• Buying off of a wishlist.

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    Sxleksaker [sign in to see picture]
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    +1 Nat

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    wildflower [sign in to see picture]
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    Gifting is a lovely idea if you do it with the right intentions ,that is to brighten up someone's day without any pressure of expecting something back in return .
    As for hassling someone for pics etc ,that's just weird and probably shows the real reason they gifted in the first place .

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    luvved up cupple [sign in to see picture]
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    Just reading back through this and, well, wow!

    People buy someone something and then expect praise, reward, etc in return? Some people. 😔

    I'd love to be in a position to treat someone who's feeling down or show my appreciation to someone who may have helped me or us out however when I've looked in the past the wishlists have been like Doxy central lol! Sorry can't quite run to that. However.

    This thread got me thinking.

    Suppose we wished to send some gifts, maybe someone has been having a crap time while someone else has helped us out.

    Let's say the two people both have a dildo in the 2 for £30 offer on their lists. Can I buy both for £30 and have them sent to separate addresses?

    Similarly will I get charged postage as my order total is £30?

    Likewise if I had an offer email for a free xxxxx with xxxx spend can I claim the free item if it was something we fancied while sending gifts to other forum buddies.

    My i like to overtime stuff!

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    luvved up cupple wrote:

    Let's say the two people both have a dildo in the 2 for £30 offer on their lists. Can I buy both for £30 and have them sent to separate addresses?

    Similarly will I get charged postage as my order total is £30?

    Likewise if I had an offer email for a free xxxxx with xxxx spend can I claim the free item if it was something we fancied while sending gifts to other forum buddies.

    Sadly the system is not advanced enough to do an 'order split'.

    Also with our warehouse team the way in which the order is sent through and theway we try to get parcels out as soon as possible for a speedy delivery, it is currently not do-able. But saying that, it is a fantastic suggestion! 

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    I also wanted to add I am sorry some of you have been left feeling this away about being gifted.

    Please do contact us or report anyone who is putting pressure on to gift back, share personal details, pics or anything of this sort , that is not the way it works!

    It is actually a rule breaker to ask for gifts or to hint at such, see rule no5:

    I would like you to let me know if this does happen and even if it is a member that has reached out via twitter from the forum. We would still intervine if it is something that has begun here. 

    No one should feel pressure or the need to goft and if you do gift do not put that pressure on. 

    Thank you all heart

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    Quick question, I paid with my card on my latest order, I usually use PayPal but it wasn't working tonight. On the payment page it came up with "you have viewed xxxxxx wish list. We have their address would you like to send the order to them?" Is this normal? I assumed you could only order items from their wishlist, the item I ordered wasn't on theirs.

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    I'm not sure if I have my settings correct. I'm me to this site and created a Sex Toy Testers wish list just on the hope that maybe there's a chance I'd get selected to test something. If not then I'll treat myself cum payday :) i think it's set to private though and if I hit send to friends, well my friends all know I'm a filthy bitch but have no idea the lengths I go to. My partner would also disown me for being in this community as they had a marriage breakup from this type of thing
    What box do you select so people and LH see your list?
    Thank you new friends ;) xxx

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    Shhh-busy! wrote:

    I'm not sure if I have my settings correct. I'm me to this site and created a Sex Toy Testers wish list just on the hope that maybe there's a chance I'd get selected to test something. If not then I'll treat myself cum payday :) i think it's set to private though and if I hit send to friends, well my friends all know I'm a filthy bitch but have no idea the lengths I go to. My partner would also disown me for being in this community as they had a marriage breakup from this type of thing
    What box do you select so people and LH see your list?
    Thank you new friends ;) xxx

    Hi Shhh-busy! You need to have around 10+ reviews live before you are likely to be considered for testing. Also only products on the test page will be sent out. Check the sticky posts at the top for a bit more info, oh and welcome and enjoy your time here.
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    Shhh-busy! [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you Luvved up cupple! I had no idea and guess I need to start building up my collection then ;)
    Have to say, am loving all of the positive vibes from people on here - I haven't joined a site like this before, and was scared of being trolled or something but everyone is really welcoming and well... just nice! :)
    Xxx

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    Shhh-busy! wrote:

    I'm not sure if I have my settings correct. I'm me to this site and created a Sex Toy Testers wish list just on the hope that maybe there's a chance I'd get selected to test something. If not then I'll treat myself cum payday :) i think it's set to private though and if I hit send to friends, well my friends all know I'm a filthy bitch but have no idea the lengths I go to. My partner would also disown me for being in this community as they had a marriage breakup from this type of thing
    What box do you select so people and LH see your list?
    Thank you new friends ;) xxx

    Hi there,

    I'm not sure what you mean by your partner would disown you for being in this community, I think maybe you've got the wrong idea of what this place is about. This is a place to discuss sex toys, lingerie, adult things and life in general in a totally non sleasy way. No flirting, no talking dirty, no graphic/dirty photos, no personal contact information, no hooking up, really nothing seedy here- in fact that's all against the rules!

    Check out the rules, have a read around and you'll see this isn't the type of community that breaks up relationships (quite the opposite!). I'm sure if your partner knew what the site was about he wouldn't have a problem with you being here :)

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/help/forum-rules/

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    My husband loves that I am in this community. As we don't get much time together he us appreciative that this lovely group of people are here for me. He is happy that I have confidence when it comes to sex now, that is all down to this group! LoveHoney has saved our sex life and he is so grateful!

    There is no flirty/sleaziness, if there is it's nipped in the bud pretty quickly. This is a safe community where you can talk about anal and squirting like it's a game of golf.

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    Shhh-busy! [sign in to see picture]
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    My partner wouldn't understand. He's 10 years older and with 2 failed marriages behind him (both wives cheated) he does have trust issues. He knows I love him completely and would never cheat but I know he wouldn't understand why I'm here.
    I posted my first question yesterday as I've just ventured into anal and for me this is a big deal. Although my colleagues bang on about how adventurous they are sexually - it's all BS and no one could give me a true answer. I had one friend say their husband puts them on a pedestal and would never dream of degrading them with anal as they are his wife and not a porn star, to one "open-minded" friend saying he can't be straight if my partner wants anal. Luckily I didn't pay any attention and my first experience was amazing! After posting a question on here about it, a fantastic lady took the time to write a brilliant detailed reply and her advice was far better than anyone I could speak to, or read about.
    I don't know what I was expecting being on here, but I love that people tell you as it is. I want to be more adventurous and this site is empowering. That said, I doubt very much I'm the only member who writes on the quiet side and can't tell their other half. I know I should and there's nothing I'm doing that's wrong, but I also know them too well and it will result in a dispute

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    Oh, keeping on track with this topic - I've decided to save up my Oh Points and use them to gift someone I like to make their day ;)
    XXXX

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    That's a bit weird that people are expecting gifts or pics. Obviously have an alternative motive. Also do people know a gift is being sent to them or do they just randomly receive a parcel? Gifting is a good idea if it's done the right way

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    honeybun91 wrote:

    That's a bit weird that people are expecting gifts or pics. Obviously have an alternative motive. Also do people know a gift is being sent to them or do they just randomly receive a parcel? Gifting is a good idea if it's done the right way

    They just get sent a parcel as you would like any other order. You don't know it's coming!

    It is a great idea, super lovely and nice to know you have helped cheer someone up when they are going through a tough time.

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    I hope that's not what you thought I did. I just wondered if they'd get the persons address.

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    I love a bit of secret Santa... Have to think of a name for sex toys though not sure elves would likely make any 😜

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    Shhh-busy! wrote:

    I'm not sure if I have my settings correct. I'm me to this site and created a Sex Toy Testers wish list just on the hope that maybe there's a chance I'd get selected to test something. If not then I'll treat myself cum payday :) i think it's set to private though and if I hit send to friends, well my friends all know I'm a filthy bitch but have no idea the lengths I go to. My partner would also disown me for being in this community as they had a marriage breakup from this type of thing
    What box do you select so people and LH see your list?
    Thank you new friends ;) xxx

    Sorry, but you will never be selected with that private list! "You must set the wishlist to be seen by 'Anyone who views my public profile' or we won't be able to see what you want."

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/testers/

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    Caliente [sign in to see picture]
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    Wow...just wow! I love that you can gift people, but hate the idea that it's been used in the wrong way. I've been lucky enough to receive gifts from a few people, and I've tried to gift back when I've had enough spare cash. I'd like to be able to do it more often, not because I expect anything, only to thank people for their kindness here.

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