• I can't feel anything from my silver balls. Am I doing something wrong?

    Orgasm Gold Multispeed Vibrating Love BallsI bought the silver balls after reading Fifty Shades of Grey, but I can’t feel anything.

    Am I doing something wrong?

    If you want the same orgasmic sensation that Ana experienced, you need to check that you’ve bought a set which contain the free-roaming weights (like the Oriental Ben Wa Balls). Some kegel exercisers are solid, meaning they don’t provide much in the way of sensation unless you’re really moving around. We always state in product descriptions if the balls are solid or weighted, so double check in our Ben Wa balls category.

    You could always try a pair of vibrating ben wa balls like the Orgasm Gold Multispeed Vibrating Love Balls (£16.99, pictured left) to really kick up the stimulation a notch.


    You also need to make sure you’re not just sitting around wearing your balls. Jiggle balls give you the best stimulation while you’re active, so go for a jog or do a little exercise to see if this improves your sensory response.

    Just like with any other sexual stimulation, some women’s G-spots and vaginas are more sensitive than others. If you’re certain that your balls contain rolling, jiggling weights but you can’t feel them move once in place, it may be that your body just doesn’t respond to this type of stimulation. This doesn’t mean that they’re not helping you in other ways. Whether you feel the movements or not, your muscles will respond the weight and movement and progressively tone you. You may find that with time you’ll experience more sensation as your muscles strengthen and your vagina tightens.

    We have a couple of buyer's guides that may help you as well. What are Jiggle Balls / Kegel Balls? explains in depth about all the different types of kegel balls, while the How to Use Kegel & Jiggle Balls guide will give you some more ideas about how to exercise with your love balls.

    Comments (2)

    • Julie: September 05, 2012 16:07
      you misspelled 'sensation'!
    • Lovehoney - Plum: September 06, 2012 10:09
      Thanks Julie, it's all fixed now!
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