My boyfriend is well endowed and I'm petite, which makes intercourse painful. Any advice?
Always make sure you get enough foreplay so you’re fully primed and ready - and top up your natural moisture with masses of lube too.
My boyfriend is very well endowed - about 8.5 inches in length and 6 inches around. I'm small and very athletic and hence, tight. We are finding it difficult to have the varied sex life we would like without painful consequences for me (often during and always) after intercourse.
It often means I have to take 1-3 days rest before we can try again. Can you advise as to how to handle this situation and how to minimise the after effects?
Always make sure you get enough foreplay so you’re fully primed and ready - and top up your natural moisture with masses of lube too – that will really help lessen the pain factor for you.
Steer clear of hard and fast thrusting and choose positions that won’t enable him to penetrate too deeply, so go for missionary, standing face to face, spoons, or with you on top so you can control the depth. Keep your legs straight when you can too, as the closer your knees are to your chest the deeper he’ll drill.
Try stretching out your legs in the missionary position, and experiment with lying flat on your tummy as an alternative to being up on all fours for doggie-style.
You may also find a ComeClose protector ring helps (£24.99 plus £5 post and packing from www.comeclose.co.uk) It slips over his erection and fits snugly against the base of his shaft where it then acts as a cushioned ‘spacer’ between you.
The ring grips his shaft so there’s extra pleasure for him, but most importantly it prevents the tip of his penis hitting your cervix, as I suspect that may also be an issue for you.
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