• I'm 18 and quite experienced but I want to do something different for my boyfriend. Any ideas?

    I'm 18 and quite experienced but I want to do something different for my boyfriend. Any ideas?

    You definitely tick all the boxes for creativity and variety - good on you! How about giving him an exciting visual treat with a striptease?


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    Me and my partner are quite creative in the bedroom - well I see it as creative, probably because I'm only 18 - but we have used massage oils, lubes, candles, rose petals, blindfolds, gags, cock rings, dare cards, sex cheques and dressing up.

    We haven't done anal, but I don't think he wants to and I'm pretty sure I'm not ready for that, because I don't much like the idea of it.

    But I want to do something exciting for him and I'm not sure what else to do. Any ideas?

    Julie Answers...Julie Says:

    You definitely tick all the boxes for creativity and variety - good on you! How about giving him an exciting visual treat with a striptease? Get hold of the old Joe Cocker number ‘You Can Leave Your Hat On’ and the DVD of ‘9 ½ weeks’ if you can (Kim Basinger performs a very sexy striptease in that).

    And study burlesque queen Dita Von Teese so you learn to remove stockings and suspenders like a pro. Practise so you perform it as well as you can, then dim the lights, and remember to take your time…

    You could also liven up a blow job with some temperature play. Try holding some small ice cubes/frozen grapes in your mouth and then alternate with bursts of stimulation from a hot (but not boiling) drink to electrify his nerve endings.

    Sucking a mint before you head south works well too - it’ll give him a fascinating hot/cold sensation. Keep the blindfold standing by for him while you raid the kitchen cupboards and fridge for a taste test - with you as the plate.

    Then clean up and have more fun in the shower with the special gadgets in Lovehoney’s Sex in the Shower range. Don’t worry about anal if neither of you really fancy it, but you could try reaching round and inserting a well-lubricated finger into him as he thrusts.

    Lots of men go wild if you stimulate their P-spot, or prostate gland (the male equivalent to our G-spot). The gland itself is a few inches inside his anus, but you can also massage it externally if some backdoor action is too scary for him!

    Find the spongy area between the back of his scrotum and the anus, called the perineum. Then apply a firm upward pressure, or massage quite firmly (using two fingers is easiest) whilst pleasuring him with your other hand or orally.

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