• My husband fondles my breasts, but I'm wondering how rough is too rough?

    My husband fondles my breasts, but I'm wondering how rough is too rough?

    How do you feel about this? Is your husband hurting you or are you happy with how he fondles your breasts?


    julie-peasgood

    My husband is worried that he might be doing me harm when he fondles my breasts roughly. Shall I tell him it is OK or tell him not to be so rough?



    Julie Answers...

    How do you feel about this? Is your husband hurting you or are you happy with how he fondles your breasts?

    Every woman is different. Some enjoy a little rough handling, others need something much more tender. If you enjoy what your husband does then reassure him. If you don’t, and he’s hurting you, then you must tell him and suggest other things for him to try that you do enjoy - such as a soothing breast massage.

    Sit in front of your husband and ask him to gently massage baby oil or body lotion into your breasts in a gentle, circular motion. He can also give you a thrill by running his fingers around your nipples without actually touching them. If you then move on to massaging other areas, though, remember that oil doesn’t suit a woman’s vagina - always use a proper lube.

    I hope this helps - just listen to your body and don’t be afraid to be honest.


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