• How to Squirt: The Best Sex Toys for Female Ejaculation

    Female ejaculation - or squirting - has been around for centuries, but only recently has it become a desirable addition to a lady’s sexual repertoire. Previously, the fluids resulting from female ejaculation were often dismissed as peeing during sex, leaving naturally talented squirters stressed and embarrassed.

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    We now know the liquid is closer to what’s secreted by the male prostate when stimulated, leading many to refer to the Skene’s glands (the glands around the G-spot responsible for the secretions) as ‘the female prostate’.

    And, most importantly, squirting is now celebrated! Most lovers now see the gushing liquid as an amazing physical expression of arousal, and women are clamouring to experience the exotic sensations a squirting orgasm brings.

    Want to join Club Squirt? This guide will help, but like everything in the world of sex, you’ll need to spend some time figuring out what works best for you and your body.


    Before you begin

    Girl with waterpistolIf you are in a relationship, it’s advisable to bring it up with your partner before surprising them with your new skillset. Although obviously your bodily secretions are your own business, it’s worth giving their preference some consideration.

    Also bear in mind that for many women it’s a skill that, once mastered, may start happening involuntarily.

    The good news is that thanks to a litany of recent porn videos starring female ejaculation, many people are already fully signed up to the idea and eager to reenact the film fantasy in their own home.

    Relaxation is a key aspect of squirting orgasms, so ensure you stay chilled as you prepare.

    You can learn solo or with a partner, so pick whichever you prefer.

    Make sure you clear your calendar - potentially over multiple sessions - and don’t put yourself under pressure. Use the bathroom beforehand, and put some towels down.



    To arousal, and beyond

    G-spot stimulation might be what unlocks the fluid, but full external arousal is an essential component of squirting. So fixate on your partner or favourite fantasy, grab a clitoral vibrator and go to town on your ladybits, ideally enjoying a clitoral climax as a sort of orgasmic apéritif.

    Once you’re suitably aroused you can get to work on your G-spot. Find it with your fingers or ideally a toy coated with water-based lubricant, 2-3 inches inside the vagina on the front wall.

    G-spot dildos and vibrators are generally best for this because they are curved, and of this category it’s the less flexible toys that work best due to the Skene’s glands’ love of a firm caress. Thrusting vibrators are also a top choice as they mimic the stroking motion needed, leaving you free to concentrate on perfecting the depth and angle of stimulation.

    Alternatively, if your partner wants to lend a hand (or another appendage), get into positions where thrusts will target the front of the vagina, such as doggy-style and reverse cowgirl.

    Feeling the need to pee? You’re almost there! Push on through and this uncomfortable feeling should be replaced with a sensation from deep within that builds beautifully to orgasm.

    As you feel yourself climax, push out your PC muscles, which will in turn relax the Skene’s glands, and get you gushing!


    The toys to take you there

    Want a helping hand? These tried and tested toys concentrate sensation on your G-spot to help trigger your inner geyser:


    Need more help?

    You can Contact Customer Care, who will be able to help you find the perfect toy. You can email, telephone or live chat to an experienced advisor 24/7.

    The other great place to look for people's advice on squirting is on the Lovehoney Forum, where our community is on hand to give their opinions and tips.

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    Comments (7)

    • lesley: March 20, 2010 11:34
      Can you make that 6 toys please?? The thriller rabbit, with hornified gentle "spikes", energetic rotation and vibe in shaft and ears, oh golly great if you can take it.. Why dont lovehoney make more like it, a similar one without the "spikes" would become a best seller.
    • Terri Hayes: April 01, 2010 21:55
      Some women are just lucky and can easily squirt.
      Women just like me, I seem to squirt more than ten times during sexual intercourse! It's a much better sensation than JUST coming!
      For those women that dont have the advantage of squirtin regularly I would definately recommend one of these sex toys, I have used all of them and they definately help the orgasm become more intense and will have you squirting in no time!

      Good Luck!

    • rrk: May 20, 2013 16:32
      hot
    • Holly: October 03, 2013 02:22
      Hi, I am able to squirt but it is not from stimulating my G-Spot, but rather by using my vibrator on my clitoris. Any toys that are ideal for this? The main reason I ask is because my husband loves it when I squirt but using my rabbit while squirting is cumbersome and it gets in the way.
      Thanks,
      Holly
    • Young and confused: December 16, 2014 00:52
      So I'm sure iv squirted before and more than once, actually quite a few times in one session.

      Since then I have changed partners and unfortunately am not getting to that point. I don't know what Is going on that is different but I'm definitely missing the sensation.

      What can I/we do to get me there? Someone help

    • Kate: January 09, 2015 17:09
      Can any girl squirt? I think I may have when I've pushed down during an orgasm rather than squeeze in...I really want to! I'm guessing I'll have to train myself so I'm looking for the best toy to achieve this. Any recommendations or tips would be greatly appreciated! Tia xxx
    • cw: February 26, 2015 15:03
      Being 9inches helps but I find the best way to make my woman squirt is by foreplay. I haven't used toys yet. Start off slowly inside and get deep with her legs in the air. I last ages during sex so that helps. Its easy when you know how
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