We are both in our fifties and what turns us on is watching each other masturbate. Is this strange?
No you're not strange - and I'm really pleased for you that your sex life is getting better and better! Masturbating in front of each other takes courage.
We are both in our fifties and our sex life is great - in fact it gets better with age. What turns us on is watching each other masturbate. Are there DVDs on masturbation, or are we strange?
No you're not strange - and I'm really pleased for you that your sex life is getting better and better!
Masturbating in front of each other takes courage - but as you've discovered, the benefits are well worth overcoming any initial embarrassment.
Both men and women often complain that partners don't touch them the way they'd like to be touched - this is the best way of showing each other what you like best, by letting someone witness first-hand how you pleasure yourself. Not to mention that the sight of you losing yourself in your own (normally private) ecstasy is incredibly erotic.
There are also more DVDs on the subject than you can shake a stick at - just google it - or check out Lovehoney's selection of Better Sex DVDs.
If you've never tried it, have a go at putting the soles of your feet together when you masturbate, so your knees are splayed out to the side. It increases pressure in the groin, making everything even more enjoyable - and intensifying your climax.
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