• Have You Ever Slept with an Ex? Take the Poll to WIN a Magic Wand and Cinema Tickets!

    Take Our Sex with an Ex Poll! Competition

    This month, we've teamed up with the gang at Icon to find out about your sexy ex secrets.

    It's all in aid of the brilliant new movie Sleeping With Other People, hitting cinemas on New Year's Day.

    The film follows two serial cheaters (who lost their virginity to each other years before) as they attempt to reel in their horny tendencies and prove that men and women can just be friends.

    It's full to the brim with funny people like Jason Sugeikis (Horrible Bosses), Alison Brie (The Five-Year Engagement) and Natasha Lyonne (Orange is the New Black). Check out the trailer below!

    Take our poll below and if you're really in the sharing mood, you can tell us about your ex sex story in the comment section for the chance to win a Lovehoney Mains Powered Deluxe Magic Wand Vibrator and two cinema tickets to go and see the film, courtesy of Icon (thanks guys!).

    Don't worry, you can still enter even if you don't have a 'sex with an ex' story. Just leave a comment.

    This competition is now closed and a winner has been notified via email.

    Check out the trailer for Sleeping With Other People below.

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    Comments (122)

    • Tom: December 16, 2015 14:07
      I haven't ever slept with an ex but would love to win this for my mrs!
    • Roger: December 16, 2015 14:31
      Never slept with an ex but when I was younger there was a relationship ended but pulled us back together for a long time.
    • bex1213: December 16, 2015 14:39
      Never slept with an ex but I've fooled around with one. Never a good idea!
    • Echo: December 16, 2015 14:54
      I have, I continued sleeping with my ex for almost a year, terrible idea and really ground away at my confidence and self worth. Never again!
    • Popk1n: December 16, 2015 14:57
      Since I have only slept with one person, and I am still with him, I have not slept with an ex. Honestly don't know if I ever would or not.
    • sbct: December 16, 2015 16:31
      Yes, man years ago, it was fun at the time and we were both single but only works that way. I dont think it would work out as a relationship again
    • Rebecca Barnes: December 16, 2015 17:21
      Would love to see this film - it looks great!
      When it comes to sleeping with an ex, surely it depends how you broke up...
    • byz: December 16, 2015 17:25
      Got to give it a go
    • Mummymermaid: December 16, 2015 17:29
      Yes..i have slept with ex's . Yes ex's seems sometimes i never learnt!!! Never a good idea..happily with my partner of 6 years now and loved up xx
    • Tracey W: December 16, 2015 17:55
      I have never slept with an ex, that is why they are an ex
    • stephanie: December 16, 2015 18:14
      It would mess with my head so i steer clear
    • Charlotte: December 16, 2015 18:20
      I unfortunately did sleep with an ex, quite a few ex's actually. I was in a bad place at the time and needed some form of fun intimacy. I never dated any of them again because the sex reminded me of why we were ex's!
    • Catriona Hutchinson: December 16, 2015 19:06
    • Tom: December 16, 2015 19:46
      Every one of them I think.. Why not!!
    • Kerry Woodhouse: December 16, 2015 20:36
      No way
    • Skitty: December 16, 2015 20:41
      Only been in one relationship so have never slept with an ex. Wand looks great :) Good luck all x
    • David Jones: December 16, 2015 20:49
      Hell no, ends in pain.
    • paul baker: December 16, 2015 20:51
      no ex sleeping with me I'm a good boy if it didn't work the first time it wont work the second
    • NJ: December 16, 2015 21:23
      My last partner was a going concern for waaay too long. It'd be a cold day in Hell before I slept with her again.
    • K3: December 16, 2015 21:50
      No thanks!! Ex for a reason
    • CocoGirl: December 16, 2015 22:04
      I've actually slept with two of my ex's after we had split *blushes*.
      Sometimes you need to say goodbye to the sex. I can confirm that not only is breakup sex pretty good- I found it to be good closure.
    • Sandy: December 17, 2015 02:18
      No, never! They are an ex for a reason!
    • ruairi: December 17, 2015 03:52
      Never, its not worth the chance of having a hi-fi thrown at you, trust me
    • Joanne S: December 17, 2015 08:36
      No NEVER
    • Jessica: December 17, 2015 10:01
      I did, and now I'm married to him ??
    • Nick: December 17, 2015 11:27
      I was still in love with the girl; she with me. We split up for the wrong reasons after a holiday when she dropped me off at the station.
      We got back together 4 months later but the magic had gone, so we ended it amicably.
      I would never, ever, sleep with my ex-wife though!
    • Maia: December 17, 2015 11:37
      I've never slept with an ex, but doesn't mean I wouldn't
    • Miss Rose: December 17, 2015 11:49
      I haven't ever thought about sleeping with an ex. Given a lack of desire to be with them when we were dating I can't imagine a desire to do so when we're not.
    • Norm: December 17, 2015 12:32
      We were in college and what else do you do when there is no one else to hook up with after a night of drinking??? Oh and the last night before going home??? And.....
    • The Count: December 17, 2015 13:04
      I am usually on good terms with most of my exs so there is always something ti go off. In some cases it was a straight up "lets just help each other out" scenario, but occasionally there would be a spontaneous moment that would lead to some insane sex. I would also like to win the prize
    • Rabbitcollector: December 17, 2015 13:50
      I don't have any exes so I can't sleep with any!
    • Lucie: December 17, 2015 13:50
      Yes, I am now married and have child with him :) x
    • sassykitten;): December 17, 2015 14:23
      Gotta be in it to win it. But nope I havent ..came close, it shouldnt of though.
    • Stu: December 17, 2015 14:33
    • vanilla: December 17, 2015 14:39
      Results are looking 50/50 at the moment! Glad I'm not the only one who went back there!
    • Lucy: December 17, 2015 14:55
      I would never dream of sleeping with my ex, he's an ex for a reason no matter how good the sex was!
    • Friday13: December 17, 2015 14:56
      I slept with an ex and it was a terrible decision. It just prolonged the breakup.
    • brian: December 17, 2015 18:16
      No have not slept with ex would if i got a magic wand they look great fun
    • L: December 17, 2015 18:57
      yes, was like a week after the split, both a good and a bad thing it felt different because our feeling had changed, helped speed up the healing process
    • tray: December 17, 2015 19:21
      No way
    • Adam: December 17, 2015 21:41
      Wouldn't ever go back to a ex, there an ex for a reason but want to win this for my wife.
    • J: December 17, 2015 22:03
      Yes, bumped in to them on a night out a few months after splitting and had already had a few drinks, one thing led to another, which led back to her place.

      Instant regret the next day.

    • Danny h: December 17, 2015 22:43
      Yes. Out with the boys bumped into an ex I hadn't seen for years. Ended up chatting then before we knew it walked back to hers around the corner. Didn't even get to properly regret it as by the time was finished only had a couple of hours kip then had to leave as she had work.
    • Jimmy: December 17, 2015 23:30
      Well after me and my ex had broke it off, we stayed friends and they used to stay over (I know that already sounded dodgy...but it was purely innocent at the time)

      But one night getting to sleep, I hear the door creek and they get into my bed...they start spooning me and then well....we did the woohoo.

      Never talked about it after, dear lord lust can drive anyone crazy.

    • Alexi: December 18, 2015 00:22
      Never slept with an ex but definitely regretted sleeping with someone I know more than once!!
    • Paul: December 18, 2015 02:35
      Never have, never will.
    • Benson Bears: December 18, 2015 11:34
      Don't have a story, would just like to enter competition
    • Daniel Wooler: December 18, 2015 11:38
      Yeah. I did. Was great at the time. Awkward as hell after though
    • Agw1968: December 18, 2015 11:44
      Had an on off thing for 2 years after we parted, not good for the healing process!
    • Oswin: December 18, 2015 12:03
      Found out my bf of 3 years had a live-in girlfriend of 6 years. She found me online and we confronted him together, and we both walked away from him.

      Unfortunately I was weak, and let him weasel his way back into the bedroom. Very shortly after the truth came out, I found out I was pregnant. It was a very confusing time and horrible situation.

      I've had sex with many exes previously as a NSA almost sort of 'closure' to the relationship, with no issues at all, but this time it really messed with my head. It didn't help that we were so sexually charged and incredibly compatible.

      The pregnancy only made it to just over 5 weeks.

      Thankfully I eventually saw sense, realised I was worth more than what he did. I have since met a lovely (and honest) man.

      My two cents? Sex with an ex can be a great release and a good method of closure but your emotions have to well and truly be under control, otherwise you can end up opening a whole new can of worms.

    • David N: December 18, 2015 12:11
      I would like to win. Yay!
    • Yong C.: December 18, 2015 12:24
      I haven't ever slept with an ex but would love to win
    • Amanda T: December 18, 2015 12:25
      I have never slept with an ex.
    • Sophy: December 18, 2015 12:27
      Never slept with an ex, saw friends do it and it just didn't work out. I would have been really awkward about it too!
    • roy brittain: December 18, 2015 16:20
      Lots of times infact my wife is an ex from way back ??
    • Matt Walker: December 18, 2015 16:41
      We all make mistakes lol
    • Purpleheart: December 18, 2015 17:32
      Never slept with an ex, and would definitely not do it!!!
    • Ryan: December 18, 2015 17:37
      No, never an ex!
    • Chris: December 18, 2015 23:31
      No, never go backwards!
    • Dayna: December 19, 2015 04:48
      Tempted a few times. Never a good idea. Move forward in life not back.
    • Gareth: December 19, 2015 14:41
      No I have not slept with an ex but would like to win this for my wife
    • grumpy bear: December 19, 2015 20:54
      Never had sex with an ex. Would never want to.

      Been happy with the same woman since I was 19 (am now 30)

      Would love to win this for her!

    • BlackAsphodel: December 19, 2015 23:57
      No, I've never slept with an ex.
    • jess: December 20, 2015 09:46
      Urrrgh still makes me cringe thinking about it but I was young and still massively hung up on him! Why I did it a 3rd / 4th / 5th time is beyond me though!
    • Dean: December 20, 2015 13:31
      Nope but I might!
    • Emma: December 20, 2015 13:49
      I'm still sleeping with my ex. We ended on good terms and make more sense as friends. I don't see the harm in it if there are no feelings involved. And you also know what to expect in the bedroom!
    • Aisha: December 20, 2015 14:03
      I haven't.. But I reckon I would ;)
    • Amber: December 20, 2015 14:40
      I've never slept with an ex, but I do look back and thank the heavens that I never did in the first place!
    • Kelly: December 20, 2015 15:02
      At least the ex's know what they are doing?!!
    • Adam: December 20, 2015 15:11
      No never Slept with an ex just wanted to enter the competition
    • Val750: December 20, 2015 15:49
      As ticked, don't judge me... ??
    • era: December 20, 2015 15:57
      Never had that luck. I mostly kept my relationships casual before meeting my husband. If I weren't happily taken, I would gladly redo some of my past sexual encounters with them - hahaha, just to show them what they've missed out on!
    • Beck: December 20, 2015 18:20
      My ex and I were on and off a lot. We had sex more when we weren't together than when we were.
    • Jodie: December 20, 2015 18:29
      Doesn't matter how good the sex may have been a ex is a ex for a reason.
    • Jay: December 21, 2015 09:43
      Nope, never slept with an Ex because there was always a good reason why they became an Ex!
    • SexyBirdie: December 21, 2015 10:03
      Nope, never :)
    • Nib: December 21, 2015 14:11
      Wouldn't consider sleeping with an ex.
    • Jezebella: December 21, 2015 14:29
      I have slept with almost all of my exes at least once. What can I say, bad sex wasn't the reason for the break up!
    • KitsiKiki: December 22, 2015 06:18
      I answered yes, but it was really only by technicality. I broke up with him but slept with him one more time during the following days (then never again). It kind of cemented my decision.
    • Rich: December 22, 2015 12:02
      Missus would luv this
    • Katie: December 22, 2015 15:14
      Havent slept with my ex, as hes a scumbag lol
    • Paul: December 23, 2015 12:25
      Had sex with 1 ex tbh we both knew it was just for the sex so it was WILD.....
    • Trielle: December 23, 2015 13:36
      I seem to make a habit of it unfortunately. Continued sleeping with one ex for several years before I finally broke it off for my own sanity. Recently slept with my most recent ex - still not sure if I regret it or not.
    • Han Solo: December 23, 2015 14:20
      A few times. Why not.
    • The Count: December 23, 2015 18:11
      I usually am on good terms with my exs and with some I am on very good terms, so if we are both single and fancy a bit of fun, it wouldn't be unusual to get the odd text. I don't think it is a bad idea as long as everyone knows where they stand and that it is purely for fun
    • Mandy Wan: December 23, 2015 18:27
      i want this mine run out
    • Fun Louise: December 23, 2015 22:16
      I have never slept with an EX. I believe if it's over then move on, no looking back. For me once I have split with someone there is no going back.
    • Sandy: December 24, 2015 11:23
      I haven't slept with an ex but I have had the urge to then remembered why I broke up with them.
    • Mary: December 24, 2015 11:31
      Yes - at the time I thought it was a good idea - I missed him and thought it might help us. Realised the next morning it changed nothing and I was better off out of it.

      However without that I'd not have met the one i'm with now and the sex is better than ever so if we split up I'd definitely sleep with this one too ;-)

    • Brendan Kirkpatrick: December 24, 2015 11:48
      No chance of sleeping with an Ex, they're Ex for a reason. Although I've let my mind slip back to a few when going at it with the 'new' lady in my life. More a case of 'do I think they'd like this as the Ex bloody loved it?'
    • Joey Simmonds: December 24, 2015 11:56
      Yes I have, it was fulfilling for me. I knew it was going to be just one time and was very selfish.
    • Nicole: December 24, 2015 18:25
      Not a chance
    • Stuart: December 25, 2015 11:19
      Yeah... She had become a phycohosebeast with a thing for bum love...we were together for ages after that...nearly got married until I caught her cheating!!
    • Myra: December 25, 2015 11:19
      I'll admit I've slept with an ex, but it isn't something I would ever do again. It felt disgusting for me.
    • Sarah Davies: December 25, 2015 17:50
      No, but it took a lot of self will once.
    • Bill: December 25, 2015 21:09
    • Karen: December 26, 2015 15:40
      No not ever, don't need to as I have a perfect fella who would love to try this magic wand with me
    • Stockie: December 26, 2015 15:56
      Yes but never got "back together" with them.
    • Natalie Taylor: December 26, 2015 17:46
      No, just entering by commenting to hopefully win! ^_^
    • OperationFilth: December 26, 2015 19:20
      I did - only with an ex where there was crazy chemistry, It felt like we kept gravitating to each other. Toxic but inescapable at the time!
    • Yummymummy :-*: December 27, 2015 11:18
      I slept with an ex and we ended up back together! Big mistake...we were exes for a reason! Momentary, rose tinted goggles moment ??
    • Niall: December 27, 2015 13:00
      Yes we "split up" due to work commitments and just became fwb's. Suited us both at the time and don't regret it.
    • Daniel Tolmie: December 27, 2015 14:22
      Iv never slept with & ex, theres a reason there a ex, Would love to win this wand im sure my Fiancée & i could get up to loads of naught fun with it. ????
    • Paul: December 27, 2015 14:27
      As they say, an ex is an ex for a reason!
    • Paul Roth: December 27, 2015 14:28
      I was bad and let an ex think we were getting back together, when I was more in a fwb state-of-mind. I'm clearer communicating these days.
    • Ashley cooper: December 27, 2015 14:30
      There an ex for a reason I would never go back for a burger when I have steak at home I would love to take the wife out watch a film then use the toy all over her body
    • Michaela: December 27, 2015 14:33
      Was with boyfriend for over a year, we broke up. Ended up having sex and it reunited us best thing to happen !been back together for over 5 years
    • NS: December 27, 2015 17:39
      No, but why not?! All depends how the relationship end.
    • Eliza: December 27, 2015 17:48
      I went back to my ex to tell her that I had moved on and that we shouldn't have any more contact with each other, especially as she had a new girlfriend.
      Well.... turns out we couldn't stay away from each other because all of a sudden we were kissing and before we even had a chance to stop and think, we were doing other stuff too! Before I left, we vowed never to mention it again but eventually she told her girlfriend out of guilt and they broke up. Me and my ex now meet up every so often for some fun. I am completely addicted to her.
      Don't judge me!
    • Paul: December 27, 2015 20:29
    • Darren Collins: December 28, 2015 00:09
      Never slept with an ex but would love this
    • Jay wallin: December 28, 2015 11:27
      I've never been given the opportunity but even if I did I wouldn't go back there
    • Sarah W: December 28, 2015 11:29
      I have slept with an ex more times than I'd like to admit actually.
    • Mark: December 28, 2015 11:53
      I've never slept with an ex. I wouldn't want too, I love my wife
    • Ryan: December 28, 2015 12:28
      I slept with an ex, she came back for more after she got with her new partner (they are still together to this day)
    • Alex: December 28, 2015 13:18
      I've slept with an ex off and on for two years and it was the worst thing I could have done to my self.
      It developed me as a new experience (he was my first sexual partner), but it killed my self esteem and self worth from then on. (I loved him and only felt like I was good for sexual favors.) Slept with them again last year, but was still in love with them and I'm still fighting to over come all the depression it brought me. Made a lot of foolish mistakes these past five years that I thought I knew better not to make.
      Would NOT recommend. Not even to my worst enemies. Still emotionally recovering. And it's going to be a long process to move on.
    • Shoey: December 28, 2015 13:30
      Would never go there!!
    • Elizabeth: December 28, 2015 20:25
      Yes, I have. It's always a really bad idea unless you're keen to get back together again and there is a real possibility.
    • Stan: December 28, 2015 23:59
      Ye, I have. seems like a few life times away... As long as it is only sex, no problem, especially when both singles. It is actually good, as the sex can be a different experience if you have learned new stuff in-between. Will enjoy giving this to my partner (and using it on) if I win it !!
    • basherbit: December 30, 2015 14:27
      been there filled every hole ...want fresh pussy not stretched
    • Naomi: January 05, 2016 11:50
      Sadly yes, I slept with my estranged husband two months after he left us! BIG mistake! Not good! Rather watch paint dry than repeat the boring experience!!!
    • bonnie: January 08, 2016 12:35
      yes......... big mistake !
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