• My boyfriend is rather small and can't get into many positions. Have you got any tips for us?

    My boyfriend is rather small and can't get into many positions. Have you got any tips for us?

    Penis size is a sensitive subject that society tends to place a great deal of importance on, but the truth is that a penis of almost any size can satisfy a woman.


    Question for JulieQuestion:

    My boyfriend is on the rather small side of things and he can't get into very many positions... is there anything that we can do to make things less boring?

    And how can he help to get me there... since he gets there rather fast, if you know what I mean... and he doesn't like toys...

    Julie Answers...Julie Says:

    Penis size is a sensitive subject that society tends to place a great deal of importance on, but the truth is that a penis of almost any size can satisfy a woman.

    The average length of the female vagina is just four inches - with only the first third being really sensitive, so a guy doesn't have to be hung like a donkey to be a good lover.

    Having said that, it's true that some sexual positions can be particularly useful for the less well-endowed. Doggie-style, on your knees with him on his knees behind you, is one of the best for deep penetration, and can make even the smallest willy feel large. And the 'V' is also good for drilling deep - lie on your back with each one of your legs in your partner's hands in a 'V' shape, as he kneels in front of you.

    All penises have roughly the same number of nerve endings in the head, meaning that a smaller one has them crammed into a smaller space, making it more sensitive. So, if your man's is small, he's more likely to climax quicker!

    One thing that he can do to overcome this is to masturbate regularly in order to practise controlling his climax and to make himself less sensitive. He could also try a condom like Durex Performa, which contains a special desensitising lubricant in the tip, to delay orgasm and prolong lovemaking.

    You'll be able to get there more easily if he concentrates on foreplay, and stimulates you with his hand or tongue so you're close to coming before he even enters you. Or he can delay things by having an orgasm first - so he lasts longer second time around.

    Comments (1)

    • stephanie: June 07, 2009 13:27
      U should get a penis exstender for him then it should hold him same time lol
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