Sex with a stranger is the subject of many sexy daydreams, erotic novels and porn movies, but does it ever happen in real life?
Have you ever had anonymous sex with someone you didn't know? Would you?
With anonymous sex being a top fantasy for many (source), strangers roleplay is a safe way to explore that desire.
Many couples find adding a touch of anonymity to their play increases passion, which could explain why blindfolds are such a desired bedroom accessory.
To help you get started, we're giving you the chance to win a Lovehoney Tease Me Soft Satin Blackout Blindfold (£16.99)! Leave a comment below before October 4th to be automatically entered.
Read on to find out whether men or women are more likely to bed a stranger, and more...
Having been called a "New York Times bestseller that will make a better lover of any man", Ian Kerner's comprehensive guide to cunnilingus, She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (£14.99) certainly lives up to its 5 star rating.
The Times sex columnist Suzi Godson declared that women should "Get yourself a copy of Ian Kerner's manifesto She Comes First and make sure your boyfriend reads it too."
A frequent guest on the TODAY Show and Dr. Oz, Ian Kerner Ph.D is a clinical sexologist and sex counsellor whose own issues with erectile dyfunction led him to develop a foolproof approach to oral sex.
His how-to guide on every aspect of cunnilingus for men has enjoyed phenomenal success worldwide, with many happy girlfriends and wives taking to the internet to sing Mr. Kerner's praises. One reviewer even asked "Is it too late to nominate Kerner for some sort of Nobel prize?"
With a 5 star rating, Lovehoney customers clearly share this enthusiasm!
It's the world's most hotly-contested celebrity gossip, and the rumours show no signs of calming down. Since it was announced that Universal Studios and Focus Features acquired the rights to produce movie adaptations of record-breaking erotic trilogy Fifty Shades of Grey, celebrity magazines and fan websites have been buzzing with speculation as to who will play kinky billionaire Christian Grey and his virginal lover Anastasia Steele.
There have been a string of false trails and supposed 'favourites', and now bookies are even taking bets as to who will land the dream roles, with many actors snubbing suggestions that they'll be in the movie due to its explicit content and expected levels of nudity.
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Everyone has a sexual fantasy.
Whether it's sleeping with a celebrity, having sex outdoors or exploring your kinky side, we all find ourselves thinking "What if?" at times.
The great thing about fantasies is that you're in charge - you decide the setting, the characters and the choregraphy.
But are fantasies ever as good in the flesh?
The new book by sexpert Tracey Cox explores common sexual fantasies, and what happens when they're made a reality.
We're giving away 5 signed copies of Dare: What Happens When Fantasies Come True by Tracey Cox (worth £7.99). Simply comment below before April 19th to be in with a chance to win.
Read on below for the best fantasy-related articles from around the web.
My new book Dare: What Happens When Fantasies Come True is based on the real life experiences of 30 women who dared to turn their erotic daydreams into reality.
The general consensus? Be careful what you wish for!
I don’t think I’ve ever enjoyed writing a book more. Some of their stories are steamy and lustful, many are laugh-out-loud hilarious and others are embarrassing, disappointing or plain disastrous. But they’re all endlessly fascinating - because they’re real.
Each story is written in three parts:
The fantasy is the glossy version of what each woman imagined the encounter would be like.
The decision is when the story switches from fantasy to reality and when we find out why she decided to act it out.
The reality details what happened when she did.
This extract gives a taster of what Dare is like, to tempt you into wanting more - and this is one of my absolute favourites.
I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it!
Just about everyone has sex fantasies. In your head there are no rules and you are in charge of the action.
But what happens when you take one of your hottest thoughts out of the realms of fantasy and into reality?
This special taster ebook, free to download from TODAY, by international sex expert Tracey Cox is just one example of what we dream about...
Michelle has always wondered what it would be like to sleep with another woman, but has been too shy to suggest it to her boyfriends. But when Michelle's new man starts talking dirty to her, she can't resist suggesting they turn their fantasy into reality. But how will her dreams of a threesome translate when played out in stark reality?
This tantalising fantasy is taken from her new book, Dare, which is available in its entirety from 11 April 2013.
For several years I had been planning a literary novel inspired by my time as a professional dominatrix, a moonlighting I had undertaken to help fund several unpaid media internships. During this time, I had also found myself embroiled in a deleterious BDSM love affair, which almost threatened to ‘unmake’ me.
Then Fifty Shades broke its fervid wave upon popular literature’s shore, and suddenly the market craved erotica.
After writing a small piece for Stylist magazine on sexual submission, I was approached, more or less overnight by Hodder & Stoughton, to write a real-life sex memoir chronicling my time as a professional domme and a personal submissive. I signed the contract, and six weeks later, I had spun out 90,000 words, some filthy, some funny, most cathartic, for I was still mourning the loss of the most exquisite and kinky sex I had ever had.
From using a strap-on on a man, to being spanked to orgasm, Bound to You is the only new erotic book out there exploring the trajectory from dominator to dominated, both psychologically and physically.
In this scene, Nichi finally gets her dominant due. The night before, Nichi and Sebastian sleep together for the first time; desperately, passionately, but not kinkily. But the next morning, Sebastian gives Nichi what she has been craving.
Guest blog by Nichi Hodgson
Earlier this year we ran an Erotic Story Competition, and you have been eagerly waiting to read the winning stories. We are please to announce that Take Your Partner and The Intimate Stranger are now available to download.
Each collection contains a selection of the winning stories, alongside stories by published authors including Justine Elyot, Kay Jaybee and Lily Harlem (who won Lovehoney's very first erotic story competition!).
Available to download in the Kindle Store for FREE from 21st-25th December
If you liked the romantic storytelling of Fifty Shades of Grey, you'll love Take Your Partner. If you prefer your erotica to involve more than two people or more risque situations, check out The Intimate Stranger.
Or, up until Christmas Day, you download both for free and decide which you prefer!
If you don't have a Kindle, check out this list of Kindle Apps - you can still read the ebooks on your computer or devices.
The Dark Garden was originally published in 2007. As someone who has been involved in BDSM practice most of my adult life, this was a true book of my heart. I wanted to present my perception of BDSM - my truth about what it is to me, the psychology of it, the intensity of kink relationships - in a way readers might find approachable. I wanted to show the sensual side of kink, because it’s not all about whips and chains (although I do have a particular love for chains!). But back to the present…
The Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon has given us, the kink authors who are actually kinky, the freedom to write more of these stories fueled by our own experiences, as well as our lovely, dark, as-yet-to-be-met fantasies, and to share that delicious dark side of sensuality with you. The Dark Garden is a fairly even mix of those elements.
As a real life switch, it’s always been a challenge for me to submit. This scene-and in fact, this entire book-is about that struggle to get what we want, but feel we can’t have, for whatever reasons -the fear of losing control no matter how badly we need to. And what can happen when the right man comes along to help us find that freedom.
Guest post by Eden Bradley
The Diary of a Submissive is a true story. Names have been changed and situations and people tweaked a little bit, but the emotional heart of the book, how submission feels for me, the paradox of your brain sometimes baulking at something that your body is undeniably enjoying, is the truth. My truth. Honest in a way that might feel harsh at times - and certainly honest enough that proof editing the book made me blush in places, crazy as that sounds.
When I was first getting into BDSM, I found myself thinking a lot about what I’d done in the day or two after each new experience - usually in that dead time when your mind wanders while waiting for the coffee machine at work to do its thing. In a lot of ways my earliest writing was about trying to explain to myself exactly what I got out of submission and how my mind took a while to catch up with what my body was incontrovertibly telling me was hot.
Guest post by Sophie Morgan