Reader Tips: Try a little playful spanking!
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Spanking can be good fun in the bedroom. A good way to find out if you like it is to playfully pull your partner over your knee when you're messing around.
Start with light spankings with your hand. This is often as far as your partner will want to take it. My wife enjoys this but doesn't like hard spankings. On the other hand, I do enjoy it harder.
If you find that you like harder spankings experiment with whether hand spanking is hard enough, and whether it hurts the other partner's hand too much.
To go harder try a variety of paddles. Some are very soft and bendy, others are more rigid. Try slapping them against your hand to find out roughly how it will feel when bent over.
Lovehoney has a spanking selection of whips, crops and paddles.