It may be an idea to keep taking yourself to the brink and then deliberately stopping before you climax - the difference being that you’re keeping control and stopping before you want to, rather than having to stop because it gets too sensitive to continue.
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Illustrate the pressure you like on your clitoris, the speed you like, what other areas of your vagina you like to be touched… and then gradually ease your hand away.
Sometimes the sex toys that work best for you are not the ones you expect to do the job.
Often, you'll add something to your basket on a whim and later discover it's the most incredible thing to have happened in your pants for years.
Packed with Lovehoney customers and sex toy aficionados, we asked the Lovehoney Forum, "Which product has MOST improved your sex life?"
The results were surprising - there wasn't a rabbit in sight!
Read on to find out which products turned these people's sex lives around and could do the same for you.
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The ‘69’ is the most famous position for some mutual oral stimulation, and it definitely ticks the box for promoting equality between the sheets.
Five Top Tips To Oral Sex
Go down, give head, lick out, suck off, give a mouth job, give a blow job - however you refer to cunnilingus (on her) and fellatio (on him), oral sex is one of the most satisfying and intimate sexual acts you can perform on, or receive from, your partner.
However, performing oral sex on your partner can be stressful - as can receiving oral sex - and at Lovehoney we often receive questions asking how to have better oral sex.
From enjoying receiving to improving the taste of your orgasm, here are our top 10 tips for giving and receiving better oral sex.
Do you have any unmissable oral sex tips? Leave a comment and let us know the oral tricks that make your lover gasp...
He needs lots of reassurance that you enjoy making love with him, that this is not dependent on experience - and also that you actually like his penis!
Tit wanking is something that you see a lot in porn. Which naturally means that a lot of people want to try it. It can be difficult at first though, figuring out who goes where and what would make it easier.
Tit wanking is when a man thrusts his penis between the breasts until he's climaxed or you're both ready to move on to something else. It can be combined with oral stimulation of the shaft and head of the penis for him, as well as nipple play for her. There are loads of ways to give a tit wank that make it enjoyable for both partners.
Porn can give a slightly skewed version of how a tit wank works; not everyone is amazingly flexible with massive boobs, after all.
This practical guide will give you some ideas on how to give a tit wank and explain some ways to make it an enjoyable experience for both of you.
We also have a range of tit wank sex toys that are great for getting the same sensation without a partner.
It sounds as if your girlfriend is one very satisfied lady, which is fantastic, but for your sake you’ve got to work out some kind of compromise.
My feeling is that you’re not getting fully aroused. This means that your own natural lubrication isn’t getting a chance to kick in, and it’s no wonder that it’s dampening your lust if you’re in pain.