• Dance Your Way To Better Sex! Plus, Win a We-Vibe Thrill

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    Dancing is sexy. Whether it's hip hop, rave or ballroom, there's just something about dancing that makes us hyper-aware of our own bodies and sensuality.

    It's been suggested by scientists that dancing is a mating ritual, which explains why love often sprouts up on the dancefloor.

    In this week's blog we're taking a look at the truth behind sexy dancing.

    To help you get your groove on, we have not one, but TWO Thrill by We-Vibe Dual Action Vibrators (worth £94.99 each) to give away to two lucky readers! To enter, simply comment below before 5pm Friday, June 28th.

    The winner will be chosen at random and contacted by email, so be sure to enter an email address that gets checked regularly.

    Read on for the best dance-related sex stories from around the web.

    • It turns out a good sense of rhythm is important for more than just dancing - it's also essential for good sex. Sex physicist Buzz explains the effect of our movements on mattresses and how it effects sex. "Lovers on a bed form an oscillator with a fundamental resonance and a spectrum of harmonics. Just as a gifted musician can make sweet music by adroitly manipulating an instrument's resonances, lovers can add to their resonant bliss in the bedroom by understanding and controlling their bed's oscillations." Do you think your movements during sex effect your pleasure? [Sexual Rhythms - The Physics of Sex]
    • Whatever about sexy dancing in public, there's nothing like making it a bit more intimate by performing a sexy striptease for your lover at home. Bursleque star extraordinaire, Dita Von Teese, delights us with her guide to giving a seductive striptease. We love her tip to wear sexy knickers over the garter belt, instead of under - makes perfect sense when you think about it! What's your top tip for a sexy striptease? [How To Striptease: Dita Von Teese's Exclusive Guide - SoFeminine]
    1. Our favourite science vlog, ASAP Science, explains the correlation between dancing and sex in our Video of the Week. Do you ever use dancing to attract the opposite sex? What's your favourite dance move?

    The winner of the Tease Me Bondage Bundle from last week is Wiltscouple. Remember to comment below for your chance to win one of two The Thrill by We-Vibe Dual Action Vibrators (worth £94.99)! The winners will be contacted by email.

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    Comments (119)

    • HappilyExperimenting: June 23, 2013 08:18
      Our physicist Buzz (aptly named!) uses a lot of big words! I agree with him though, movement and rhythm in the bedroom is important to good lovemaking. I'm not one for going clubbing like most young people these days, but I do like a good boogie whilst I'm hoovering! :D

      The ultimate sexy bedroom song has got to be "Cry to Me" from the film Dirty Dancing - the hottest sex scene in a 15 movie, with no explicit nudity and few kisses. I remember being enthralled about the whole soundtrack throughout my teen years and am still taken back to those years when I listen to the songs nowadays.

      The ebst tip I can give to aspiring stripteasers is to be confident - fake it till you make it! And enjoy yourself! It looks awful if you feel forced or unnatural.

    • adriana: June 23, 2013 09:49
      I am an awkward dancer d= Maybe I'll just keep rhythm in the bedroom.
    • Imogen: June 23, 2013 10:03
      Love the Dita striptease guide!
    • truegrace: June 23, 2013 10:09
      Dancing is def not one of my strong points, unless a few fizzy tizers are on board, then I'm Tony Manero!
    • Melanie Brock: June 23, 2013 10:19
      There is nothing that turns me on more than getting hot and sweaty on the dancefloor!
      Excellent stuff as always LoveHoney!
    • Beast: June 23, 2013 10:26
      Rhythem defiantly makes a difference, but like all things in life, practice makes perfect :)
    • colin: June 23, 2013 11:17
      Thats me done for.. I can not dance to save my life....so I need that toy pleeaasse to save my love life lol thanks
    • Helen Blankley: June 23, 2013 11:18
      Nothing sexier than someone who can dance
    • Tracey McLoughlin: June 23, 2013 11:20
      Good job my man loves me for who I am then cause I have 2 left feet hehe
    • Dean: June 23, 2013 11:22
      Always wanted to try those vibrating panties with a girlfriend! Looks fun!!
    • Sinead Waugh: June 23, 2013 11:44
      my dancing skills definitely do NOT match my bedroom skills! But I'd prefer two left feet than questionable bed skills!
    • Celeste: June 23, 2013 11:52
      I want to learn how to poledance. There's just something so empowering about it. You need lots of confidence and its a great way to stay fit.
    • MrsMacX: June 23, 2013 12:00
      This looks so good! Would love to give it a try!
    • Mollie: June 23, 2013 12:26
      I never thought of it like that before but it does make sense ... Now I just have to convince my OH to dance with me more often!
    • Scorpius12: June 23, 2013 12:40
      I have always loved to dance. It makes you feel really sexy. My Husband loves it when I give him a 'private dance'. It just makes you feel really free and alive. Fantastic article and great tips from the Queen of Burselque Dita Von Teese. I shall definitely be including these next time.....
    • louise&james: June 23, 2013 13:14
      i prefer bedroom dancing to dancefloor dancing as both me and OH are useless dancers unless we've had a lot to drink then in our minds we're amazing ;) x
    • Lou22: June 23, 2013 13:18
      I do think rhythm is important in the bedroom, just feels awkward if your out of sync with your partner.
      I love dancing although i'm not really one for clubbing which is just as well because its not the kind of dancing anyone would want to see. Enthusiastic but rubbish :)
      Having said that a bit of a striptease is always fun.
    • mel: June 23, 2013 14:36
      yes pleasee
    • Gina: June 23, 2013 15:01
      I'm not a very good dancer but maybe one of this would help. :)
    • rach74: June 23, 2013 15:31
      ooooh nice
    • munchkin: June 23, 2013 15:35
      I was one of the fortunate guys blessed with some sens of rhythem and being able to dance to a beat, so being good at dancing was always a great way to meet girls and get them interested in you. I think there was always that feeling of "If he can move like that on the dancefloor then what is he like in bed?" Me and the OH and move well to music and we're very compatible sexually too so having good rhythm can have an influence on someone's sex life.
    • PS: June 23, 2013 16:53
      Once got told I danced like Pinochio on speed. Not sure what that says about my bedroom capabilities.
    • matt: June 23, 2013 17:04
      My girlfriend doesn't dance maybe one of these would persuade her to give me a lap dance
    • MsChopsy: June 23, 2013 17:19
      Dancing is basically simulated sex anyway. As far as I know, it's the only polite way to thrust your hips at someone you fancy without getting arrested! If you can work up a sweat and send them a odd sexy grin while you're doing it, all the better :)
    • xmorningxgloryx: June 23, 2013 18:36
      I have absolutely no rhythm whatsoever. I love watching my man dance though!
    • tre: June 23, 2013 19:18
      Another Well competition
    • Robin: June 23, 2013 19:24
      I am an awful dancer. My boyfriend and I plan to start dancing lessons because he loves dancing and I want to get better. We seem to have good rhythm in the bedroom though :)
    • N.T: June 23, 2013 19:25
      I am crap at dancing
    • Naughty-mark: June 23, 2013 19:25
      My names mark ........ And I'm a dad dancer (I hang my head in shame)
    • Alice: June 23, 2013 19:28
      I cannot dance at all but my partner used to be a champion tango dancer. He won't show me any moves though. Shame, really, I would definitely find it sexy!
    • Kellymichelle: June 23, 2013 19:32
      Looks like years of dance classes were worth it!
    • H: June 23, 2013 19:39
      Haha this makes me think of the peacock and his tail
    • Ciara: June 23, 2013 19:40
      so true! nothing sexier than a guy who ca n move his his hips! yum!
    • Atroquinine: June 23, 2013 20:16
      I was bullied all through elementary school and junior high, and my self-esteem has been less than stellar ever since, but dancing is one the few things that makes me feel sexy and comfortable in my skin.
    • Jo: June 23, 2013 21:04
      Nothing better than the sounds of lets get it on and my fella snake hipping better than Sir Tom Jones..
    • Sexynurse09: June 23, 2013 21:25
      The night me and my partner finally got together there had been some pretty intense dancing between us. Looking back maybe it was a bit too raunchy for a works night out!
    • Andrew: June 23, 2013 21:41
      It seems to me that some people are born to dance and some are born to watch others dance on the dance floor but we can all learn to dance between the sheets if we put in the effort.
    • KinkyFuckery: June 23, 2013 22:02
      Everyone loves a good old boogie whether its abit of dad dancing or having a good old boogie bop , shaking your ass like you just don't care. Christmas parties are the best seeing everyone busting there moves out that have been stored up all year .
    • Hooch: June 23, 2013 22:19
      Always been a terrible dancer. Always wanted to try one of these vibes!
    • WildThing: June 23, 2013 22:24
      Dancing, especially when it is very close together, is always good for getting jiggy to!
    • Toy Addict: June 23, 2013 22:39
      I haven't heard most of the songs on that playlist, I feel so musically uneducated.
    • Graham Simpson: June 23, 2013 23:54
      Dancing on the floor is not for me, 2 left feet. But have the moves in the bed with my partner. ;-)
    • Purring Tiger: June 24, 2013 01:45
      Seeing a man who can Twerk makes you wonder just how well controlled he is with those hips in the bedroom for sure! Burlesque is a stunning dance and I think any man would love his woman to learn those skills for a private showing too.
    • johnny: June 24, 2013 02:38
    • Adrian: June 24, 2013 06:29
      Dancing is great in that it brings you close as a couple whilst ensuring there is more than a frisson of anticipation and sexual chemistry - it's like a workout with foreplay all rolled into one. You don't have to be blessed with a great body or sense of rhythm - it's the closeness and the shared contact that enhances the senses and heightens the anticipation.
    • Noëlle Steegs: June 24, 2013 07:54
      Dita is my hero!
    • gem: June 24, 2013 09:32
      Can't dance but I don't think my boyfriend cares about that when we're in bed
    • SM: June 24, 2013 10:51
      Do find dancing to be a big turn on, but dont know if it can compete to the massive vibrations of that crazy toy
    • PPD: June 24, 2013 13:17
      I haven't really danced properly in years apart from in clubs but I definitely wouldn't call that dancing haha.

      That doesn't mean I don't dance - I 'dance' along to disney songs all the time but I'd never even attempt anything remotely sexy because I'd just look like a seal having a seizure.

    • Kasumi: June 24, 2013 16:43
      I would love to learn how to dance the Argentine Tango, it looks so sexy when danced by Vincent and Flavia on strictly.
    • FrozenAngel: June 24, 2013 16:55
      I think dancing in itself can be really sex, however can't say I've been attracted to someone based on their dancing.
      I think with dancing it's more about confidence if you've got the confidence you can be a terrible dancer, but people still think you look fab.

      Saying that, my confidence isn't bad at all. But my dancing is just shocking.

    • tamalyn roberts: June 24, 2013 17:05
      i have no rhythm at all but try my best lol my boyfriend wont dance with me unless hes had a few drinks he he but i always get up first. x
    • Charlotte Clavier: June 24, 2013 17:09
      Yes please dancing is a great way to work my man up. Salsa is good where your rubbing up against each other. It heats you up nicely for later on ;-) xx
    • Curiousgeorgie: June 24, 2013 17:13
      I love to dance, even if its whilst chopping vegetables in the kitchen. It's fun to sing and dance, even if you're rubbish, but the sense of fun and confidence can be fun, sensual or erotic. It depends on how it's done but it definite,y puts a smile oh OH's face.
    • Kristine R.: June 24, 2013 17:16
      Woo hoo dancing and entering the giveaway
    • Serena: June 24, 2013 17:17
      In public it seems the less capable I am of standing up without clinging on to something, the better I become at dancing!

      I do dance by myself though, in the safety of my own home haha, I'd like to be brave enough to dance ~for~ somebody one day too.

    • L: June 24, 2013 17:18
      ooo yes please
    • Kulvinder Bhogal: June 24, 2013 17:22
      I'd love one of those for my other half. MMMMMMMMMM.
    • kinky Geek: June 24, 2013 17:25
      Love it but need a little Dutch courage x
    • Ashley Brandt: June 24, 2013 17:25
      We have the Club Vibe 2.0H & love it. Since my husband and I are not big dancers and have two kids it's not something we use in the club. This is something we use to spice up our road trips. The panties don't fit me, since im on the smaller side, so i'm always having to figure out a way to make it work in the undies I wear on a daily basis. My husband will have the "remote" to have all the control, he will pick the music he wants to play or he will just use it as a remote and control the setting himself and loves seeing me react. Luckily he's good at controlling himself and we don't have to stop before reaching our destination to take care of him.
    • Gordon Elcock: June 24, 2013 17:32
      Having just danced on stage in public for the first time ever, I'd love to win something that'd make the other half move :)
    • Ash: June 24, 2013 18:31
      I think I need a pair of those vibrating knickers to get me on the dance floor! ;]
    • PIp: June 24, 2013 18:41
      I'm a rubbish dancer and we have a memory foam mattress so that sort of disproves the theories... would love to give the wi-vibe a go see if can make us any better in bed...
    • Luvved up Cupple: June 24, 2013 18:59
      Dancing is bad at the best of times and gets progressively worse as the level of alcohol intake increases, however bedroom moves are great sober, tipsey or totally steaming!
    • KebertXela: June 24, 2013 18:59
      I have no rhythm, I cant even clap in time.

      Never had any problems :)

    • Jen: June 24, 2013 18:59
      it's all in the hips :)
    • Stevie Nichol: June 24, 2013 19:32
      No they don't. I've had men that can dance and men that can't and the men that can't are much better in bed. Well my boyfriend is anyway! But having said that I'm a good dancer so whoops! Hahah. ;)
    • Kelly: June 24, 2013 19:41
      Dancing for me usually involves a few tipples but I am usually convinced that I am the best dancer ever
    • Eve: June 24, 2013 20:12
      Dancing is most defiantly sexy! Nothing like making sweaty love to the music on a dance floor... Them vibes <3
    • Khaleesi: June 24, 2013 20:16
      Hmmm. I can see why theoretically dancers would be better in bed; co-ordination, confidence, strength, stamina and flexibitly… But when it comes down to the dance with no pants, I think being able to fox trot has no real relevance Xx
    • ghostgirl: June 24, 2013 20:23
      Dance like there is no one watching -- court date is set for tomorrow!
      I cannot dance and have never pretended otherwise but doesn't stop the bedroom (or beyond) action
    • J: June 24, 2013 20:25
      Oh yesssssss!!!
    • shazza: June 24, 2013 20:29
      Can't dance floor dance but lol doesn't stop me bedroom dancing ;-) xx
    • Lindsay Moon: June 24, 2013 20:58
      Oh my, thank you for such great competitions! You're very generous. <3
    • Patrick H: June 24, 2013 21:04
      I'm gonna dance with my wife until her legs shudder and she collapses in my arms after multiple orgasms
    • Fr33B1rd: June 24, 2013 21:09
      I have great musical rhythm but I'm a hopeless dancer, I'm just too self-conscious
    • chris: June 24, 2013 21:22
      cant wait to give the mrs her own private full monty :)
    • Steve Clements: June 24, 2013 22:52
      It's got to be LMFAO with sexy and I know it in a leopard print thong. Hell yeah
    • Mystral: June 24, 2013 23:03
      Awareness of the position and movement of the parts of the body by means of sensory organs (proprioceptors) in the muscles and joints.

      I would say it's a case of good dancers and good lovers requiring a certain amount of the above.

      So, not so much a question of one causing the other, rather both being a result of hieghtened awareness of what the body is doing.

      It would follow then that improvement in one would encourage improvement in the other.

      Much like learning to chop carrots helps with chopping potatos.

      How's root vegtables for a sexy metaphor? =p

    • kay: June 24, 2013 23:50
    • Lillybeth: June 25, 2013 00:59
      Dancing inspires social anxiety in me. I do however love watching my partner dance.
    • horny tanya: June 25, 2013 01:42
      well having been a lap dancer in my passed my other i know how to get my other half randy. i take it nice and slowly and tease him x
    • Margaret: June 25, 2013 05:09
      Wow, this looks fun. Would love to add it to my toy box. My partner & I would get hours of teasing & pleasing from this if we were lucky enough to win it!
    • travelnurse: June 25, 2013 06:11
      Hey, I think that I am a pretty good dancer, don't make me enter any contests though. I have seen mixed reviews on this toy. Would like to try it.
    • Wiltscouple: June 25, 2013 10:10
      This looks fun, we'd love to try it x
    • Nick: June 25, 2013 12:41
      Winning this would ease the pain of going back to work after a two week holiday for my girlfriend!
    • nicola: June 25, 2013 14:47
      My other half is the sexiest dancer I have ever seen, the way he moves his hips always gets me excited as I know that is what his hips will be doing with me in between them when we get home. xx
    • Melissa: June 25, 2013 19:33
      i love a bloke who can dance nothing sexier, i but this prize would he me get my vibe on!
    • Han Solo: June 25, 2013 20:40
      Surely Daft Punks "Up All Night" would be the perfect backing track to this toy...
    • Nymeria: June 25, 2013 21:07
      Love the dancing. I would definitely try something like this with my partner. :)
    • Tommy Guns: June 26, 2013 00:47
      Dancing is my strong point!

      A tip for all, never try the worm on the floor with a boner. It really does hurt!

    • LibbyLibido: June 26, 2013 01:52
      There really is nothing sexier than dancing. Shaking my hips and jiggling my boobs never fails to entertain my OH, and giving him a lap dance with my jiggle balls in is a saucy way to get things going in the bedroom! Not forgetting of course that dancing can increase flexibility, which makes those more exotic sex positions so much easier to achieve. Everyone should dance their way to a better sex life!
    • saucey21: June 26, 2013 11:33
      well i can't dance, neither can my husband, but we groove in bed. so that all that counts. especially as our clubbing days are over now we have a toddler
    • Hazy: June 26, 2013 12:03
      I hope my bad dancing isn't holding me back :/
    • Lou: June 26, 2013 13:12
      Love listening to music during sex, my partner and I love brooding bassy alt-metal (Deftones, Karnivool, DSHS), not so much strict 'dancing' as 'moving with the music' - definitely enhances the experience!
    • Rob: June 26, 2013 13:38
      Just commenting.
    • Gina Atkins: June 26, 2013 13:53
      I love music but I'm not a very good dancer.
    • derek: June 26, 2013 14:38
      i love it when my wife does a sexy dance for me then getting some sex toys out for the to of us while the sexy music is on.
    • Tasha: June 26, 2013 16:23
      Neither me or my OH can dance particularly well but we could make a perfect rhythm with this prize ;-)
    • sarah: June 26, 2013 23:23
      i would love to win one of these!!!Me and my boyfriend have wanted one for ages but just cant afford it.heard some great reviews about it here on the site so would love to win
    • Shannon: June 26, 2013 23:54
      I still don't think it matters. People have different styles of dancing and sex. I do think there are some very good points that have been brought up tho.
    • Helen Dickinson: June 27, 2013 09:01
      Love the Dita striptease guide!
    • Jonathan Day: June 27, 2013 17:06
      I prefer horizontal dancing to be honest!!
    • Blacksilk: June 27, 2013 17:06
      Dancing certainly IS sexy! That's why I used tango for my story Take Your Partner in the Lovehoney anthology of the same name, heh.

      Of course, now I've taken up swing dancing, I almost wish I'd used that instead. New story idea? :P

    • kelly-ann murray: June 27, 2013 17:11
      I love dancing ;) Great prize xxx
    • Cheeky Chica: June 27, 2013 17:11
      I do like a good boogie!
    • Angel: June 27, 2013 17:19
      I love dancing, both vertically and horizontally ;)
    • KrissyNovacaine: June 27, 2013 17:32
      i wanna be a sex physicist! I guess I would have to be good at math though.
    • Lisa: June 27, 2013 17:56
      love dancing between the sheets
    • pandl: June 27, 2013 17:58
      we love dancing together
    • Rosie Glow: June 27, 2013 18:01
      I'm terrible at dancing, but I have a lot of fun doing it!
    • HappyBunny: June 27, 2013 18:05
      I only dance after a few tipples, so I'm sure I think I'm better than I really am!
    • neil: June 27, 2013 19:22
      I am only good at Dad dancing after a few drinks lol
    • thepurpletempest: June 27, 2013 20:03
      Wah! I love dancing by my partner is a bit adverce to the whole thing... I'll have to send him this artical :)
    • nick: June 28, 2013 11:36
      some items mentioned above are added to wishlist :)
    • rose hip: June 28, 2013 12:18
      It's not just rhythms, it's co-ordination, being able to do different things with different parts of the body at the same time, and most of all responsiveness to what's coming from another person.

      Probably does help to dance to something more dynamic than some of that da-da-da-da we hear though. :P

    • Philip: June 28, 2013 14:37
      I can't dance but I definitely have good rhythm!
    • tiffany turner: June 28, 2013 17:00
      oh man the we vibe is at the top of my insanely long wishlist !!!
    • Christina: July 02, 2013 18:25
      My partner says I have no rhythm and dance like a crazy person. But he still finds me attractive thank god .
      I thinks dance moves probably caused him to laugh his way into my bed rather than sexually seduce him
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