out, he pleaded to come back, i let him back, he was still sleeping with her and got her pregnant in 2004.  She miscarried but all trust was gone from our marriage at that point, and for me, I had an overwhelming desire to become a mother.

He gave me 2 children, and after crossing the line one day in 2009, I left, with a single bag and 2 children in tow.

I'm glad you can see past it and work through it.  I couldn't, and it festered for 6 years until I finally left him.  I didn't feel anything for my ex husband for about 3 years before I left him.

It's history though - not going backwards.

Eek.... it was a one nighter.... we've figured out when we swing he gets a little toooo excited and misbehaves... since it all happened hes literally moved in which is all good :D 

welcome back!! Hope everything is better for the pair of you

Hellsbells thats one hell of a story, hope your all happy and settled now :D

Think once trust is gone, might as well forget it.

There´s me married to same guy for 30 years until he died, so footloose and fancy free, would prefer him still around but irreversible so just have to get on with it.

Welcome back!

 Welcome back, Occhiverdi! I'm so glad you got everything sorted and you're happy again.