• How to Use a Large Dildo

    When you first look at Belladonna's Bitch Fist Dildo, one of two things will come to mind:

    Reaction A - Ouch!
    Reaction B - Wow that looks fun!

    The large length and girth can be very intimidating to those who are new to sex toys, but it can also be very pleasurable, satisfying you in a way no other dildo can.


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    How to Use a Large Dildo

    In four simple steps, you can be enjoying the full length and girth of a large dildo:

    Lovehoney Fresh Sex Toy Cleaner Spray 1. Clean your dildo

    Even if you cleaned your large dildo the last time you used it or it's brand new, you should still give it a thorough wash in hot water or use a sex toy cleaner. This large sex toy is going to be delving in to your deepest internal regions and a good clean will ensure that you stay safe, hygienic and healthy for the best experience possible.

    2. Lubricate, lubricate, lubricate!

    The size and shape of this behemoth sex toy will dictate the kind of lubricant you should use. It is best to choose a lube that is thick and smooth, making it easy to use and comfortable too. A good quality lube like Lovehoney Enjoy Water-Based Lubricant is a good option. If you're planning on using a fist dildo, we advise taking a look at Lubrifist which is a silicone/water-based lubricant mixture. Thick and creamy, it takes the pain and hassle out of fisting in an instant.

    3. Gentle, now!

    LubrifistWith the extra length and girth, large dildos can be difficult to insert at first. Take it slowly and use positions that allow you to spread your body out. Try lying on your back with a pillow under your bottom, with your legs raised and spread. Alternatively, you may prefer to squat down over the dildo to have more control of the depth. Starting with a smaller dildo and working your way up to the larger size is a good idea.

    4. Go forth, intrepid explorer!

    Once you've gotten past the widest part of the dildo, your body should be more relaxed with allows you to explore the sensations in your own time. Some people like to twist the dildo inside to catch all the internal erogenous zones; others prefer to thrust in and out. Experiment to find out what you prefer - just remember to go slow and steady to prevent any injuries!

    What is a fist dildo?

    Doc Johnson The Fist of Adonis Dildo 12 InchJust as the name suggests, fist dildos are sex toys based on the form of a hand.

    Many of these dildos are in the usual clenched, fist position such as the Doc Johnson The Fist of Adonis, whilst many others are angled into a pointed shape, fingers first, for easier penetration, such as the Doc Johnson Belladonna’s Magic Hand Dildo.

    Enjoyed by women and men, fist dildos provide a ‘full-up’ sensation that stimulates your internal walls. They also provide a feeling of being stretched, which is a strong fantasy for many.

    Are there any dangers of using something so big?

    Yes and no. If you’re using your large dildo sensibly you shouldn’t run into any problems but rush into using your Doc Johnson Great American Challenge Huge Dildo (the clue is in the name!) with no foreplay or warm-up, then you may experience tearing of the internal tissue, soreness and in some cases, bleeding.

    Doc Johnson Jeff Stryker Cock and Balls Realistic DildoIf you go slowly, warm up with a smaller dildo first, use lots of lubricant (on yourself and the dildo) and listen to what your body is telling you, you should be able to enjoy every inch of this massive sex toy with ease.

    If you start to feel any pain or discomfort, stop. Your body is not ready for something so large and you should take your time, re-apply the lubricant and be much gentler.

    Many people worry that using large dildos will stretch them permanently, leaving them feeling ‘loose’ to their partner during sex. However, your body’s natural elasticity will prevent this from happening and you will regain the tightness in your pelvic muscles just a day or two after having fun with your Bitch Fist Dildo. If you are particularly worried, try some kegel exercises to achieve optimum firmness very quickly.

    All of this advice also applies to using a real human fist, however remember to remove any jewellery before adventuring into this exciting new territory!

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