Welcome from Julie

If you're in a relationship rut and want to re-ignite the spark, or you'd like to learn some new tricks and be more sexually confident, or you have zero libido and just want some advice and reassurance - I'm here to help.

I've always refused to believe that our sex lives have to become boring, or even completely disintegrate, as we settle down in a relationship. Don't get me wrong – I accept that the steamy euphoria of the first six months has to calm down, so you can put your knickers back on and pay the bills. I just don't accept that we have to sink into the inevitability of cosy slippers and a cup of cocoa, when we may still crave some life-enhancing passion and romance – no matter how old we are!

Every one of us is different, and we each deserve the best we can get - sometimes we just need some help getting there. I hope my ideas will inform, inspire and improve your love life - regardless of your age, sexual orientation, whether you've been in a relationship for years, or are newly enjoying each other.

I'll try to answer as many of your questions as I can on the site - and you'll also find my product reviews and video tips too . I hope you'll find them enlightening, fun - and stimulating!