• Sportsheets Beginner's Bondage Kit Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    Try blindfolding your partner and tying them to the bed (just for that extra kinkyness!).

    Select a variety of different toys/objects/foods and see what feels good for your partner.

    For example, some chocolate sauce... a feather... an ice cube... a strawberry... a bath loafer... a sherbert dip... the possibilities are endless!

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    Ultimate Pocket Masturbation Kit For Him Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    Reading many articles and talking to the few people prepared to actually admit the fact, it seems that most people women and men masturbate solely in private.

    I must admit that in the early years of our relationship I felt very conscious about "doing it" in front of my hubby but now it seems the most natural of things of things to do.

    I love seeing my hubby get his cock out and stroke it, to see it twitch, to watch the pre-cum drip from the hood tip. I love it when he jerks it faster and faster till it becomes like a blur, then his body stiffens and he shoots his load.

    My hubby loves me to open my legs really wide so he can enjoy the view, one hand playing with my pussy and the other teasing my nipples, when my right nipple gets big and hard I stick two fingers into my now soaking wet pussy and enjoy probing for a few minutes before furiously rubbing my clitty to a very wet climax.

    We have found that masturbating "together" brings us together even more... masturbation can be as good sometimes even better than routine sexual intercourse.

    We share our fantasy stories, role play and I believe couples who masturbate in private (or not at all) are robbing themselves of a sharing and very pleasurable experience.

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    Safex Extra Strong Condoms Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    Here's a cool sex tip - literally.

    Fill a condom with water, tie the end and pop it in the freezer. Once frozen, it makes a fantastic, thrilling dildo (allow it to stand for a few minutes before use to avoid any nasty ice burns!).

    As the ice melts, the melting water inside the condom creates some fabulous sensations as you move it in and out of your, or your partner's, pussy.

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    Toy Joy Zebra Mask Blindfold Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    I think all guys like getting blow jobs. We don't really expect girls to be able to deep throat but there are a few things that girls can do to pretend.

    Firstly, licking over the whole shaft is good. Suck on the head, or as much as you can get into your mouth, and put your hand around the base.

    If you move your mouth up and down then move your hand with it. It will feel to him like you're deep throating. Maintain the illusion by blindfolding him while you work.

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    Sliquid Ride Razor Shave Cream For Men I suspect that most men know that it's not the size that counts. Of course, that doesn't stop many of us from being self conscious.

    Shaving your cock, balls and some of the area around it will make it look a bit bigger.

    If you're overweight then losing a few pounds will also make your cock look bigger without so much belly.

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    Spank Ties Through national newspapers, weekly magazines and on daytime television shows, we are inundated by advice from sexperts telling us the dos and the don'ts of our relationships and love lives. This weekly update is here to take all that information and glean the best bits from it, leaving you with the hottest advice and the top tips!

    The Metro reports this week on the subject of spanking.

    Lisa Scott explains: Peter Jones is a solicitor in his fifties and lives in London. He claims to be one of the most feared yet sought-after men in London. Why? Because beautiful women want to be put over his knee and spanked.

    Many say they enjoy the pain because it releases endorphins. Others, say the humiliation is cathartic - something Jones believes is true. He meets various women who ask him to help them quit smoking, stop spending on their credit cards and lose weight.

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    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    Spanking can be good fun in the bedroom. A good way to find out if you like it is to playfully pull your partner over your knee when you're messing around.

    Start with light spankings with your hand. This is often as far as your partner will want to take it. My wife enjoys this but doesn't like hard spankings. On the other hand, I do enjoy it harder.

    If you find that you like harder spankings experiment with whether hand spanking is hard enough, and whether it hurts the other partner's hand too much.

    To go harder try a variety of paddles. Some are very soft and bendy, others are more rigid. Try slapping them against your hand to find out roughly how it will feel when bent over.

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    ID Juicy Lube Tube 12ml 10 Pack Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    My fiancé really gets a kick out of this, and for a woman who doesn't like to spend a lot of time giving oral to a man, this is for you.

    First, start out with the foreplay, the neck, then nipples, then caress the front part of the hips ever so lightly with your nails or tips of your fingers (not too long or it will tickle).

    Gently lick the very middle of his balls up and down, then lick the balls in a swirl motion one at a time. Now swirl your tongue around the tip of the penis, tease him a little.

    After that, place your tongue flat on the tip and move it side to side really fast, you'll have to move your head side to side if you really want it to work.

    Finally, give him what he wants and place your right hand on his shaft and move it up and down.

    Don't slide your hand, just move it while you are giving him a blow job, then when your jaw gets tired, make sure the penis is wet, and slide your hand up and down while licking the tip, preferably the very bottom of the tip.

    While doing that, caress his balls, the part in between the balls and the anus, or the anus, depending on what he's comfortable with; you can also caress the inside of his groin.

    Keep going back and forth between the two techniques. It never takes me longer than 10 minutes to get his toes curling.

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    Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...

    Both your ability to orgasm, and the amount of pleasure you receive from them, isn't a static thing. You have the power to vastly improve both.

    One of the best ways you can do this is by making sure that your pelvic floor muscles are strong.

    You may have heard about exotic strip shows in foreign lands where women are able to do 'tricks' with their vaginas (like picking up coins, or squirting water at patrons).

    They're able to do this because they've trained and strengthened their PC muscles (or pelvic floor muscles - official name, pubococcygeus muscles) to a point where they have total control of how they use them.

    I'm not suggesting that you learn how to pick coins up off the floor with your vagina in order to thrill your boyfriend (though of course you can), but I am suggesting you do the very same exercises in order to reap the great benefits.

    Strengthening your PC muscles (which are those that surround the opening of the vagina) not only makes your vagina tighter, it can also increase the pleasurable sensations your vagina feels during intercourse, the intensity of the orgasms you experience, and both in turn will increase your sexual confidence.

    It can be done anywhere, at anytime (in order to do them you simply pretend you need to stop peeing). Try having him do this after you've done the exercises for a week or two and see the difference it makes!

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    The Sex Doctor

    Reader Tips: You give us your favourite sex tips

    My number one sex tip is really for couples in a reasonably long term relationship. Once that initial excitement and urgency has started to fade the most important thing is to make time for sex.

    That's not to say that it's important to do it every second Sunday.

    It's just important that you both understand that it takes time to get in the mood properly and make love properly so that you're both satisfied.

    It's no good leaving it to the end of the evening when you've got to be up for work the next morning. If you're in the mood and your partner isn't try some seduction.

    Take your time over it. Don't necessarily always expect it to work and don't try to force the other person.

    I'd rather have good sex once a month with my wife than every day if it's rushed and neither of us are really into it.

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