• Get Sextual! Plus, Win a Satisfy Me G-Spot Dildo!

    Nicole
    by Nicole on 11 August 2013 105 comments  |  Add a comment

    With smartphones becoming more and more common, we're now using them for everything - email, phone calls, social media... and sexting?

    Recent reports show that sexting has become more and more popular with young people, which certainly gives a new meaning to the phrase "Phone Sex"!

    Below, we're discussing the in and outs of mixing technology with sex, but first we're giving you the chance to win a top-rated sex toy.

    We're giving away a Satisfy Me G-Spot Dildo (worth £16.99)! To enter, just comment below before August 16th at 5pm - easy!

    This bestselling G-Spot toy offers internal stimulation for exquisite pleasure. Use with a Bullet Vibrator for an even better orgasm.

    Read on below for the best sex news from this week, and don't forget to add your opinions in the comments!



    • njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel DildoRebecca from njoy (right) shows how you can adapt your njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo into a makeshift phone. The sound quality isn't great, but it at least looks cool! This week's prize should also make a pretty good fake phone...
    • Speaking of long distance relationships, a new survey has shown that couples who are in a LDR tend to be more intimate with each other. "Couples who lived apart tended to have fewer daily interactions, but those interactions were longer and more meaningful, with each person revealing more about him or herself." Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? Do you think it can be more intimate? [Long Distance Relationship Benefits Include Greater Intimacy, Study Says - Huffington Post]
    1. Our Video of the Week shows what can happen when phone sex goes wrong...

    The winners of the BlueBella Millie Satin and Lace Lingerie Set from last week is Leah Shutkever. Remember to comment below for your chance to win a Satisfy Me G-Spot Dildo (worth £16.99)! The winner will be chosen at random and contacted by email, so make sure to use one you check regularly.

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    Comments (105)

    • Paul Newton: August 11, 2013 09:07
      Looks like a nice one to me, yes please ;-)
    • Mrs JoJo ( @josephine_kk ): August 11, 2013 09:15
      I love a good bit of phone boning, when my Mr can't be with me in person. But there is no way on this earth that I would be using my phone during intimate moments, when he is with me. TBH, I rarely use my phone, when he is with me :)
    • nicola: August 11, 2013 09:15
      Yeeeeeeees!
    • Dean: August 11, 2013 09:26
      During sex I can only think of using the camera.... Lol Maybe I'm missing something!!! That said sexting is great, it can help really build the moment you get your hands on each other and it's not embarrassing like phone sex!
    • vicky: August 11, 2013 09:34
      Pink very pink! but i can close my eyes and forget about the pink
    • stephen: August 11, 2013 09:52
      Havent tried it dont fancy it at all but maybe u do hav to to appreciate it
    • Jen: August 11, 2013 09:59
      No way on earth could I use a phone whilst getting down to business! That just is rude lol! A camera maybe, but not a phone! Its like a bloke watching the football whilst doing it, just wrong lol!
    • louise: August 11, 2013 10:10
      During sex we've only ever used the camera on the smartphones. Have answered a few important calls to the landline then jumped straight back ontop while in the call.
    • clare: August 11, 2013 10:14
      Sexting is great, not only does it let us enjoy each other when we are apart, it also lets us us do those roleplays that we couldn't manage in real life as well as exploring new ideas to see how much we would enjoy then in the bedroom. Sexy, practical and fun! Perfect :D
    • Dowster1: August 11, 2013 10:17
      Nothing wrong with a bit of fonefun.
    • Debbie: August 11, 2013 10:33
      Phone sex is great if your both away from each other and to tease for when you meet. Makes the relationship sparkle.
    • Candied CItrus: August 11, 2013 10:53
      I don't know if it could be called sexting, per say... But I've certainly sent teasing and flirty messages to my boyfriend, which seemed well received - he liked how forward I was being.

      I honestly can't see any reason why someone would use their phone during sex, though. In my opinion, that's just rude...

      And I think I'd agree with the fact that people in long distance relationships are more likely to talk and be more open with each other during their interactions. Though it can't be called a LDR, I live in a town outside of the city where my boyfriend lives. Due to bus fares being extortionate (unfortunately), we're lucky if we see each other more than once a week, and most of the time we spend with each other is spent talking about anything and everything and cuddling up. :)

    • Chloe: August 11, 2013 12:42
      No! No! No! and more No! if you have time for that there not doing there job right! only good thing a phone is for when it comes down to sex is organising when and where you can meet up to do the deed :)

      ( think long distance relationships can be a little different)

    • Pr4wnSt4r: August 11, 2013 13:07
      I've always wanted to try one of these and it's pink..bonus.
      Would also work great as a fake phone ;))
    • karen: August 11, 2013 14:12
      As per usual a great looking toy from LH.
      Technology and sex doesn't just have to phone. I've got the wireless remote love egg and it's great because my husband has the remote and I never know what he is going to do
    • Naughty Miss K: August 11, 2013 14:20
      I love sexting, as someone in a LDR is really helps keep the lonely nights at bay, as we can still communicate whilst in the act, even when we're not together then! Makes it so much better!
    • Emma: August 11, 2013 15:01
      Oooooo I love sexting... especially to my OH when he's at work to get him going for when he gets home to me. ;)
    • rag doll: August 11, 2013 15:04
      certainly agree about what was said about LDRs and on the subject of smart phones during sex- i did once challange my partner to a game of fruite ninja whilst having sex. he still beat me despite the distraction though.
    • Zan: August 11, 2013 15:27
      Oh yes please!
    • margaret webb: August 11, 2013 16:11
      oohh yes please would love one :D
    • Char: August 11, 2013 16:12
      Wow yes please!!
    • Karen Dunhill: August 11, 2013 16:40
      Sexting is great for getting your other half ready and going so when they get home all they want to do is rip your clothes off, works for me and my partner! And I would love to try this sextoy as im new to them (only have two) but enjoy using them with my partner and he loves using them on me as he loves giving me pleasure and showing me new things and experiences (he's only the second person I've ever slept with in my life,the first was my ex-husband unfortunately) so would love it if love honey could help us to continue on our path to "sexual happiness" thank you ?
    • Karen Dunhill: August 11, 2013 16:47
      Sexting is great for getting your other half ready and going so when they get home all they want to do is rip your clothes off, works for me and my partner! And I would love to try this sextoy as im new to them (only have two) but enjoy using them with my partner and he loves using them on me as he loves giving me pleasure and showing me new things and experiences (he's only the second person I've ever slept with in my life,the first was my ex-husband unfortunately) so would love it if love honey could help us to continue on our path to "sexual happiness" thank you ?
    • Dave: August 11, 2013 17:16
      There is nothing wrong with a bit of sexting, although there is no substitute for the real thing!
    • Lightningrider: August 11, 2013 18:57
      It's great! Lots of fun to be had when you're away from each other or when you know you're going to see each other soon. Sends all the right signals and you know exactly what's going to happen when you do clap eyes on each other! ;-P xxxx
    • Lindsay M: August 11, 2013 19:12
      Oh goodness! If my lover was busy on the phone during sex I think I'd have to whip them. How rude! D:
      But on a side note: thanks again for another great contest, Lovehoney!
    • Sand: August 11, 2013 19:14
      Not sexting but phone sex with an LDR.
    • mrs average: August 11, 2013 19:32
      I love a bit of sexting to get eachother in the mood it's great foreplay. I also like to send lingerie photo shots to give him a glimpse of what's underneath.
    • JayJay: August 11, 2013 23:55
      There is no better feeling than insisting that my Mr answers the phone while I am in charge. I like to watch him trying to have a normal conversation while I am riding him hard. The disbelief on his face is priceless.
    • Louise&James: August 12, 2013 00:14
      Me and Mr J have used the phones camera during sex and on occasion i have used the calender. on our phones you can add each other to an appointment i.e. in the bedroom in 10 mins and it buzzes the other person. we use that quite a bit :P Sexting whilst waiting for a train... oh yes ;) x
    • Scorpius12: August 12, 2013 07:18
      We love the occasional sext - it is a real turn on - keeps you thinking about each other all day long and what is waiting for you later..... Another excellent blog Nicole - as always my fingers are crossed :)
    • Sweet: August 12, 2013 08:08
      Would love to win this so I could text my OH and tell him whats waiting for playtime!!
    • sharon smith: August 12, 2013 10:18
      why not have a bit of phone sex,its good to keep your partner going with what you wont to do to each other when you get together,it can keep the spark going
    • Linda: August 12, 2013 13:51
      This one looks interesting! :)
    • rach74: August 12, 2013 14:56
      Looks good
    • Charlotte: August 12, 2013 15:01
      I think people relay far too much on using technology to communicate. People text far too much rather than a good old fashion conversation!
      I think been able to say things to each other face to face strengthens a relationship...and please don't accuse me of been old i'm only 22!

      My boyfriend rarely even looks at his phone when he is with me, people seem so obsessed with checking it every 5 minutes these days!

    • Stuart: August 12, 2013 15:29
      I could see the wife liking this one ;-)
    • Abi: August 12, 2013 17:22
      Phone sex makes me cringe a little bit, but I wouldn't say no if the mood took us and we were apart!
    • Julian: August 12, 2013 17:24
      Only the camera option
    • bumblebee: August 12, 2013 17:40
      If you are using your phone WHILE having sex, it's not being done right :P

      Got to love a few dirty texts to get you in the mood ;)

    • sarah: August 12, 2013 17:45
      Nothing wrong with a bit of sexting , like to let hubby know wats for dessert when he comes home from work ;-)
    • Carl: August 12, 2013 17:53
      I'm like a few others, would only touch the phone to use the camera....
    • chris: August 12, 2013 18:05
      love a bit of it myself, cant wait to get home :)
    • Kelly: August 12, 2013 19:09
      With my man often working away I love getting sextual
    • ellie: August 12, 2013 19:13
      Would fit like a glove lol x
    • Brendan: August 12, 2013 19:21
      Can't beat a bit of sexting to wife while I'm at work. Takes the edge off a boring day and revs me up for the night to come. Love it!
    • Nigel: August 12, 2013 19:37
      Im sure the GF would like a bit of pink ...:-D
    • Angeldelight: August 12, 2013 20:25
      I love a bit of flirty sexting to my oh ,to get him in the mood for when he gets home ,but not to use the phone during sex unless it to take sexy pics
    • Jessipurrr: August 12, 2013 21:12
      I love sexting, and sending naughty pics to my partner when he's not around. I've used my phone during sex to take pictures and film it... i've also stuck on some porn before but that was a one off :p
    • LoriandHubby: August 12, 2013 21:31
      Ive never had phone sex
    • sexy_boy: August 12, 2013 21:45
      i might get one for my girlfriend
    • Nat: August 12, 2013 22:25
      Ooo this looks like fun to use! Especially alongside a bullet vibrator. :D
    • tre: August 12, 2013 23:54
      Makes you want to get your toys out and play
    • Ken: August 13, 2013 00:13
      I'm in a LDR right now and I can safely say that whilst it's hard being apart, we are being more open and communicating about intimate things more often. It also makes us both realise how we much we love each other for other reasons that just our bodies.
    • Tender: August 13, 2013 01:59
      Looks like a nice toy box addition :-)
    • libbylillith: August 13, 2013 15:02
      Loved the video :-D
      Sexting keeps ldr alive :-)
      Cant say ive ever used the phone while having sex with someone but I have teased while an ex partner was on the phone :-)
    • fizzy: August 13, 2013 15:38
      the curve of the vibe looks gorgeous
    • M-j: August 13, 2013 15:44
      I've never answered the phone mid deed as I feel it's quite bad manners.
      My OH & I use our phones regularly during the day to sex text each other and send naughty pics. It livens up the day & heightens the anticipation!
    • Pad: August 13, 2013 15:46
      It can be fun if used the right way. But there are too many victims of technology. Sorry but it is sometimes putting people, especialy the young in danger. That is why i would take the low technology gift over a sextin session anyday. Far less harmful.
    • Stevie: August 13, 2013 15:54
      I love phone sex! It's great to have a bit of fun together even when we are apart! ;)
    • snowflake :): August 13, 2013 15:59
      First my views on phone sex and text sex - I would say yes! Obviously not instead of the real thing, but I'm currently in a long distance relationship most of the time due to being at uni - and using the phone to sex text works out quite well!
      And secondly the G-spot dildo looks beautiful as well :)
    • Bakerson: August 13, 2013 16:08
      Sexting love it!
      It's great foreplay when you know time alone is short, or when the kids haven't gone to bed yet, or out with friends.
      Used to love phonesex before the OH and I moved in together, I used to really get off on listing to how wet she was as we well you know...
    • jayne_89: August 13, 2013 16:20
      iv been enjoying phone/text/skype sex for about 8years and since recent weight gain i find it better than the real thing, its nice not being uncomfortable or self concious because of my weight. id definitly recommend everyone to try it atleast once.

      as for answering the phone during sex i never have but i have given oral to partners while they've been on the phone.

    • Raine: August 13, 2013 17:22
      Phone sex is fun and I've enjoyed it many times in the past when my partner was away, but anything by text makes me a bit nervous because it could be spread around, especially if the person becomes vindictive and uses it against you, not that I would be particularly embarrassed, but if that person turned out to be an ass then I wouldn't want people to know I had once found them sexy. Thanks for the giveaway too-nice!
    • Phil: August 13, 2013 17:32
      We have sext'ed and sent pics.

      My OH had a spell of sending pics of her in various states of undress in changing rooms.

    • Rory: August 13, 2013 18:23
      Of course 'sexting' is brilliant! Especially in regards to LDR. I've definitely found that still spending your time apart sharing a certain kind of intimacy helps when you do see each other, and means it's a lot easier to get the ball rolling, so to speak. It also means that you don't spend quite as much time craving the other person, if you are getting something from them.
    • Little nympho: August 13, 2013 18:53
      I love a bit if sexting :-) even better when photos/videos are involved!
    • johnny: August 13, 2013 21:47
      nice!
    • Beck: August 13, 2013 22:59
      I've been interested in this one. Thanks for the chance to win one!
    • Vicky: August 13, 2013 23:37
      Only the camera/video function! This toy looks like it could be good...!
    • niki gill: August 14, 2013 02:18
      id love the chance to win this! always like to try new things.
    • Jess: August 14, 2013 10:07
      I've wanted this for a while! Looks great.
    • Fran: August 14, 2013 11:14
      Don't mind if I do :-)
    • dizzygirl: August 14, 2013 21:40
      I hate using the phone but I'd love to use that G spot dildo.
    • George: August 14, 2013 23:53
      Can't get a signal
    • Han Solo: August 15, 2013 10:08
      Another great competition prize...
    • Toy Addict: August 15, 2013 14:30
      I'm in an LDR and I do find that the time we spend together is more meaningful as it's limited, compared to previous close-disatnce relationships.
    • mel: August 15, 2013 15:13
      that looks lovely!
    • SophieM: August 15, 2013 16:15
      The nearest I have ever gotten to 'phone sex' / sexting is a bit of flirting. I do get why this is great for those in an LDR though.

      I just don't think I could ever do the whole sexting thing full on, never mind using my phone whilst actually having sex and being intimate with a partner.

    • Russ: August 15, 2013 16:27
      I don't think the aim should be to replace anything. It has it's place along with everything else, and can be wonderfully effective. It's also a good outlet for those who are shy in person.

      Personally, I like to make sure it's part of the whole and find it enhances things from the everyday norm and humdrum of it all.

    • Alice: August 15, 2013 16:28
      Phone sex can absolutely be as good as the real thing. I had a relationship with a chap for over a year and it was solely conducted over the phone as he lived in the States. He even asked me to marry him because of my phone sex abilities. You can be way more kinky than you'd ever dare to be in real life :D
    • Karina: August 15, 2013 16:29
      Sexting is AWESOME..especially if you're long distance...builds the momentum up for when you do see eachother...
      it's super fun even if you're not...sometime you get a bit of a rush saying somethign you wouldn't normally...
      and role plays when you're ON the phone whilst playing is always
      interesting...
    • lolly: August 15, 2013 16:31
      Text sex is the best! It is such a tease and you can do it in places and situations that you would never be able to do phone sex.
      It's one of the things I miss most now I am single.
    • Kim: August 15, 2013 17:26
      Phone sex and sexting are great mood setters, but nothing like as good as the real thing
    • Tish: August 15, 2013 17:41
      Definitely! Especially in long distance relationships, it helps :) but even when you are together, it's great for a bit of fun when you are apart during the day!
    • jj: August 15, 2013 21:33
      The short answer to your question is no. However,in a long distance relationship, needs must...
    • Jo: August 15, 2013 22:05
      why not build to the meeting moment !!
    • Serena: August 15, 2013 22:23
      Phones can definitely come in handy when you don't get to see the other person very often. Sometimes its difficult due to lack of confidence, but it can help open up discussions which might not start face to face. However, when you are face to face phones should not be involved!! If you're on your phone, then you're not playing your part.
    • shannon: August 15, 2013 23:37
      Yes please!
    • Neil: August 16, 2013 11:04
      I love sexting, a few cheeky photos sent to me when I get to work show me what is in store for me when I get home. The camera on my smart phone is always at the ready in the besroom so we can re-live the moments at a later date which always gets us both going.
    • Christopher E @erotiquechris: August 16, 2013 13:12
      Well it brings a whole new use to "vibrate mode"

      I'd much rather use the G-spot dildo on Mrs E thanks

      Would love the opportunity to use it

    • Lynz: August 16, 2013 13:15
      Mmmmmmmm yes please ;) x
    • KinkyKiki2012: August 16, 2013 13:15
      I love sexting especially sending hubby nude pics or pics of me playing with my girlfriend and her bf but seems rude disturbing him at work ;) He loves it really though. x
    • Steve: August 16, 2013 13:16
      Oh yes please I'd love to try this
    • Emma: August 16, 2013 13:21
      I do use my phone during sex. I either use the camera if we fancy filming our session or I use some of the many sex position apps available on mobile phones. It can be really fun when you fancy trying something new but can't think of anything. I find it very naughty when I hand my phone over to my partner and ask him to pick any position he wants while I go down on him or tease him because it really gets him going!
    • Jonathan: August 16, 2013 13:29
      Love to try this lets hope for a win!!
    • Chris Kinnk: August 16, 2013 14:13
      Looks kinky, want one!
    • Mozzalini: August 16, 2013 14:13
      The camera and a password protected photo storage app are well used on my phone. We also like to seek inspiration from those sex position apps. A saucy text will often get her in the mood when I leave work too, she can be ready to rock'n'roll when I get home!
    • kay: August 16, 2013 14:15
      Don't think much of sexting, but naughty things over snap chat is very good. X
    • Sugar Doll: August 16, 2013 17:29
      There are times that I have texted someone back while in the middle of having sex. I have answered a phone call from my mom multiple times during foreplay. & Now with Snapchat I send my husbands erotic photos!!
    • kimkey: August 17, 2013 20:41
      Nah...I prefer the real thing! It just gets a bit Star trek when its to technical !
    • keith: August 22, 2013 10:53
      I think me an my gal will have great pleasures an sum pain with this little toy
    • KinkyFuckery: August 24, 2013 16:55
      You cant beat a bit of sexting makes the day/night more intresting
    • JT: August 28, 2013 10:09
      Looks cool!
    • Nod: August 28, 2013 10:10
      Always wanted to try g-spot vibe!
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