I like face-to-face sexual positions but am sick of me or him on top. Any suggestions?

Give a ‘criss-cross’ position a whirl! You lie on your back with your knees bent. He lies on his side beside you.

Question:

I like face-to-face sexual positions but am sick of me or him on top. What else can we try that doesn’t require athletic ability. Neither of us are very flexible or fit!

And he’ll need to be able to get to my clitoris as well because I can’t orgasm unless he uses his finger on me at the same time. 

Tracey Says:

Give a ‘criss-cross’ position a whirl! You lie on your back with your knees bent. He lies on his side beside you. You then move so both your legs are resting over the side of his thigh, the back of them resting on his bottom cheeks, and get him to penetrate from that angle.

You can move your heads closer together or swivel so you’re at an angle. From above, your bodies look like the letter ‘T’. You or he can easily reach your clitoris from there.

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