• Boost Your Sex Drive With Lovehoney And Win Durex Play O Orgasm Gel!

    Nicole
    by Nicole on 22 September 2013 108 comments  |  Add a comment

    Win Durex Play O Orgasm GelThey say men are from Mars and women are from Venus, and when it comes to the difference in sex drive, we're tempted to believe them.

    Although men tend to have higher sex drives than women on average (source), the difference in libidos can often swing both ways in a relationship.

    It can be frustrating if you want sex every day but your partner is more of a once a week lover. Thankfully, there are plenty of things you can try to even out any sexual discrepancies, and Lovehoney is here to help.

    To help you turn up the heat on your sex life, we're giving you the chance to win a bottle of Durex Play O Orgasm Gel (£12.00). To be in with a chance to win, simply comment below before Friday, September 27th to be automatically entered into the giveaway.

    With well over 100 reviews and an impressive 4 star rating, this famous clitoral gel is certainly doing something right!

    Read on below for more ideas and tips about increasing your libido...



    • Feel like your libido could do with a kick? This article summarises the advice from recent sexology studies to get your desire back on track. From baking pumpkin pie to watching a scary movie, they all seem very doable. My favourite tip? Grab a picture of your lover: "A study by Helen Fisher, an anthropologist at Rutgers University, found that when people look at a photo of their loved one for 30 seconds or longer, their brain begins producing dopamine, a libido booster." What's your best advice for a healthy sex life? [Boost Libido: 7 Natural Ways To Kickstart Your Sex Drive - Huffington Post]
    • Swoon Massage in a BottleWhen it comes to lack of sex drive and difficulty getting in the mood, the solution can often be as simple as relaxing and enjoying sensual foreplay. Why not give your lover a romantic massage with Swoon Massage Oil (right) and allow the heady aroma of coconut, lime and jojoba to overtake their senses? Even if it doesn't lead to sex, it will help them feel calmer and less stressed. Alternatively, you may find our Better Sex For Him and Her sections useful - packed full of orgasm boosters, erection enhancers and aphrodisiacs to arouse and delight.
    1. Our Video of the Week comes courtesy of Durex, and explains how to use all senses to get in the mood.

    The winner of the Sexual Health goodie bag from last week is Abots. Remember to comment below for your chance to win a bottle of Durex Play O Orgasm Gel (£12.00). The winner will be chosen at random and contacted by email, so make sure to use one you check regularly.

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    Comments (108)

    • Scorpius12: September 22, 2013 09:40
      Very Interesting blog as always - fingers crossed xxx
    • Lisa Underhill: September 22, 2013 10:12
      Love to give this a try!
    • Jonathan Day: September 22, 2013 10:20
      Sounds like this could be worth a try.
    • gem: September 22, 2013 10:22
      Interesting Blog. Might have to invest in some of the durex play O.
    • dave: September 22, 2013 10:25
      Sounds fun would love to have a go of that stuff
    • John: September 22, 2013 10:54
      LH , you are great :)
    • Chris: September 22, 2013 11:26
      Yes please
    • Kate: September 22, 2013 11:51
      Always interested in trying new things :)
    • Angeldelight: September 22, 2013 11:54
      Would love to try this xx
    • RedKitsune: September 22, 2013 11:58
      Had my eye on this for a while! Sounds very tempting!
    • JayJay: September 22, 2013 12:14
      My partner will be praying that I don't win this. He says I always want it and I am sapping all his energy.
    • Tasha: September 22, 2013 12:24
      Really want to try this :)
    • Kelly: September 22, 2013 13:39
      Oh oh oooh! Would love to win this
    • Jules: September 22, 2013 13:58
      Would luv 2 try this as my partner wants me 2 b mre Adventurous an Try new things.:)x
    • David: September 22, 2013 14:20
      L@@ks very interesting could do with some of this may even order a bottle to try it out and see if it doe's what it say's on the bottle
    • kev: September 22, 2013 14:23
      This is supposed to be great fun looking at the reviews!
    • kev: September 22, 2013 14:34
      This is supposed to be great fun looking at the reviews!
    • Julian: September 22, 2013 14:48
      Great giveaway as usual
    • Andrew: September 22, 2013 15:21
      we would love to try this as a couple
    • Stevie: September 22, 2013 16:31
      Yes please as I haven't been feeling like having sex lately :( x
    • Deanna: September 22, 2013 17:52
      Interesting reading would love to win and try this with my partner to boost my own sex drive.
    • Lou22: September 22, 2013 18:31
      Be fun to try out after reading the reviews, fingers crossed x
    • Joanne Bolton: September 22, 2013 19:03
      would love to give it a try
    • Blonde vixen 13: September 22, 2013 19:04
      My OHs sex drive is definitely higher than mine. He's never satisfied
    • tre: September 22, 2013 21:04
      sex drive is high sky high
    • brewstabmx: September 22, 2013 21:22
      would love to give this ago
    • Andrey: September 22, 2013 21:59
      That's sounds like a great time .... ;)
    • ianm: September 22, 2013 23:17
      could this bring the loving back?
    • Silverdrop: September 23, 2013 12:20
      Durex Play-O is worth every penny! I love it SO much!
    • rach74: September 23, 2013 12:33
      Nice
    • rach74: September 23, 2013 12:38
      Nice
    • cornish89: September 23, 2013 13:21
      My sex drive is much higher than my oh's I always think! X
    • WhiteWolf93: September 23, 2013 13:38
      Hmm think this would be worth trying with my partner
    • lillithlibby: September 23, 2013 15:11
      Sounds really good, I've had my eye on the gel for a while :-), brilliant blog :-)
    • wildflower: September 23, 2013 15:43
      Yes please !
    • LoriandHubby: September 23, 2013 16:15
      I love Durex products, this one sounds like it would be great too.
    • Beck: September 23, 2013 16:47
      I have yet to try any of these gels. Could be fun.
    • Jess Garner: September 23, 2013 18:09
      Id love to try:-)
    • Stuart P: September 23, 2013 18:10
      Like the look of this
    • PS: September 23, 2013 18:53
      Yes plese
    • Andy: September 23, 2013 19:29
      This could go down well with the wife.
    • Lainey: September 23, 2013 19:49
      This sounds like fun :-D
    • Jessie: September 23, 2013 21:49
      Blimey, if this is as good as it sounds then I want in! :)
    • MelissaB: September 23, 2013 22:46
      Sounds great
    • JulieK: September 23, 2013 23:22
      Always up for keeping the spark alive..mm mm mm : )
    • ShellyAnneD: September 24, 2013 10:02
      I am going to try this really good artical
    • Emily: September 24, 2013 10:54
      This would be great for spicing up our anniversary weekend away, already stocking up on goodies. Fingers crossed xx
    • jeffngloria: September 24, 2013 12:25
      looks good yes please
    • jeffngloria: September 24, 2013 12:28
      looks good yes please
    • Jayne: September 24, 2013 13:43
      I would love to try this prize with my man, a present for us both.
    • FrozenAngel: September 24, 2013 16:47
      Interesting blog!! Though I'm not too sure about the men having a higher sex drive! I always thought that was the case but it never seems to be the way with me lol! Unless I'm just some sort of sex fiend.
    • Sean: September 24, 2013 16:50
      Sounds good
    • Jonathan Day: September 24, 2013 19:57
      Enjoyed the blog. Very interesting.
    • Jess: September 24, 2013 20:09
      Ooooh yes please ^^
    • MrsMcX: September 24, 2013 21:03
      I've never tried this before, it sounds like it could be good though. I've gone off durex products, but I think I might have to give this a go!
    • Amy: September 24, 2013 21:41
      Good read as always LoveHoney :-)
    • delilahxx: September 24, 2013 21:45
      Oooh la la, yes please:)
    • Kohitsuji: September 24, 2013 21:48
      I've always wanted to something similar to this, but haven't gotten the chance til now (hopefully). :)
    • Vicki: September 25, 2013 01:27
      I love some of the different stimulating gels and would like to try this, too!
    • Sugar Doll: September 25, 2013 01:31
      This seems like it would be great to try.
    • Sangsara: September 25, 2013 15:23
      I thought they stopped making this! Wanna win soooo bad
    • phil: September 25, 2013 17:07
      Yes please !!
    • jj: September 25, 2013 17:30
      Am yet to find a Durex product that I don't like. Certainly willing to give this a go!
    • mr Francis Bigger: September 25, 2013 20:47
      Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh yes............please
    • Jenni Bean: September 25, 2013 21:19
      Want!
    • Kimberley: September 25, 2013 21:37
      Yes please !
    • Daren: September 25, 2013 22:43
      Sounds like lots of fun! ;-)
    • Sarah: September 26, 2013 00:41
      After using their flavoured gel, which was fantastic, this really, really looks like an amazing thing to try. I'd like to see how they compare! xx
    • KiraKitten: September 26, 2013 02:26
      Oh that looks niiice I'd love to try it
    • Sano: September 26, 2013 10:52
      Never owned lube before! This would be very heavenly to have! Good luck all!
    • P: September 26, 2013 14:33
      Got to try everything in life, yes please
    • Andrew: September 26, 2013 14:39
      If this works could it be the end of " not tonight, i have a headache" ?. i would love to win this to test this theory out.
    • mel: September 26, 2013 14:56
      need my first pleeease!
    • jodie: September 26, 2013 17:13
      Myself and partner have a good healthy sex life but I would never say no to more sex, and I know he would love to have more!
    • jenny: September 26, 2013 17:26
      would love to try this
    • jenny: September 26, 2013 17:26
      would love to try this
    • Bakerson: September 26, 2013 17:28
      This sounds interesting _ i'd love some!
    • Stevey: September 26, 2013 17:30
      Sounds good to me!
    • saucey21: September 26, 2013 18:10
      interesting topic, as a generalisation i think men have a higher sex drive, but womens goes up and down. mines definately up and way above OH's. so i think if i won this it might kill him.
    • LetsTryThis: September 26, 2013 18:22
      After so many years together I find our sex drives fluctuate according to various life events. Sometimes we're in sync (either high or low); sometimes we're not. But the biggest thing we do is communicate all the way.
    • Nat: September 26, 2013 18:23
      Even though my OH and I have no issue with this, it sounds like it would be lots of fun to try out anyway!

      Thanks again LH! :D

    • rubysoho: September 26, 2013 18:58
      ooh sounds like it could be good and worth a try !
    • Olly: September 26, 2013 19:33
      A few very interesting suggestions. Definitely going to have a proper look into this
    • Paul: September 26, 2013 19:37
      Love to try this ;-)
    • Sam: September 26, 2013 19:43
      I <3 LH!
    • lmflmf: September 26, 2013 20:07
      Would love to try this. The blog was an interesting read.
    • nikki: September 26, 2013 20:39
      Yes please x
    • dean: September 26, 2013 20:48
      looks interesting! Want to give this a try :)
    • Charlie: September 26, 2013 20:55
      Would definitely like to give this a go!!
    • Gazzx: September 26, 2013 21:13
      Sounds perfect!
    • Ann: September 26, 2013 21:14
      Yes please, lve to try this
    • Mr Chris: September 26, 2013 21:18
      Wow, sounds interesting. Want want WANT!
    • Maureen: September 26, 2013 22:06
      It'd be fun to try why not?!
    • Arinargo: September 26, 2013 23:56
      Yes please
    • Terry: September 27, 2013 05:48
      Can't wait to try in front of the log fire
    • K. C.: September 27, 2013 05:50
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    • chloe: September 27, 2013 07:25
      hope im not too late :) xx
    • Soph: September 27, 2013 13:26
      Sounds interesting!
    • Pablo honey: September 27, 2013 13:27
      Sounds worth trying!
    • naughty stacey: September 27, 2013 14:35
      yes please, sounds like fun!
    • Kinky&Curvy: September 27, 2013 14:47
      Pretty please :P durex always make amazin products, only thing i'm not allergic to haha xxx
    • sharon: September 27, 2013 16:13
      Hmm this sounds like my kind of thing, I'd love to give it a try
    • jodie: September 27, 2013 16:30
      Looks fun love to give it a go up for trying anything
    • Rich: September 27, 2013 17:13
      That'd be great. Me please (fingers crossed)
    • Kaytee: September 28, 2013 18:27
      ?????? Fingers Crossed Would Love To Try xxx
    • Paul: September 29, 2013 15:38
      Love to try this ;-)
    • elara: October 23, 2013 01:38
      i really want it!
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