Prostate Massagers - Stimulate Your P-Spot

If you’ve never enjoyed the thrill of prostate play, then you’re missing out!

This internal erogenous zone is dubbed the male version of the G-spot and massaging it can lead to explosive full-body orgasms and even multiple climaxes!

Discovering your prostate gland isn’t that difficult but pleasuring it in a comfortable and erotic way takes a bit of time and skill. Luckily for you, there are plenty of tricks and toys available to help you discover this secret hot zone...

What is the prostate gland?

The prostate gland is the male equivalent of the G-spot and can easily be found by yourself or with a partner.

In between the anus and the scrotum is the perineum. This sensitive external area translates to roughly where the prostate gland is inside the body.

The prostate gland is a soft nub located inside the anus, that helps to control erections, orgasms and ejaculation, so you can see why it’s so important!

Massaging the prostate gland will result in more powerful orgasms, longer-lasting orgasms and orgasms that repeat themselves again and again! But let’s not get ahead of ourselves just yet...
 

Where do I find it?

Finding your prostate gland can sometimes be tricky. Many men prefer to explore the area alone whilst others like to get their partner involved and have them locate it. Go with whatever feels right to you!

As we mentioned above, the prostate gland is located approximately between the scrotum and anus, on the inside of the body.

Position yourself comfortably, either on your back with your legs raised or bent over with your upper body leaning on a couch or bed.

Once you are ready, lubricate your index finger and slide it slowly inside the anus. Gently feel around for a small nub about the size of a 50 pence piece, located on the front wall of the anus, towards the stomach. This is the P-spot!
 

How do I stimulate it?

If this is your first time indulging in anal play then make sure to go slow and steady. It can be fabulous or incredibly painful, depending on the type of stimulation you choose to employ.

Firstly, make sure to apply lubricant to both your anus and fingers as this will make stimulation easy and pain free.

Once you have located your P-spot, start with a rubbing motion, moving your finger around the prostate gland, making a mental note of which areas feel especially nice.

You can then try applying more pressure to the area and seeing what effect it has on your body. Many men will find that with the more pressure they apply to the prostate gland, the closer they feel to orgasm but remember that you can reduce the force at any time to slow things down!

You might also like to try an up-and-down motion, where your finger strokes over the prostate gland rapidly, for more intense stimulation.

If your partner is doing the stimulating for you, it’s sometimes fun to do this during oral sex. Not only will it add an exciting new sensation but it will take your mind off the actual anal penetration and make you much more relaxed.
 

Can I use a prostate massager?

It’s best to move on to prostate sex toys once you have discovered the area with your fingers first. This will make it much easier to locate the prostate gland with a massager and ensure a more orgasmic experience overall!

When choosing a prostate massager think about your anatomy and the kind of stimulation you enjoy. If you find yourself curving your finger insider of you, go for a massager with a significant bend in it like the Aneros Progasm Prostate Massager. Alternatively, if you keep your finger straight and rigid, the Dr Joel Kaplan Vibrating Prostate Massager will be right up your street!

Although many people see larger prostate massagers as more advanced, the bigger ones, like the Rude Boy Prostate Vibrator, are actually ideal for beginners as they find your P-spot much more quickly. The smaller the surface area of the massager, like the Aneros MGX Prostate Massager, the harder it will be to find the prostate gland but the more intense the experience!

The Aneros range of prostate massagers are renowned for their ability to give men long, powerful, hands-free orgasms and come in a range of sizes and shapes. By reading the product descriptions and reviews, you’ll soon see which one is right for you - but make sure to check out the Aneros forums for some handy hints too!

Deciding on whether you want a prostate massager with vibrations or not is a personal choice. Just remember - you can turn vibrations off if you don’t like them but you can’t add them to a non-vibrating prostate massager!