You don’t say whether it’s a new problem. If she’s always been like this, it may be because of some misplaced ideas about sex.
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An orgasm is actually a reflex reaction - and we can learn how to stimulate ourselves sufficiently so that one is naturally triggered.Julie Peasgood
You don’t mention the size of the butt plug. If you’re using one for the first time, then I suggest something small and slim.Julie Peasgood
This is a bit of a ‘Moral Maze’ dilemma - there’s no easy way round it. I wonder how you’ve found out - and if you’re 100% sure?Julie Peasgood
You’ll be pleased to hear that help is on the way for your girlfriend... but unfortunately it’ll probably be another 18 months before ‘Flibanserin’ is with us.
I’m all for a sexy two-day growth, but it hurts like hell when it’s in direct contact with the delicate female vulva (the words sand and paper spring to mind).Julie Peasgood
Assuming you use common sense in not over exerting yourself, there’s no reason in the world why you shouldn’t be doing it - and yes, it is quite safe!Julie Peasgood
It would be unusual for a couple, however much they still found each other attractive, to still want sex every day after 16 years together.Julie Peasgood
If you mean can it do you any harm, the simple answer is no. I would only be concerned if it was interfering with your everyday life or relationship.