• What's Your Fantasy? Plus, Win 1 Of 5 Signed Copies Of Tracey Cox's New Book!

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    by Nicole on 14 April 2013 38 comments  |  Add a comment

    Dare: What Happens When Fantasies Come True by Tracey Cox

    Everyone has a sexual fantasy.

    Whether it's sleeping with a celebrity, having sex outdoors or exploring your kinky side, we all find ourselves thinking "What if?" at times.

    The great thing about fantasies is that you're in charge - you decide the setting, the characters and the choregraphy.

    But are fantasies ever as good in the flesh?

    The new book by sexpert Tracey Cox explores common sexual fantasies, and what happens when they're made a reality.

    We're giving away 5 signed copies of Dare: What Happens When Fantasies Come True by Tracey Cox (worth £7.99). Simply comment below before April 19th to be in with a chance to win.

    Read on below for the best fantasy-related articles from around the web.



    • Should you have a threesome? Can you tell if your partner's cheating? Find out more about Tracey's new book and hear her give an expert opinion on everything from orgasms to Fifty Shades of Grey in her chatty interview with Pixiwoo. [Pixiwoo's Body Talk With Tracey Cox - Body Talk Daily]
    • Do men and women fantasise differently? It would appear so. According to Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller, "the fantasy worlds that occupy men’s and women’s minds are quite distinct and, while there is always a vast amount of individual variability, there appears to be at least a hint of truth to many of the gender stereotypes that exist regarding fantasy content.' [How Do Men's And Women's Sexual Fantasies Differ? - The Pyschology of Human Sexuality]

      AskMen took to the streets to discover the most common female fantasies. Do you have a particular sexual fantasy? Tell us about it in the comments!

    The winner of the Sqweel 2 Oral Sex Simulator (£39.99) from last week is Charl. Winners are notified by email. Remember to comment below for your chance to win one of 5 signed copies of Dare: What Happens When Fantasies Come True by Tracey Cox (worth £7.99)!

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    Comments (38)

    • MissSurly: April 14, 2013 12:02
      I've always felt slightly smug because I can have sexual fantasies whenever I want without having to worry about a boner. I feel bad for guys sometimes.
    • rach74: April 14, 2013 12:26
      would love this to read on my hols in 4 weeks time
    • AliMc: April 14, 2013 14:59
      My current fantasy is MFM. Not sure I'll ever be able to make it a reality tho, I think I would feel too insecure and jealous to share my partner and would worry about the strain it might put on our relationship.
    • rag doll: April 14, 2013 15:16
      i wouldn't personally agree with Tracy Cox on threesomes but id definitely agree with the physiology behind fantasies and "in a car under a waterfall"...Brilliant!

      long term fantasy of mine is to be kissed and fondled roughly whilst pinned up against a wall by my neck in public.

    • Lou22: April 14, 2013 18:36
      Would love to give this a read. Be interesting to read what happens when these fantasies are acted out, also always looking for new ideas ;)
    • James-Dean Summerfield: April 14, 2013 19:06
      Would love to win, saw Tracy at the Vitality Show recently :)
    • Tracey: April 14, 2013 19:07
      I must admit i have numerous fantasies - most of which are being tested over time with my reg guy - be interesting to read about any others i hadn't considered!
      I've never personally read a Tracey Cox book but have always heard good things about them
    • Angeldelight: April 14, 2013 20:08
      I would love to read this ,I loved the bits I have read x
    • tre: April 14, 2013 22:05
      Fanstacy nice swingers club
    • Adrian: April 14, 2013 23:24
      Fantasy - taking my wife over the bonnet of the car in mid summer on a warm afternoon.
    • Ash: April 15, 2013 00:21
      Ooh I dare you to send me a copy! ;D
    • Sara: April 15, 2013 02:56
      I would love to win this, sounds like an amazing read.
    • Cheeky Chica: April 15, 2013 08:26
      Definitely would make an interesting read.
    • Angela Farrey: April 15, 2013 08:28
      Would love to read it thanks for the chance x
    • saucey21: April 15, 2013 08:47
      my fantasy is for my hubby to very dominant with me, tie me up and have his wicked way with me.
    • Tracey Cox: April 15, 2013 11:28
      Hi everyone!
      Just wanted to say good luck with the competition and thanks for all the nice comments! So pleased everyone likes the sound of the book!
      Tracey xxxxx
    • Celia Grey: April 15, 2013 12:42
      My sexual fantasies are more of a to-do list :P *giggles cheekily* I will get them done!! However, I would UTTERLY love to win your book O.o I finish uni in a few days and need a book that isn't "Education studies 1950-now". please let me win? *BRIBES WITH COOKIES* XXXXX
    • melanie stirling: April 15, 2013 12:43
      This sounds fab,I would enjoy reading this! :)
    • Donna Sadler: April 15, 2013 12:51
      Mine are a bit taboo to put here, but I do have many ;) lol x
    • Mollie: April 15, 2013 14:04
      Sounds like just the thing to keep me company in the tub!
    • Michelle: April 15, 2013 15:50
      See if I was to start commenting on my fantasies I'd be here for the next week as they seem very wide ranging but I would love a FMF with my bf and a cute redhead, thankfully I don't mind sharing and nor does he!
    • Hazy: April 15, 2013 19:32
      Looking at other peoples fantasies will surely get my imagination ticking :)
    • Noelle Steegs: April 16, 2013 07:55
      I'd love to read this book, because fantasies interest me, they are intricate, beautiful, and slightly dangerous in some way, I guess.
    • Frond: April 16, 2013 08:08
      would love to have a read through this book and find out if my fantasies are as strange as I think they are. Who knows, I just might find more than strike me as... erm... fascinating :)
    • Martyn: April 16, 2013 08:16
      I'd love to see Tracey's take on fantasy fulfillment. I love her work and fancy her something wicked ;-)

      That's one of my fantasies right there....

    • Claire Hall: April 17, 2013 13:06
      Ooooo sounds fab! Need this for my beach read next month! Xx
    • laura: April 17, 2013 13:33
      Love Tracey Cox !!!
    • claire turner: April 17, 2013 15:56
      would love to read this - would love to see what tracey thinks because this subject really interests me ;)
    • Sugar + Spice: April 17, 2013 22:39
      I would love to share this book with my OH, he's very shy in the fantasy department, I would love to see if we could discover what makes him tick!
    • browneyedgirl: April 17, 2013 23:45
      Be a treat to win this Tracy Cox products are good.My fantasy is to be stranded with my fella on a lovely warm deserted island and just have really passionate sex on the beach while the waves lap on the shore.Then stay awhile just live on fish that we catch and fruits Wed pick then there'd be a bar on the island like on the film cocktail and that bit where they get sexy in the water looks like Sud be solo good.Tom cruise makes it look good with Elizabeth Shuster but there's a few hunks I'd like to imagine myself with.my imagination cud really run wild.getting carried away now. Sex on the beach is sounding better and better the more I think of it
    • Andy Turfitt: April 18, 2013 06:33
      I have often fantasized about my wife being with another women with them dictating to me to what degree I can be involved without actually joining them. They male me wait outside the bedroom door making me listen as the giggle to start with then I am allowed in but have to be blindfolded and seated as they start to get naughty. My ears pick up every rustle of the sheets, every kiss and every moan leaving me rigid. They eventually allow me to watch but only after tying me to the seat without any chance of entertaining myself. Quick glances from the pair of them ensures that I am watching and suffering as they work themselves into a sexual frenzy. Finishing off with orgasm after orgasm they eventually set me free before ordering me to lay on the bed and make myself cum as they lay either side of me and watch.
    • EstherHarshom: April 18, 2013 10:32
      I write smut for a living, so it'd be nice to see just how much it lives up to the reality -- you know, without actually having to go out and do the research myself.
    • Ash: April 18, 2013 19:34
      I think since 50 shades, it has become more acceptable to read erotica. I have built up a collection of books over the last year, and intend to keep on going! It has truly enhanced my sex life and my partner has noticed a change in the seduction methods I choose!
    • tina: April 18, 2013 20:38
      I regularly read books like 50 shades this would be a great read.
    • SophieM: April 19, 2013 11:59
      I have way too many fantasies going on in my mind...can't keep up with them all!

      Absolutely love Tracey Cox, this would be great to read on my hols in a few weeks.

    • derek rennie: April 19, 2013 12:49
      would love to read this.... see how many of my fantasies appear in it and also how many more i could learn :-)
    • Laura: May 03, 2013 20:30
      Gimme! Gimme! Gimme! A signed Tracey Cox "Dare" book, after midnight
      I've ran out of anything witty to say!


      (to be sang like you're in abba)

    • Felicity: May 18, 2013 02:09
      I have to say, having read the extract in another post, I have totally gone off the idea of joining the mile high club! It sounds like a brilliant read, though.
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