• Chocolate Body Paint

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    Surprise him with dipping chocolate and a blindfold!

    I like to surprise my husband from time to time. I get a few hours off work and go home armed with dipping chocolate and whipped cream.

    I usually make sure the blindfold is handy plus get a couple of his ties out of the cupboard for easy access. Then I dress in either something saucy or some special lingerie and wait for him to get in - I'm always waiting for him in the bedroom.

    Although I've planned all this, for him it's spontaneous which increases the passion. Plus I've been thinking about it all afternoon so can't wait to hear his key in the door!

    Sexy Long Blonde Wig

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    Disguising yourself for sexual encounters.

    I once watched an episode of Columbo where a female psychologist dressed herself up as a working girl and met her husband in order to seduce him. Actually she intended to murder him – but that is Columbo for you!

    But as an idea for spicing up your relationship it is a lot more fun without the murder. In fact you don't really need to go as far as being a working girl – but a wig to disguise yourself and a new name are essentials.

    If your partner has no regular haunts you will have to arrange to meet them somewhere and then turn up in disguise.

    Lelo Luna Bead Pleasure System

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    Using masturbation practice to overcome one of the barriers to the simultaneous O.

    One of the reasons women tell me they miss when it comes to being able to orgasm simultaneously with their partners is simply that there is a range of different types of stimulation all coming at once and therefore it is very difficult to concentrate on actually cumming.

    If you are aiming for simultaneous orgasm you cannot take away the thrusting or you'll probably miss it for the man.

    And for the woman often the main stimuli driving them towards orgasm are the clitoral stimulation, their pulsing muscles, the intimacy of body contact, breast play, eye contact, mental fantasy etc.

    Crotchless Heart Thong

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    Naked decorating...

    I've recently been painting my house and my fella has been exhausted from work and not fancying any action.

    To get his attention, every time I walked back into the room I'd already removed another bit of clothing - by the sixth time I was down to my thong and he could not get enough of me.

    So my tip is when decorating, do it naked. It has worked three nights running and has been out-of-this-world, mind blowing sex!

    A Bed of Roses

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    If you're married, make a romantic date - and then have great sex.

    Sometimes this is necessary for those of you who have kids and need to schedule time together. Just planning a romantic get together can get you in the mood for best sex ever.

    Also try coloured light bulbs (blue makes your skin look smooth and purple intensifies orgasms...) or light scented candles for romantic atmosphere. Flowers are a great way to add romance.

    Put some bouquets around the house or your room and put some petals on your sheets or in your bath.

    Lovehoney Dream Egg 10 Function Remote Control Vibrator

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    Spice up shopping with a remote control love egg.

    We recently bought a remote control love egg. We thought it would be a great idea to use it while on our weekly shop at a certain superstore.

    It was fabulous, the remote was in my pocket and I kept zapping the button when my OH was not expecting it.

    Needless to say we were very horny when we got home and didn't have time to put the shopping away!

    We plan to spice up our shopping trips more regularly now as it makes a boring job very sexy.

    Get some handy hints on how to introduce a vibrator into your relationship here.

    Bondage Tape

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    For extra hot foreplay, simple bondage can be really fun.

    Wear a studded dog collar and stilettos ladies, then tie your lover to the bed head using anything you've got to hand: washing line, rope, string etc, or go for the ultimate, handcuffs or even bondage tape.

    Blindfold your lover with anything you have, then run different items up and down his naked body - I use things like a feather duster, followed by a scouring brush (Do be careful!), then a vibrator to rest on his balls... that's really good.

    Then ice, followed by your tongue - the mixture of cold and hot is a real winner.  Just let your imagination run riot!

    Want to discover more about bondage? Learn more about bedroom bondage techniques here.

    Tracey Cox Supersex Mint Tingle Lube

    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    This tip is for when your mouth is tired and you want to take a break without stopping.

    Lubricate the penis with a flavoured lubricant. Hold his penis firmly by the base of the penis with your thumb and pointer finger in a tight circle to force the blood to the head.

    Take your other hand and use your thumb and pointer finger to lightly slide up and down in a twisting motion. Then lightly run the tip of your tongue over the opening of his penis.

    Look at him lustfully as you lick the tasty lubricant off him. You will have him at your mercy!

    Check out Lovehoney's in-depth guide to choosing the right personal lubricant here.

    Dreamgirl Black Diamond Opaque Halter Bustier Set

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    Surprise your partner with a sexy, slow, hands-on striptease show.

    Prepare well, get your music ready, making sure you've got a selection of songs that you love to move sexily to. Choose an outfit that is easy to take off (skin tight trousers are a big no-no).

    Skirts, dresses or anything with a zip or plentiful buttons should be easily slipped off. Hide some body lotion or baby oil in the area where you will perform for your partner.

    Whipped cream, ice cubes, chocolate sauce and champagne can all be options, too - but not all at once please :-)

    When your partner gets home or when you think the time is right, slip into your stripper outfit dim the lights, turn the music on and start moving provocatively in front of your loved one.

    Make sure it is a hands-on performance, let your partner help with stripping you down, but back off slightly when they get too greedy. You want to stay in control.

    When you are undressed uncover the body lotion (or your chosen liquid) put a bit on your bum and ask your partner to rub it in. Add lotion as often as you want - no part of your body should be left undiscovered!

    Licking whipped cream of my nipples has always been a great starter for more daring adventures during my stripteases.

    Sliquid Ride Silicone Lube "The secret to good underwater sex," writes Suzi Godson in The Times, "is lots and lots of lube." Not water-based lubes, Suzi says, because they wash off, but silicone lubes which are resistant to water and will last and last and last.

    Suzi recommends Sliquid Ride SIlicone Lubricant, because it's also vegan-friendly, non-toxic and free of glycerin and parabens.

    Another good choice, she says, is Yes Organic oil-based lube which is packed with lovely things that are good for your skin.

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