• O' My Natural LubricantWhen talking about blowjobs, Sex And The City's Samantha Jones once said: "Honey, they don't call it a job for nothing."

    Quite right, too. Blowjobs provoke different reactions in different women. For some it's a sure-fire way to blow their man's mind. For others it's a series of gag-reflexes, feelings of suffocation and nausea at the thought of swallowing sperm (especially if it's quite sour tasting – this can happen with guys who regularly smoke and drink). For me, it depends on who I'm with and what mood I'm in.

    Some friends of mine even go so far as deciding whether to give head based on the size of the guy's penis. Their reasoning for this? "Women have small mouths and if the guy's penis is too big, we'll just end up gagging." I can understand the point they're making, but it doesn't have to be that way. The secret to giving your man great head is finding a balance between making him feel totally engulfed without making you feel suffocated.

    Lubricants such as ID Glide and Astroglide can help off-set the side-effects of lower oestrogen says Suzi Godson in The Times's Body & Soul section.

    "Because oestrogen and testosterone play such a big a part in libido, women who decide not to take HRT sometimes experience a dip in their sex drive. One of the most common side-effects of declining oestrogen -- lack of lubrication -- is one of the easiest to rectify," she says before recommending that readers buy their lube at Lovehoney.

    "There are millions of lubes on the market from basic KY Jelly to high-tech superlubes such as AstroGlide or ID. You will find extra slip and slide makes everything much more fun."

    Friday, we went out and got drunk, came home and cooked and then just crashed in bed. I know, I know. It seems as though I'm becoming an alcoholic... I have drunk too much recently... Not good but will be sensible next week. Honest.


    Today Shane and I engaged in an activity that is a fave with both of us... A nice long an relaxed oral sex session. I really love it when he goes down on me and I think he has such a beautiful cock! What can I say? I'm a very lucky girl.


    Anyway, although Shane's precome tasted delicious, neither that nor his come tasted of apples I'm afraid to say...

    Lubricants such as ID Glide and Astroglide can help off-set the side-effects of lower oestrogen says Suzi Godson in The Times's Body & Soul section.

    "Because oestrogen and testosterone play such a big a part in libido, women who decide not to take HRT sometimes experience a dip in their sex drive," says Suzi. "One of the most common side-effects of declining oestrogen -- lack of lubrication -- is one of the easiest to rectify."

    This week, you will be playing a naughty game with your partner to enhance your dirty words vocabulary. Quite simply, the game will involve exploring each other's erogenous zones and combining your erotic exploration with sexual commands.

    Before starting this game, set the mood by having a candle-lit bath with your lover. Make sure you are both immaculately clean by the time you step out of the bath so that you are both confident in letting each other explore some of the most intimate areas of your body.

    Day: Wednesday 11/10/06
    Time: 8:30am
    Location: In the living room
    Circumstances: End of the experiment
    How did he taste? Neutral
    Sperm Test Rating: 6
    (1=normal, 100=Golden Delicious Apple)

    Well, I don't know how we did it but we seem to have a day 31. I promise it's the last day though. We had to have one last check of Jason's spunk. It was early evening and Jason was at his desk. I turned his chair round, unzipped his trousers and got to work.


    Unfortunately still no apple. I must say, at the start of the experiment I was convinced it was going to work, so I am very disappointed. But Jason's very happy - he did get lots of blow-jobs after all.

    Buy Tantus Zing Wireless Vibrating Silicone Butt Plug at LovehoneyI've been using a butt plug for a few years now, but I don't mind saying how weary I was the first time I tried one. It wasn't just because I was afraid of how it would feel when inserted, but more because I was broadening my sexual repertoire and that can always be a little scary as well as exciting.

    Because it was a few years ago, and because the butt plug was bought for me as a present, I can't actually remember the name of the first ever plug I used. But since then, I have finally settled on my absolute favourite plug, which is the one I want to tell you about.

    Using a butt plug as part of your sexual repertoire will lead to intense anal fulfilment and amazing orgasms. They're a fabulous way to initially explore the boundaries of anal sex, either through solo masturbation or for anal stimulation during vaginal sex with your lover. But if you have never used a butt plug before, I'd recommend you start off with some anal beads before graduating to a butt plug (check out the Small Beginners Anal Beads or Latex Power Balls).

    Day: Tuesday 10/10/06
    Time: 10:30am
    Location: In bed
    Circumstances: One to check the taste, last thing at night
    How did he taste? Neutral, hint of sweetness
    Sperm Test Rating: 7 (1=normal, 100=Golden Delicious Apple)

    Jason got home about 8pm. I decided to have an early night and Jason followed not long after me. We had to have a tasting as we've only got a couple of days left of our experiment. Well, some women have bad hair days, but I think I was having a bad blow-job day. Some days I feel like an Olympic standard fellatrix, but tonight I was just rubbish at it. No teasing, no co-ordination, no saliva. But we managed a successful result anyway. Apart from the couple of spurts I got in the eye.....

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