• We've been happily married for over 25 years and we'd like to try swinging. Any advice?

    It won’t suit you if you’re prone to jealousy and it’s certainly not likely to help if there’s any kind of tension or rift between you.

    Coming out as kinky is a difficult process, especially if you’ve only just realised it yourself.

    Whether you’re in an already established couple or you’ve just got together, being honest about your sexual needs and desires is incredibly important if you’re to have the sex life you really want.

    There are several sure-fire ways to approach the subject of kink with a partner without making them want to run away in horror, so listen up!

    My wife has put on weight, which I find unattractive. How can I discuss this without upsetting her?

    You’re right to tread carefully - this is a tricky one. I think you have to be honest with your wife, but you also need to be hugely sensitive.

    My partner and I love anal sex but recently it's been causing me discomfort. What can we do?

    Even a tiny haemorrhoid or fissure can cause pain or discomfort, and trust me, doctors aren’t fazed at all by checking bottoms.

    Safe Words and Bondage

    It might seem like a minor detail – unsexy, even – but choosing the right safe word for BDSM play is an important decision to make.

    Whether your partner's wielding a 22 Inch Sportsheets Rubber Whip or the Fetish Fantasy Singapore Stinger Paddle III, you really need to know how to make them stop. No, I mean stop. I said stop! It's not fun anymore!

    I've started to suffer from premature ejaculation. Is there anything I can do?

    Unfortunately, once men experience premature ejaculation, they can get very anxious about it, which doesn’t help matters.

    How to avoid gagging when giving oral sex

    Dentists have discovered a technique to considerably reduce a patient's gag reflex - and you can use it during oral sex!

    Since starting the menopause I'm not as horny as I was - is there a female equivalent of Viagra?

    I haven’t come across any guaranteed pill that does the trick, but there are currently extensive trials into finding a female equivalent to Viagra.

    STIs have tripled in people over the age of 45 in a decade - make sure you practise safe sex!

    When we have unprotected sex with someone, we’re also in effect having it with all the previous partners they’ve had unprotected sex with.

    I've just bought an anal dildo but I'm having trouble finding my P-spot. Any tips?

    The prostate is small, highly sensitive and well tucked away, so you’re far more likely to ‘hit the spot’ with a specialist toy.

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