• Sexual Therapy - Why It Isn't As Scary As It Sounds!

    Sexual Therapy - Why It Isn't As Scary As It Sounds!

    Orgasms can be tricky things to master and sometimes it would be nice to have a little help and guidance to experience the kind of climax we really want.

    Throughout the entire month of June, Orgasm Coach Lisa Turner has been lending her expertise to Lovehoney and helping to uncover the secrets and myths behind full body orgasms.

    So far Lisa has given Lovehoney her top choices in orgasm-inducing sex toys, some amazing tips for living orgasmically and a revealing interview but now we delve even deeper to find out from the woman herself about exactly what an orgasmic therapy session entails.

    Lisa Turner, Orgasm Coach explains:

    Orgasm coaching is about enabling people to experience more bliss in their lives and in their bodies.


    Orgasm coaching enables people to start living orgasmically. And yes this means they can learn to experience orgasms (if they currently can't) and to have more orgasms, longer and more intense orgasms, but it also means they begin to live from this place of bliss and joy in an ongoing way, so you can begin to Live Orgasmically rather than settling for a few seconds of orgasm every now and again.

    Most people, even without realising it, live from a place of pain. They make emotional decisions based on fear, or yearning. They will seek more "stuff" - material things like cars, houses, clothes and of course, sex. But all too often they are seeking to fulfil a deeper need. It might be a need for love, acceptance, connectedness, acknowledgement, or just to feel OK about themselves more often. Orgasm coaching is so popular because it offers all this and more.

    The Orgasm Coach Lisa TurnerApart from loads of fun and laughter the workshops are a journey of unfolding including:

    - Putting down your emotional baggage. We use some highly sophisticated techniques that enable you to let go of negative emotions, and here's the best bit, you don't have to sit around doing a load of navel gazing.

    Instead we just take you through a process that actually releases your emotions like anger, sadness, fear, hurt or guilt. You don't just "feel better" or "understand your problem" or "work through them" nor do you just talk about them. After the process they are just GONE.

    - You also remove the blocks to your sexuality, sexual pleasure or sexual energy. This might be damaging beliefs like "I'm not worthy" or "I'm not attractive". If you think any of these they will stop your pleasure in its tracks. Once again this is a painless exercise.

    - Raising your sexual energy. This includes physical movement, similar to yoga or Chi Gong, as well as other things like breathing techniques and learning to move energy around your body.

    - Everyone's favourite - the exercises to strengthen and lengthen orgasm. The effects are not instant but are astonishing!

    - Fun homework which allows you to learn how to master your orgasm. And yes that means exactly what you imagine it does! My legal advisor tells me that no-one is to actually have an orgasm in the class and I don't know how I would police that, so we set this one for homework!

    - Transmuting your orgasmic energy is the part most people come for (excuse the pun). This is what will turn your normal genital orgasm into a full body orgasm. Once you have learnt to do this you will never settle for an ordinary orgasm again.

    - We also include "The Tantric Kiss" where you exchange orgasmic energy with your partner, doubling the bliss. It is an extraordinary experience that is, quite simply, beyond words.

    - Finally you learn the art of sex magic, which isn't really magic at all, but it does increase your personal presence, charisma and inner resourcefulness. It is a technique to send your orgasmic energy out into the cosmos or universe as a gift of gratitude. When you do that you turn your ordinary orgasm into a cosmic orgasm.

    So what can you expect after you have attended one of our workshops?

    Durex Play O Female Orgasm GelWell first of all everyone experiences a new sense of lightness once they have released their emotions. They feel more confident, empowered and centred. Many report a sense of bliss or joy that permeates their whole lives.

    Women, including those who have never been able to achieve orgasm before, reconnect with their sexuality and become both sexually empowered and confident. Once the blocks have been removed and they give themselves permission to surrender to pleasure, orgasm becomes natural, inevitable and intense. Once they give themselves permission to open up as a sexual being they become electrically alluring. They begin to have an air of mystique and intrigue about them. People wonder "What is it about her?"

    Men find themselves able to open up emotionally in a way that is appropriate and both powerful and empowering for others. This makes them more magnetic and approachable. Others instinctively feel safe with men who are emotionally open, whereas people often feel that those whose emotions are closed are a bit creepy or lecherous. This is an energetic response to energy stuck in the pelvic region. By connecting at an emotional level rather than a lustful one attracts women.

    It's so much more than just a great sex-life. It's about a great life.


    Thank you so much to Orgasm Coach, Lisa Turner for her month of brilliant blogs! To find out more about Lisa and to experience one of her life changing sessions, please visit her Orgasm Coach website.

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