• How to use a vibrator

    Experience mind-blowing orgasms with our easy-to-follow tips on using a vibrator. Ready, steady, orgasm!


    How do I use a vibrator?

    If you normally let your fingers do the walking, give them a hard-earned rest and discover ways to use a vibrator. Whether you're part of a sexy twosome or flying solo until the right playmate comes along, smooth Ladyfinger-type vibrators will make you scream, moan and writhe with pleasure - once you've discovered the best vibrator use.

    Beautiful, sleek and relentless in their quest for your orgasm, these slimline vibes are a great place to start for vibe virgins and for girls who want clit and vaginal stimulation without deep penetration.

    Lady Lustfinger Mini VibratorLadyfinger vibrators are perfect for those of you who like your vibes immaculately packaged and easy to handle. Our favourites include the Lady Lustfinger, a sleek 5-inch vibrator with twist-operated base control and multispeed function, available in white, silver and gold; the Crystal Clear mini vibrator, available in purple or pink, dainty enough for your handbag but powerful enough to pack a clit-tingling buzz

    The Deluxe Super Sleek Smooth vibrator, shiny enough to act as a mirror if you've lost your compact, and the Tracey Cox Supersex Pleasure Vibe are also top of the pops for super smooth and incredibly quiet vibrations.

    Use a vibrator on your own


    For those of you playing by yourself, the vibe world is your erotic oyster. There are several ways to use a vibrator on your own, the most common of which is to use it as a clitoral stimulator.

     

    You can do this by simply choosing your desired vibration pattern and speed, applying some lube to make things nice and slippery, then moving the vibe around your clit until you come. That's a basic, but extremely enjoyable approach to orgasming with a vibrator. But why not spice things up a bit?

    ID Sensation Warming Liquid 115mlIf you're the type of girl who comes in seconds when using a vibe, why not prolong your orgasm by concentrating your efforts on other parts of your body first? Depending on the material of your Ladyfinger vibe, you may want to warm the cold plastic feel with some warming lubricant such as WET Warming Lubricant, KY Warming Liquid or ID Sensation Warming Liquid.

    Once you're all fired up, start by choosing the slowest speed setting or gentlest vibration pattern (you can work your way up to the more powerful settings).

     

    Experiment with your vibrator


    Experiment and track down your different erogenous zones by rubbing your vibrator over various parts of your body including those you
    wouldn't necessarily think were sexy, like behind your neck, behind your knees and down your sides, as well as over your breasts, abdomen and the inside of your thighs.

     

    You can try out the various speed settings and vibration patterns on these areas of your body before eventually reaching
    your clitoris.

     

    Use a vibrator with your partner


    Ladyfinger-type vibrators are also couple-friendly, and while your partner can use one on you, you can also use one to masturbate in front of him or, even better, masturbate him.

     

    Mantric Dinky Pink Mini VibratorTo do this, get your partner to lie on his back with his legs open, apply plenty of lube and hold the vibe against the shaft of his penis, gently sliding it up and down, on the tip of his penis and on the base of his shaft and round to his balls and perineum for a rocket-launch orgasm he won't ever forget!

    Comments (6)

    • mario: June 26, 2008 18:24
      please can u tell me haw can i orgasm late becouse i am orgasming in 3 minutes when iam with my wife and is not that good i want to go more lest 20 minute but i cant controle my self and my wife orgasm very late i am injogen very much but it will be better if i orgasm late than we can have both enjoe better
    • Carly: April 28, 2009 12:33
      Mario the best thing to do to stop climaxing so quickly is to learn to control yourself, when you feel the orgasm approaching withdraw and concentrate on a part of your wifes body, kiss her neck, caress her legs...inner thighs..this will also allow for her orgasm to be more powerful as you are giving her that extra foreplay too. when you feel ready again and enter her but slow down the pace, build yourself up again to orgasm but stop when close this time stay inside her but barely move....whilst doing this you are also building yourself up for an amazing orgasm. Do it for as long as you can!

      Give it a go and good luck!

    • kirsty: May 09, 2009 16:06
      its better than my fella ;->
    • Iq: July 18, 2009 12:14
      i want my wife to stick that up my bum
    • jim teds: December 10, 2010 17:24
      hello, can you tell me the best way to analy stimulate myself? can i cause myself to orgasm by this alone?
    • missi: February 20, 2011 01:09
      Ive tryd everything an i just tence put or cnt get it then it hurts i dnt know if its me bt ive tryd lodes ov toys im a single mum n dint want get a man just for sex cud u help im gettng really stressed its been over a year since ive come.
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