• How to introduce a vibrator into your relationship

    Want to use a vibrator with your partner without making them feel inadequate? Read our relationship vibe guide on how vibrators make for stronger, longer orgasms for both of you...


    It doesn't matter if your sex life is red-hot or in need of a passion injection, vibrators are sex bombs when it comes to mutual and solo orgasms, with the potential to blow your sexual arena wide-open.

    Lovehoney Jessica Rabbit 2.0 Rabbit VibratorPeople have always laughed about how vibrators are the sole territory of terminally single girls or sluts, but that couldn't be further from the truth. A range of surveys and research in magazines claim that around 1 in 5 women now own a vibrator, which means there's a good chance your next-door neighbour, dentist or workmate uses a vibe.

    But to hell with everyone else, the only people we care about getting good vibes are you and your partner. While we're the first to admit vibrators can make masturbation incredibly easy, vibes are magnificent for helping you both come harder and faster. With that in mind, here are some sexy pointers on how vibrators add a sensual dimension to your sexual routine while enhancing your relationship.

    Vibrators make sex better!


    Using a vibe doesn't mean your sex life is rubbish, so banishing your partner's fear of inadequacy should be first on your list. Using a vibe is a fun way of reaffirming your mutual trust, making you more open-minded, intimate and confident with each other's bodies.


    Many women find it hard to achieve orgasm through penetrative sex, while some guys have trouble maintaining erections, so vibes can be the perfect solution. For example, while having sex in the Congress Of A Cow kneeling position (on all fours), your partner can use a vibrator to stimulate your clitoris while they enter you from behind.

    They can even control the speed patterns to match their own pace!

    Choose your vibrator together


    Lovehoney Aquagasm Waterproof Rabbit VibratorShopping for vibrators can be a major turn-on. There's nothing better than romping through pages of glittery, sleek or colourful vibes that will bring you both to a monstrous climax. Shopping online with your partner is the best way of relieving any embarrassment when choosing vibrators.


    Because it's your first vibe together, opt for a simple multispeed vibe without too many attachments that may scare your partner. Check out the Silencer vibrator, a quiet but powerful vibe; the Lovehoney Aquagasm Waterproof Rabbit Vibrator, with clit stimulator for dual shower-time fun, or the iBuzz Two, a portable 'musical vibe' device your partner can get their rocks off to while rocking out.

    You can then trade up for more adventurous vibes such as the Tracey Cox Supersex Pleasure vibe, Turbo Jack Rabbit Pearl vibrator or the Frisky Forefinger Sex Toy Kit for a more hands-on approach.

    It's good to talk


    The most important thing to remember when using a vibrator with your partner for the first time is to keep talking to each other. Even though your lover may have initially agreed to use a vibrator with you, make sure you ask them throughout what works for them, what's turning them on and what speed/vibrating function they like.


    Similarly, if your partner is using a vibe on you, reassure them by expressing yourself. Watching a lover writhing with lust is an erotic experience, so why not give your partner a vibe demonstration by using it on yourself before focusing your attention on him?

    Ensure it goes smoothly


    Durex Play Mint Tingle LubricantUsing a vibrator together for the first time can be daunting without having to worry about whether you're wet enough, so make it as comfortable as possible for both of you. Lubricant is essential for making vibrators slide the right way, and for avoiding injury to dry orifices. Check out our vibe-loving lubricants including Liquid Silk Lube, Aquaglide Original Lubricant and Durex Play Mint Tingle for added zing!

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