• We are both in our fifties and what turns us on is watching each other masturbate. Is this strange?

    We are both in our fifties and what turns us on is watching each other masturbate. Is this strange?

    No you're not strange - and I'm really pleased for you that your sex life is getting better and better! Masturbating in front of each other takes courage.


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    We are both in our fifties and our sex life is great - in fact it gets better with age. What turns us on is watching each other masturbate. Are there DVDs on masturbation, or are we strange?

    Julie Answers...Julie Says:

    No you're not strange - and I'm really pleased for you that your sex life is getting better and better!

    Masturbating in front of each other takes courage - but as you've discovered, the benefits are well worth overcoming any initial embarrassment.

    Both men and women often complain that partners don't touch them the way they'd like to be touched - this is the best way of showing each other what you like best, by letting someone witness first-hand how you pleasure yourself. Not to mention that the sight of you losing yourself in your own (normally private) ecstasy is incredibly erotic.

    There are also more DVDs on the subject than you can shake a stick at - just google it - or check out Lovehoney's selection of Better Sex DVDs.

    If you've never tried it, have a go at putting the soles of your feet together when you masturbate, so your knees are splayed out to the side. It increases pressure in the groin, making everything even more enjoyable - and intensifying your climax.

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    Comments (2)

    • becks: June 16, 2009 11:30
      hi, my partner and I both adore watching the other masturbate and touching ourselves.

      If you want to suprise and excite your partner try videoing your orgasm on your mobile/cell phone and texting it to them, (you don'tneed ot be technical to do this, or young we aren't and adore titilatign each other with saucty texts and vids) we do this periodically and it really gets us going, then when we do see each other and make love the need to touch, watch, taste and smell both ourselves and the other is intense and fun.

      No your not odd just two very healthy folks :)

    • wet wet wet: June 20, 2009 08:00
      Not at all. you learn how to masturbate each other by watching each other 'do' them selves. I always tell my husband ' Do it yourself baby I love to watch' I love that look on his face just before he cums - if i see it when I am sucking or giving him a hand job I know I am doing it right. Really lovely to watch someone else do it to him and to me then to fuck for them so they know what to aim for next time. Hours of good hot, fun with a wet play area guaranteed.

      Yours shaved wet and throbing - about to play with myself again. Hope this made you just a little hot and horny and up to play.

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