• I am 52 years old and I want to have anal sex with my boyfriend. Can you give me any tips?

    The anal area isn't self-lubricating, so it's absolutely essential to use a thick, gooey, silicone - or water-based lubricant (both latex-friendly for condoms).

    No matter how often I tell my husband what I want sexually, he doesn't satisfy me. Help!

    Your husband knows he's not fulfilling you sexually which is probably a serious confidence blow for him - as it would be for any man - and it needs to be remedied.

    We are both in our fifties and what turns us on is watching each other masturbate. Is this strange?

    No you're not strange - and I'm really pleased for you that your sex life is getting better and better! Masturbating in front of each other takes courage.

    Sex is painful for me because of my tight foreskin. I'm 53 - do you have any suggestions?

    I recently saw a documentary in which a man far older than you experienced huge relief at being freed from a lifetime of pain by having a circumcision.

    Revive your sex drive in 7 simple steps

    Our libidos can go into cold storage for a whole host of reasons - stress, tiredness, negative body image, depression and some prescription drugs (like antidepressants, antihistamines, etc) can all dampen our ardour.

    It's important to realise that the occasional dry spell is natural and nothing to worry about - we all have different levels of desire and they change according to our circumstances. Here's how to revive your sex drive in 7 steps...

    Flower Power Body Balm Orgasm Enhancer The entirety of June is orgasm month here at Lovehoney and what better way to celebrate than with some top tips from Lisa Turner - the UK's first Orgasm Coach.

    Using some special techniques and your own personal energy, you can learn to not only enjoy longer, more intense orgasms but use the energy they create to lead a more fulfilling life too.

    We caught up with Lisa and asked her to give us her top tips for living orgasmically:

    My boyfriend is rather small and can't get into many positions. Have you got any tips for us?

    Penis size is a sensitive subject that society tends to place a great deal of importance on, but the truth is that a penis of almost any size can satisfy a woman.

    Since having my children I've gone right off sex. How can I go back to wanting and enjoying sex?

    Loss of libido after childbirth is incredibly common - it's nature's way of making sure we pace ourselves between children!

    How To Make Your Sex Life Sizzle - Sex Advice from Lovehoney's Bonny Hall

    This week Lovehoney's very own head buyer, Bonny Hall, was featured in the Daily Mirror discussing what it's like to work for the UK's best online sex toy retailer and what sex tips she's picked up along the way.

    Talking about her humble beginnings at Lovehoney, Bonny said:

    "The first time I walked into the Lovehoney warehouse about five years ago I couldn't believe my eyes - I'd never even seen a vibrator let alone some of the other stuff that filled its shelves. I was so embarrassed.

    Neal and his partner Richard Longhurst had been in business for a year at that stage and I was their first employee.

    Everything was a real mess. The warehouse wasn't alphabetically organised, it was arranged by which orifice a toy was designed for!"

    Several years later and not only has the warehouse increased to an unbelievably large size and been re-organised by the popularity of the products, but Bonny has also become the go-to-girl for any and all information about sex and sex toys.

    Bonny buys lots of weird and wonderful products from all over the world and makes sure they're ready to go within minutes of them arriving in the building, ensuring you get the right sex toy for you.

    Here are just a few of Bonny's brilliant sex tips that she's picked up since working for Lovehoney:

    Lovehoney 7 Function Magic Rabbit 2.0 Bullet VibratorBullet vibrators are small, discreet and unobtrusive making them a brilliant addition to foreplay or sex and best of all - they won't intimidate your partner, like some of our bigger products do!

    If you want to learn to talk dirty, buy an erotic book. Not only will the saucy stories give you some very hot inspiration but reading scenes out to your partner is sure to be the start of a great night in.

    Being adventurous in bed can be difficult, especially if you don't know where to start. Buying a naughty game like Monogamy is not only a lot of fun but it will introduce you and your partner to a whole new world of sexy ideas!

    Bonny Hall is immortal and has been working as the head buyer at Lovehoney for over five years. She is also a stealthy ninja and only eats food that has been named after mythical beings, so mainly fairy cakes and Angel Delight.

    My wife (of 19 years) and I would like to know more about talking dirty. What do you suggest?

    Talking dirty during sex can be a fantastic turn-on, and communicating with your partner about what specifically arouses you will bring you both closer.

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