A recent article in the Detroit News describes how erotic fiction, very much the preserve of women, is becoming far more explicit
Once banished to an underground following, erotica - a rather girly term for written porn - has finally hit the big time.
"It used to be with romances they would kiss and go into the bedroom, and then it would then be the next morning and they'd be eating eggs," said Jesse Petersen, who co-wrote the erotica book "Scandalous" under the name "Jenna Petersen." "But more and more, readers want to read about what really goes on in the bedroom when the door closes."
Sure, women have devoured for decades those Fabio-inspired summer romance reads featuring deep sighs, heaving bosoms, faces "flushed with desire." But this latest line doesn't shy away from explicit details and X-rated dirty talk - in fact, it revels in it.
"If it creates an image and you are aroused, it works," said Lisa Wade, 50, who enjoys reading this type of fiction. "It's like foreplay. And if the writer can create an image in our head, it's effective."
The power of writing is far more enticing for women when it comes to sex, experts say. From fervent love letters to X-rated e-books, many women are more comfortable creating their own sexual fantasy than having it in living, close-up color in porn flicks or raunchy magazines. And it's not exploitative to women - just words on a page. [read more]
We have scores of great erotic fiction titles that will add some extra spice to your summer reading...
Another great review from Orgasm Army!
The CB 3000 is an excellent training tool for any wife to use on her husband to encourage good habits and/or punish bad ones. I introduced it to my wife about 6 months ago just for short-term play, and was pleasantly surprised with the results.
I have a very stressful, high-profile, professional job in the finance business and needed to get my mind off things. Being the 'vanilla sex type', my wife was reluctant to try it at first; thinking it was way too kinky. Then, after a few trial runs with it on for longer periods each time, she really learned to like it because of all of the new attention I was giving her. Actually, she likes it a little too much! It's starting to scare me (in a good way)..."
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Another great review from Orgasm Army!
"The main attraction for me when purchasing the Ultime was its sleek, stylish non-phallic design. In fact, when looking for a new vibrator, I wanted to avoid the usual phallic-shape this time, and go for something that wouldn't be too obvious if found by someone else in my busy household.
The Ultime, on this level, certainly lives up to my expectations and its smooth, curved shape in a non-offensive pale blue colour, is both unusual and aesthetically pleasing enough to be mistaken for a piece of contemporary art-work..."
See the full Natural Contours Ultime review at Orgasm Army.
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Here's what they found from this year's survey of UK sex habits [read the full report at the Daily Mail]
The British men and women make love an average of 118 times a year, a new survey has revealed.
More than half of those questioned admitted to one-night stands while around 14 per cent said they were guilty of cheating.
The comprehensive survey, which questioned 12,000 Britons, is the most in-depth the UK has seen - and revealed some surprising facts about our bedroom habits.
According to the poll, we are likely to average ten sexual partners in our lifetimes.
Nineteen per cent of female respondents admitted they had lost their virginity as early as 15 compared to 12 per cent of boys at the same age.
Worryingly, more than half of those questioned in the poll by Durex admitted to having had unprotected sex and one in ten had caught a sexually transmitted infection.
Wethinks everyone should start wearing condoms more often.
Another great review from Orgasm Army -- it's an ode to the Inflatable Vibrating Chair!
"As I slip aside my silken thong
And slide onto this jelly dong
I don't think I could aspire
To sit upon a firmer spire.
Ordered on the net, it soon was freighted
With this product I'm fascinated
Using batteries ever ready
My knees begin to feel unsteady..."
See the full poetic Inflatable Vibrating Chair review at Orgasm Army.
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Well, well, well - turns out masturbation is good for you. Who'd thought it. From ProgressiveU:
A study suggests frequent masturbation by men in their 20s provides protection against prostate cancer later in life.
Scientists in Australia determined that men in their 20s who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop aggressive prostate cancer later in life.
The study suggests ejaculation by means of masturbation provides better protection than ejaculation in sexual intercourse because men can pick up infections from intercourse that actually increase the risk of getting prostate cancer.
So, gentlemen - start your engines! We've got bucketloads of toys to help your daily, ahem, health routine too - check our Fleshlights selection for starters, and our Sex Toys For Boys too.
We're advertising what could be the most unusual job ever. The company is searching for a sexually active couple who will be prepared to test a new pill designed to change the taste of semen.
The pill, which is taken as a twice-a-day for 30 days, claims to mask the traditionally salty taste of male ejaculate with a refreshing apple-like flavour. Successful applicants will take the pill for 30 days and will use an online blog to provide a blow-by-blow account of how the taste of their partner's sexual fluid changes.
"A payment is offered," says Lovehoney test organiser Ali Carnegie, "But this is really a job that people should do for love rather than money."
Couples who are interested in the position can apply by completing the Sperm Tester application form on the Lovehoney Web site.
The test product is 100% vegetarian. Both straight and gay couples can apply.
More and more UK women are interested in porn, according to a recent survey. We're big fans of Anna Span, who specialises in porn made by women for women. Over in Canada, Josey Vogels recently attended the very first Feminist Porn Awards, and gives a detailed round up of what happened. But first - what is feminist porn?
According to the founders of the awards, Good For Her, a women-oriented sex shop in Toronto (goodforher.com), the winning films had to meet three criteria: a) they had to show genuine female pleasure (in other words, no
faking it); b) they had to be directed or produced by a woman; and c) they had to "expand the range of female sexual expression currently seen in porn."
Oh, and they had to be hot. [read more]
So there you go - you can browse our collection of Anna Span DVDs to see if they match up to what's required.
As featured on the Jeremy Vine programme on Radio 2, the hit new book from Tracey Cox helps busy people get more from their sex lives.
Not getting enough sex? Struggling to find time for a snog, let alone a steamy sex session? Quickies can rescue your sex life in the time it takes to make a cup of tea!
And New Zealanders wonder why some people think they're weird...
Live "sex shows" of bulls mounting a simulated cow have become a big attraction at an agricultural exhibition taking place in New Zealand.
The fake "cow" -- a small go-kart with natural cowhide on its roof -- was developed by Ambreed New Zealand Ltd. to collect semen from bulls more safely and efficiently and improve artificial breeding of cows. [Chron.com]
This would probably be the point at which to say: holy cow!