• How can I improve my sexual confidence? I feel like I'm letting my relationship down

    How can I improve my sexual confidence? I feel like I'm letting my relationship down

    Sexual confidence is something which needs to be created together.


    Question for JulieQuestion:

    Im not the most confident in the bedroom and feel like im letting myself and my girlfriend down. Have you got any tips and advice on what to do to improve my confidence?

    Julie Answers...Julie Says:

    Sexual confidence is something that all couples have to create together. Every single one of us is unique, so no matter how many partners you’ve had, or how many sex manuals or porn films you’ve seen, you still need to learn about your partner as an individual and find out what turns them on.

    My top tip for anybody who wants to become a more confident lover is to ask their partner what they enjoy. Start by asking your girlfriend what kind of kissing turns her on while you’re snuggling up on the sofa. Then if you get into the bedroom, begin stroking her all over and ask her what areas of her body are her most erogenous.

    When you make contact with her hot spots, get her to show you the kind of touch she prefers. In just one evening you’ll learn more about her than any guide could tell you - and your confidence will start to soar.

    The Greatest Sex Tips in the WorldRefreshingly frank and funny, actress and presenter Julie Peasgood delivers practical information to transform your sex life. The Greatest Sex Tips in the World explores the world of eroticism, revealing secrets and techniques that will energise and enhance your enjoyment.

    Comments (1)

    • SIAN: February 02, 2011 02:19
      HI IF YOUR WORRIED ABOUT CONFIDEC JUST TRY SUBTLY ASKNIG YOUR GIRLFRIEND IF SHE LIKES THINGS THAT YOU ARE DOING OR IF IT FEELS GOOD OR HARDER OR FASTER ETC MY PARTNER STARTED TO DO THIS AND I JUST FELT ;LIKE HE WAS SO MUCH MORE AWARE OF WHAT HE WAS DOING AND HOW TO PLEASE ME HE MAY NOT HAVE FELT THAT WAY BUT IT CAME ACROSS THAT WAY AND HE HAS SO MUCH MORE CONFIDENCE DURING SEX HE ISNT AFRIAG TO TRY NEW THINGS TRY TO CARESS YOUR GIRLFREIND AND FOCUS ON AROUSING HER FROM HER NECK AREA OR OTHER AREAS OTHER THAN THE GENITALS ITS REALLY AROUSING FOR A WOMAN TO BE PLEASED FROM SOMEONE PLAYING EITH HER NECK OR A NON TYPICAL PART OF THE BODY FOR ME THAT IS A TURN ON AS ITS MORE EXCITING THAT I CAN GET AROUSED FROM BEING TEASED IN UNLIKELY PLACES
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