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Can I get Viagra on the NHS?

by Julie Peasgood on January 28, 2012 09:24 0 comments  |  Add a comment
Can I get Viagra on the NHS?

I’ve had several questions recently about the use of Viagra. One was from a lady in her mid-60s, with her husband in his early 70s. They still enjoy a fulfilling sex life, but he now needs a little help – but she feared their doctor would say they’re too old for Viagra.

Getting Deep and Meaningful - Some Thoughts on Deep Throating

by Julie Peasgood on January 15, 2012 12:00 0 comments  |  Add a comment
Getting Deep and Meaningful - Some Thoughts on Deep Throating

Deep throating refers to taking the entire erect penis into the mouth and entrance of the throat. You don't need to be a porn star to do it, but be warned - it is a skill and it does take some practice. And make sure you deep throat a partner you’re really comfortable with - someone you trust, who is also patient, as it’s you, the giver, who sets the pace, not him...

Sex Tricks to Try: Sacrificial Lingerie

by Julie Peasgood on January 07, 2012 13:37 0 comments  |  Add a comment
Sex Tricks to Try: Sacrificial Lingerie

There’s something wild and wonderful about tearing each other’s clothes off - and I’m talking literally. I once had a memorably lustful exchange with a boyfriend who burst in on me in a theatre dressing room, and ripped open the tight Victorian bodice that was part of my costume. As the twenty-odd tiny fastenings pinged across the room, I did for a nano-second think what a pain in the arse it was going to be sewing them all back on, but this was soon eclipsed by the heady euphoria induced by his wanton, button-popping desire.

That was an unexpected and spontaneous moment, but there’s no reason why with some sexy lingerie you can’t plan a bodice-ripping scenario of your own...

I'm not too interested in sex and I'm quite shocked at Lovehoney - but I do need help.

by Julie Peasgood on December 31, 2011 10:43 0 comments  |  Add a comment
I'm not too interested in sex and I'm quite shocked at Lovehoney - but I do need help.

Give yourself permission to experiment now, and take time to discover your sensuality. Light some candles, have a long soak in a bath with fragrant oils, (and a large glass of wine if that helps you to relax) and explore a little solo stimulation, to become familiar with your body and its needs.

I am attracted to both men and women and I don't know what to do.

by Julie Peasgood on December 17, 2011 15:31 0 comments  |  Add a comment
I am attracted to both men and women and I don't know what to do.

Don’t feel you have to identify yourself as being either straight or gay – it’s perfectly OK to be bisexual, and this does not mean that you’re ‘sitting on the fence’ sexually, or that you’re greedy!

We only got married a year ago – how can I ignite her passion?

by Julie Peasgood on December 10, 2011 15:31 0 comments  |  Add a comment
We only got married a year ago – how can I ignite her passion?

Our drives are most similar in the early lust-filled stages of dating, when Nature is pumping our bodies with chemicals to make us mate and bond. But once that bonding has taken place (usually within 2 years) then the drive tends to drop.

We don't have sex often and I worry that if we get married, I'll be unhappy in a sexless marriage.

by Julie Peasgood on December 03, 2011 09:26 0 comments  |  Add a comment
We don't have sex often and I worry that if we get married, I'll be unhappy in a sexless marriage.

It’s always tricky dealing with mismatched libidos. If you have a low sex drive and your partner is the opposite, you may feel pestered to have sex when you aren’t in the mood, whereas he feels rejected.

My partner used to love prostate stimulation and now I missing giving him that pleasure.

by Julie Peasgood on November 26, 2011 10:57 0 comments  |  Add a comment
My partner used to love prostate stimulation and now I missing giving him that pleasure.

It sounds from your letter as if you’re not only missing this element of your love life, but that you really care about your partner’s welfare, so I hope this will help with both.

My wife of 17 years and I used to have a great sex life, but now any sex I feel is out of pity.

by Julie Peasgood on November 19, 2011 10:53 0 comments  |  Add a comment
My wife of 17 years and I used to have a great sex life, but now any sex I feel is out of pity.

I can understand your frustration, especially as you have tried talking to her about the situation, but how about now diffusing the situation entirely and just offering whatever support you can – especially with your kids?

When it's my turn to go on top during sex I lose all my confidence and I freeze.

by Julie Peasgood on November 12, 2011 10:49 1 comment  |  Add a comment
When it's my turn to go on top during sex I lose all my confidence and I freeze.

Don’t compare yourself to porn stars - remember, they’re acting, and when they perform, there’s no emotional connection. Instead, look your man in the eyes as you move, and the chances are he’ll find it a huge turn-on.

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