Firstly, you're not alone - so please don't worry. There are so many variables that affect whether or not a women can orgasm - we're a lot more complex than men when it comes to climaxing.
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Ever since the Mango Juicer arrived at Lovehoney a few weeks ago, everyone in the office has been obsessed with it - and not just because we're big mango fans.
The smooth lines and fluid curves mean that it has become a favourite fondling toy for the creative team - beats having a squeeze of the breast ball.
The IT nerds are confused by it though: "Why does it look like a kitchen utensil?" they ask through a fug of XHTML and SQL queries.
Well boffins, it's designed to look like that so it can be sold in the parts of the world where sex toys are illegal, which also happen to be the places where women are oppressed and victimised.
Which is also why it's the world's first charity dildo - a proportion of the profits from every one sold goes to charity: the Waris Dirie Foundation which campaigns against female genital mutilation, and Forward UK, a women's rights organisation.
Here's a closer look at it:
It's getting to that time of year where everyone wants to flaunt it on the beaches and be as sexy as possible. But where do you start? You could go to the gym... or you could indulge in a little sexercise like our sex toy testers!
Every week throughout May, we are getting one of our fabulous sex toy testers to try out a sexy product that will improve their sex lives in time for summer.
Some are trying to tone their thighs using the latest and greatest sex toy; others are trying to attract a partner through the power of pheromones... But this week is all about stamina and how you can learn to improve yours for the best sex ever!
There are several non-latex condoms on the market. The most widely available is the Durex Avanti, which is made from polyurethane.
Now is the time to finish spring cleaning your lingerie drawer with the aid of Lovehoney!
Get rid of those knickers in boring blacks, throw out those thick laddered tights and update your style with the biggest thing in fashion since the new series of Britain's Next Top Model.
This season is all about lingerie in pastel colours.
With an essence of spring time flair and blooming buds, lingerie in light and playful colours is sure to attract the right kind of attention.
Whilst others are sticking to tired blacks and worn out reds, the sexy and daring amongst us are slipping into lingerie in baby blues and light pinks. Not only do these colours make you stand out from the crowd but they give your skin a healthy, creamy glow which is simply irresistible.
But if you think pastels look washed out and dated, let Penthouse Lingerie prove you wrong.
The incredible Penthouse team have created a line of lingerie with a cute cupcake theme which is made up entirely of pastel colours that really pop!
The range of lingerie that comes in this cute cupcake theme is pretty exciting too! The Penthouse Cupcake Bra and Panty Set is sure to be a big hit with burlesque beauties and the Cupcake Corset is a definite winner with those who want something sexy to wear out on the town.
For those who are still scared to take the leap into the sexy world of pastel prints, there's the Penthouse Cupcake Thong and Gift Set. With cute accessories like this, you can add a little bit of candy coloured cuteness to your life, without going the whole hog.
But what about other pastel pieces? Well for curvier girls there's the simply sexy Dreamgirl Queen Size Underwire Ruffle Trim Baby Doll Set which goes up to a size 24. This teasing little set is highlighted by pastel pink ruffles and baby pink satin bows which are evocative of 1950's French fashion.
When it comes to the little details, accessorising pastel colours is easy! Get yourself a set of stockings in white or flesh tones and they won't distract from the gorgeous lingerie itself, just complement it.
Sheer and sexy, these stockings are designed to be both comfortable and attractive. The wide lace tops have an almost classic look to them while the modern silicone thigh bands ensure that these stay-ups stay up!
Still unsure if you can pull this style off? Here is the Lovehoney quick-fire guide on how to wear pastel colours:
- Wearing pastel colours is all about being feminine - accessories should be equally as girly, made up of light colours and materials, and a pretty pair of high heels is a must.
- Bright and contrasting make-up will give your lingerie a chic and retro look. Bright red lips and feline black eyes add a burlesque twist, whereas pale make-up will just make you look anemic!
- Pastels give you a flirty and playful look that your partner will love! Hold your head high and play up to your naughty new look by acting confident, even if you don't necessarily feel it - you'll soon reap the rewards!
Last year we featured the beautifully erotic Cassandra's Conflict as our book of the month and ever since then, it has been a repeated best seller!
That is why, when we heard that the follow-up book Cassandra's Chateau was about to be re-released, we had to give it a special unveiling as our May Book of the Month!
Fredrica Alleyn was chosen as Black Lace's first author for two reasons - she knows how to create a one-of-a-kind plot line and she knows how to write sex scenes that are convincing, sexy and unbelievably steamy!
Check out our interview to see how the talented, creative and witty writer behind Cassandra's Chateau manages to produce such incredibly erotic novels...
This is one erotic extract you won't want to miss! Full of intrigue, suspense and steamy sex, this sneak peek shows you why Cassandra's Chateau is the best sequel since Return of the Jedi...
Giving a great blow-job is one of the most pleasurable things you can do to your man. These easy-to-follow hints and tips will help make it better for both of you!
The world's first 100% eco-friendly wind-up sex toy is here! The Earth Angel vibrator is made from recycled materials and you don't need to buy batteries for it!
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